xoxtomoxox
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im all alone .. and dats how i surivie ;) ..xxx
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Post by xoxtomoxox on Apr 26, 2006 13:37:08 GMT -5
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Post by sleeplesshadow on Apr 26, 2006 13:48:49 GMT -5
...I think it's really romantic (what a dusgusting word) if you write each other. But...i know...if he doesn't believe that he can do it, and he isn't willing to try things to make it possible, maybe he isn't the one??? I don't know, i have never had this problem. Hope things work out well. Praying for you.
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Post by taylor on Apr 26, 2006 14:39:22 GMT -5
dont sound like he is into the relationship as much as you are. Have you talked about it lots? I mean come on its 40 minutes. If he REALLLLY loved you that wouldnt be a big deal. peole whio love each other sacrafice things and 40 minutes is not a whole lot. Ive had friends that wer dating for awhile and one went to belgium and he came out 2 weeks after to stay there with her so when its true love BOTH parties make it work. If he isnt willing to make it happen then he is not commited to the relationship as much as you think he is. ACTIONS speak louder then words right???
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xoxtomoxox
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unforgettable...x
im all alone .. and dats how i surivie ;) ..xxx
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Post by xoxtomoxox on Apr 26, 2006 14:48:56 GMT -5
omg yeah your sooo right! but we have talked he's not saying its a total no! he sed dat 2 days a week seeing me would kill him bcos he's used te cn me evry day and it wud hurt alot , e broke up wit me bocs of it and den the next day he begged 4 me back saying it was a mistake , i just dont understand he's saying it wud hurt 2 muc but wudnt not cn eachother hurt more? xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Post by Beautiful Disaster on Apr 26, 2006 15:07:36 GMT -5
Not seeing each other would hurt more you are right. If he's going to play games about it though then maybe it isn't worth it. He should be willing to try and see you as much as he can and you try and go see him as much as you can. 40 minutes away isnt' very far me and my boyfriend used to live 2 hours away from each other and we talked every day and saw each other when we could and we never had any problems so it is do-able it just depends on how much effort each person is willing to go through to make it work and with that comes how much you love each other because thats what powers it to WANT to do it. If he's so easy to give up and break up like that then he doesnt sound commited to you or the relationship in my opnion.
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Post by MuHa Feel the Wrath on Apr 26, 2006 15:42:21 GMT -5
Just move away and see what happens think of it as a "test" if he loves you he will try really hard and if he doesnt then he wont try very hard. I dont know what to do but I think seeing each other would make it better not harder. He alreasy seems non-commited by breaking up all the time anywho ya kno
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Post by GrapeJuice on Apr 26, 2006 16:34:09 GMT -5
Hello xoxtomoxox welcome to Teen Vibe!
I am going to have to agree with whats already been said, Your boyfriend doesn't sound very commited to you. Do you feel the same way? I am only getting this from what you have told us. A relationship that breaks up and gets back together doesn't seem healthy. If you knew you loved each other and wanted to be together then why break up? Thats just how I see it though. They are right 40 minutes away is not far at all and with the right "want" it is possible to have a relationship work. I think if he can't do that or doesn't want to try hard, like they said actions do speak louder then words, then I would suggest maybe moving on and finding someone more commited into the relationship if that is what you want.
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xoxtomoxox
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unforgettable...x
im all alone .. and dats how i surivie ;) ..xxx
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Post by xoxtomoxox on Apr 26, 2006 17:03:55 GMT -5
just 2 say thanx 2 evry 1 4 de gr8 advice!!!!!!!! , i seem him 2day has normal and i desided 2 speak up, he was actualy really shocked that i was soo worried! he said that he is gona try evrything and that all we can do is wait and see how evrything go's,and then he said its gona take him alot ore than 40minz 2 keep him away from me!! so thanx evry1 if it wasnt 4 all u'z! god knows ow long id be worryn! lol luv u all xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Post by GrapeJuice on Apr 26, 2006 17:06:13 GMT -5
lol Well I hope it all works out, You know if you have anymore problems with this we are always here to help anytime. Hopefully he pulls through on this!!
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xoxtomoxox
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unforgettable...x
im all alone .. and dats how i surivie ;) ..xxx
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Post by xoxtomoxox on Apr 26, 2006 17:15:19 GMT -5
i no de best place 2 eva go !! all the diff veiwz!! i hope e pulls trough 2 !!! lol xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx thanx again
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Post by Dreamers Dream on Apr 27, 2006 3:59:43 GMT -5
i no de best place 2 eva go !! all the diff veiwz!! i hope e pulls trough 2 !!! lol xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx thanx again It would be interesting to find out what happens Will you have a computer at the place your moving to? Remeber good or bad we like to hear
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xoxtomoxox
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unforgettable...x
im all alone .. and dats how i surivie ;) ..xxx
Posts: 48
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Post by xoxtomoxox on Apr 27, 2006 6:12:47 GMT -5
ha corse i will cant live witout my computer! lol i promise te keep u updated!!! xxxxxxxxxxx
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Post by Aviator on Apr 27, 2006 15:39:19 GMT -5
Good luck Stephanie!
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xoxtomoxox
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unforgettable...x
im all alone .. and dats how i surivie ;) ..xxx
Posts: 48
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Post by xoxtomoxox on Apr 28, 2006 16:46:06 GMT -5
thanx babes!!!
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xoxtomoxox
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unforgettable...x
im all alone .. and dats how i surivie ;) ..xxx
Posts: 48
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Post by xoxtomoxox on May 12, 2006 10:58:44 GMT -5
ah jus te tell evry1 we broke up yestrday! lolxx
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Post by Beautiful Disaster on May 16, 2006 1:43:50 GMT -5
What why? It seemed like you guy were really into each other.
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xoxtomoxox
Newbie
unforgettable...x
im all alone .. and dats how i surivie ;) ..xxx
Posts: 48
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Post by xoxtomoxox on May 16, 2006 12:29:52 GMT -5
e turned out 2 b just like all the rest wich really surprized me~! lol well atleast im better off , and now that something happened and im not moving! lol he's sick 2 his stomach xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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