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Post by xbrokenxdreams on Aug 4, 2006 14:08:59 GMT -5
So if you've read any of my other posts you would know that my best friend/exgf died last saturday.
Now my little sister is asking about her and where she went. She and my little sisters were pretty close. They would call her aunt katie and stuff and she was always playing with them and stuff.
What should I tell my little sister?
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Post by Web Master on Aug 4, 2006 14:19:12 GMT -5
How old is she?
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Post by xbrokenxdreams on Aug 4, 2006 14:23:59 GMT -5
Well technically shes six but she has a learning dissability that affects her verbal communication skills, meaning her speech and her understanding of speech. So she only talks as much as an average 2 year old and understands as much as an average 3-4 year old.
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Post by Web Master on Aug 4, 2006 14:34:20 GMT -5
Well it all depends what she knows already about death. Has she ever had a pet die or someone else pass away? and is she maturer then most kids her age?
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Post by WilD CherrY on Aug 4, 2006 15:10:34 GMT -5
You could explain it by the lion king movie Idk cuz I've never been in that position but when my neices friend died my auntie just explained to her that she went with the angels and stuff.
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Post by xbrokenxdreams on Aug 4, 2006 15:27:20 GMT -5
The only thing that shes ever had die is one time when she stepped on a bug. We had to burry it and she cried for like an hour.
Thats a good idea Wildcherry maybe ill do it that way.
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Post by WilD CherrY on Aug 4, 2006 15:36:26 GMT -5
AWWWWWW OMG THATS SO CUTE with the bug thing
yeah just be like shes gone to help the angels but you might not see her for a very very long time.
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Post by xbrokenxdreams on Aug 4, 2006 15:45:59 GMT -5
yeah i know ok I will. i dont wanna tell her.. i dont want to see her cry.
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Post by WilD CherrY on Aug 4, 2006 15:49:39 GMT -5
Yeah I know just be gentle and try not to use words she doesn't understand. Let it be knowne that shes not going to see her so she doesn't wait for her to come back or anythhing just say shes "gone on Vacation for a long time" or something
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Post by xbrokenxdreams on Aug 4, 2006 17:53:19 GMT -5
Awwwh i told her. She's crying and shes mad at me she wont talk to me. awwwh i feel so bad.
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Post by GrapeJuice on Aug 4, 2006 22:41:56 GMT -5
aww She will stop soon, just give her time.
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Post by !Dances With Hamsters! on Aug 5, 2006 0:35:55 GMT -5
Dont feel too bad you had to tell her right? How is she doing now?
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Post by xbrokenxdreams on Aug 5, 2006 15:43:28 GMT -5
She's ok now I guess. She said she's not mad at me anymore but she's still sad.
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Post by WilD CherrY on Aug 6, 2006 3:44:24 GMT -5
Im glad it all went well. She wont be mad at u for long.
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Post by xbrokenxdreams on Aug 6, 2006 3:50:17 GMT -5
shes not mad at me anymore. but i think shes afraid im going to die too tho. shes been sticking to me like glue.
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Post by WilD CherrY on Aug 6, 2006 3:59:05 GMT -5
Aww no she just wants to be close to you
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Post by xbrokenxdreams on Aug 6, 2006 13:53:01 GMT -5
yeah i mean she always follows me around and stuff but not like this. i mean she wont even let me go to the bathroom without taking her. she cries if i leave her for even a second.
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