Post by Guest on Apr 28, 2006 22:41:03 GMT -5
moronicscarecrow said:
see maybe we should just forget this thread ever existed... i know its fine... i'm open about it... i do it... i liek doing it... etc etc etc... no i was never abused... "...and the only real thing you should worry about when masturbating is what ways you should use to reach climax..."
see... when i said trashy as it was the only thing i could think that matched the feelings... it was more to do with the above quote, its a mental thing and i dont know why... if you would really really like to dwell really deep into this lets say actual fingering (vagina) for some reason makes me feel like shit afterwards... i feel really crappy and i dunno why... didnt used to but now i do i have gotten to the stage i would not let someone finger me because i would just be so uncomfortable (when i say that i mean after and days possibly weeks later)
Masterbation comes with lust. Paul warns us about sexual sin in many of his letters. I know the trashy feeling you're talking about. It's called your conscience. You know it's "wrong," from a Biblical perspective (even if the world accepts it, you know it's not something you want your parents to walk in on you). Even if you would argue to say that masterbation is a sin, in 1 Corinthians it talks about how we should follow our convictions. If we are convicted that masterbation is wrong and you feel guilty afterwards, then you are sinning if you do it again, against your conviction.
I know it's hard to overcome, but that's the best and only way to overcome the guilty feelings, or otherwise do it so much that you desensitize yourself it the feeling. I'd choose the first choice.