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Post by Angels{Will cry} on Nov 8, 2006 0:43:25 GMT -5
I have a buddy her name is Angela. And she's one year older then me. She's fifteen, and she met one of my friends in Early September, his name was Jesee. And that night Jesse was apparantly craving sex and Angela thought he liked her { Well, she's big big} So they did it, and the next week he called her and cussed her out and left her. Now it's 2 months later and she found out she was pregnant a week ago, her parents no longer trust her, they won't let her talk to anyone they think she's insane. Jesse is now trying to get involved, I also heard he is moving. She isn't sure if she wants to abort the baby, put up for adoption, or simply keep it Help her out
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Post by Dreamers Dream on Nov 8, 2006 1:40:40 GMT -5
The choice is hers, you weren't very clear if Jesse or her parents know about the pregnancy. Does she feel like she would be able to look after a child in everyway? She really has alot of questions to ask herself.
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Post by Alcohol4ever on Nov 8, 2006 7:10:12 GMT -5
Whatever she decides will be a good choice. Me personally, if I wasn't ready at twelve, and I'm still not ready, I'd put it up for adoption. I'm 16 now, and still now ready.
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Post by Sparkle on Nov 8, 2006 13:18:04 GMT -5
I think she needs to do some serious thinking about herslef nd her morals, and in the end it's her that has to decide.
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Post by Marzon on Nov 8, 2006 16:38:42 GMT -5
The best thing she can do is put it up for adoption. She can't take care of it, she's too young; she still has to take care of herself. If she doesn't want abortion, then she doesn't have to. If I were her, give it up for adoption and ignore the guy.
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Post by Emy-Dawn on Nov 8, 2006 21:02:53 GMT -5
The best thing she can do is put it up for adoption. that is true its better then abortion. She can't take care of it, she's too young; she still has to take care of herself. thats not true becauuse some people have children at that age and can take care of it, it just depends on your situation.
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Post by Marzon on Nov 8, 2006 22:46:49 GMT -5
The best thing she can do is put it up for adoption. that is true its better then abortion. She can't take care of it, she's too young; she still has to take care of herself. thats not true becauuse some people have children at that age and can take care of it, it just depends on your situation. I still don't agree with it. If you're 15, the last thing you should do is take care of a baby. Babies don't come cheap you know..
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Post by Sparkle on Nov 9, 2006 1:58:29 GMT -5
Does she have money income? Support? Can she handle it? These are all factors your friend needs to look into...
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Post by !__ANOMALY on Dec 9, 2006 16:01:42 GMT -5
I agree, it all just depends. If she doesn't want to take care of it, she could put it up for adoption or get an abortion. The problem with putting it up for adoption is that some girls, whether or not they keep the child, end up dropping out of school when they're pregnant. Sometimes the emotional baggage of being pregnant, especially so young, plus school, is a lot for someone to juggle, and some people can't do it. If it were me, I would think about my future, and I would probably get an abortion. She needs to think about her morals, her situation, and her future as well as her overall mental, emotional, and physical state.
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