Erla
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Mar 26, 2006 13:23:39 GMT -5
Post by Erla on Mar 26, 2006 13:23:39 GMT -5
This has been mentioned in another thread, but I decided to make a special thread for this.
Around my 15th birthday, which was about 5 months ago, I started talking to this guy, Jói, who is 34 years old. It was this chat thingy in my mobile. I talked to him for about a week before I decided to meet him. I don't know why I decided to, I just wanted to meet him. I met him close to my home and I got in his car and we drove to his home. I know it was incredibly stupid of me and he could've hurt/raped/killed me but I just sort of didn't realise till I got home from meeting him. Anyway, I slept with him, and it was my first time. I'm not gonna go into any details but he was really good to me and all, and was always asking if I was ok and if I wanted to stop. I met him 3 more times, and all of those times we had sex and then chatted a bit and then he drove me home.
My question to you is; do you think he's sick?
Cause I've had that reaction from my friends when I ask them. I mean, they support me and all but they think Jói's sick and one of them went as far as to call him a child molester (which I think is pretty harsh). My friend, Sól, has gone from making jokes ("Haha, you're a stepmom") and to calling him a disgusting pervert.
I would really like your opinions
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Mar 26, 2006 15:17:52 GMT -5
Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Mar 26, 2006 15:17:52 GMT -5
My opnions on this may be harsh because the same thing happened to someone I know who was also 15 seeing a guy that was 34. I think he is sick. I think the only reason why he is soo nice to you is to get down your pants. I don't think its a good idea because you don't know his past he could be a child molester and you wouldn't even know it. Especially if you met him on the net. He could be a creeper and could be seeing more young girls other then just you. I don't think its a good idea to see him but it is up too you.
The person I know met the guy off the net too. He's now on the website Perverted Justice so, be carefull!
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Mar 26, 2006 16:39:20 GMT -5
Post by stars2mind on Mar 26, 2006 16:39:20 GMT -5
my opinion is that there are some ppl in the world who date the oldest ppl..and everything, but i say you know if your happy your happy...but the one thing i have to say is that babycakes is right...you dont know bout his past or if he is dating someone you dont know about....cause he is old enough to do anything...meaning he has a car, he could drive. he could lie to you and you probably believe it...not saying that your a very gullible person im just stating some possible facts...you know!!
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Erla
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Mar 26, 2006 16:44:33 GMT -5
Post by Erla on Mar 26, 2006 16:44:33 GMT -5
I'm not seeing him. We broke it off cause I was afraid mum would find out and because I figured it would be best.
"I think the only reason why he is soo nice to you is to get down your pants."
Our whole relationship was built on sex, so... (My friend called him my "*beep*-buddy")
I did think about the possibility that he's a creep who picks up teenage girls, but I don't know.....he doesn't have a computer, which is the easiest way to seduce teenage girls, but he still could be of course...
He just doesn't strike me as a child molester, though....I don't know....
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Mar 26, 2006 16:50:04 GMT -5
Post by stars2mind on Mar 26, 2006 16:50:04 GMT -5
lol...f**k buddy? nice name huh? hehe.........thats kool your mom would of freaked huh? ell that the mother natural feelings i guess...hehe
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Mar 26, 2006 17:01:16 GMT -5
Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Mar 26, 2006 17:01:16 GMT -5
Alot of the times when older men are trying to get with younger girls you don't suspect them to be child molesters. They try to cover it up as best as they can and sometimes you never know. They can be doctors, lawyers etc and you don't know. On Perverted Justice one guy is a police man!!! Many people look normal on the outside but there good at manipulating people especially young people. They don't need to have their own home computer. Most of the time they find these guys in internet cafes or the library. Just watch out for them sometimes its easy to see what there doing but sometimes there pretty sly!
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Mar 26, 2006 17:03:00 GMT -5
Post by Erla on Mar 26, 2006 17:03:00 GMT -5
My mother would murder me. And him.
Which is why I'm never gonna let her find out, if I can help it
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Mar 26, 2006 17:03:55 GMT -5
Post by stars2mind on Mar 26, 2006 17:03:55 GMT -5
good point!!!
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Mar 26, 2006 17:10:59 GMT -5
Post by Erla on Mar 26, 2006 17:10:59 GMT -5
Alot of the times when older men are trying to get with younger girls you don't suspect them to be child molesters. They try to cover it up as best as they can and sometimes you never know. They can be doctors, lawyers etc and you don't know. On Perverted Justice one guy is a police man!!! Many people look normal on the outside but there good at manipulating people especially young people. They don't need to have their own home computer. Most of the time they find these guys in internet cafes or the library. Just watch out for them sometimes its easy to see what there doing but sometimes there pretty sly! I know, I'm not naive (as much as it may sound I am, I'm not....I just made a mistake), but still, there was just something about the way he acts. I'm not saying he isn't, but y'know...
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Mar 26, 2006 17:13:32 GMT -5
Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Mar 26, 2006 17:13:32 GMT -5
Sorry I just have to post this...... This guy was trying to get a 12 yr old girl!! A part of there convo taken from Perverted Justice. "navyboy_usn (5:35:10 PM): hey whats up would you like to chat? itsybitsyspyder92 (5:35:16 PM): hi ya navyboy_usn (5:35:19 PM): hey itsybitsyspyder92 (5:35:21 PM): im 12/f/portland u? navyboy_usn (5:35:36 PM): 21 male everett wash itsybitsyspyder92 (5:35:47 PM): kewl navyboy_usn (5:35:56 PM): you like older guys? itsybitsyspyder92 (5:36:09 PM): lol ya if dey r nice navyboy_usn (5:36:22 PM): yea, I can be really nice itsybitsyspyder92 (5:36:38 PM): kewl navyboy_usn (5:36:59 PM): So what are you doing today? itsybitsyspyder92 (5:37:22 PM): nuttin jus bored n chattin?? navyboy_usn (5:37:36 PM): yea me too. navyboy_usn (5:37:50 PM): and i am home alone itsybitsyspyder92 (5:37:56 PM): ya me 2 navyboy_usn (5:38:18 PM): hehe, cool. navyboy_usn (5:38:35 PM): tobad I couldnt come over and hang out with you" Its just that easy.. sorry it makes me sick
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Mar 26, 2006 17:15:06 GMT -5
Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Mar 26, 2006 17:15:06 GMT -5
oh I don't mean your situation makes me sick I mean like old guys that try to get lil girls.
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Mar 26, 2006 17:24:25 GMT -5
Post by Erla on Mar 26, 2006 17:24:25 GMT -5
Yeah, I know what you mean
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Mar 26, 2006 17:35:52 GMT -5
Post by stars2mind on Mar 26, 2006 17:35:52 GMT -5
how old was that dude
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Mar 26, 2006 17:43:16 GMT -5
Post by Erla on Mar 26, 2006 17:43:16 GMT -5
21, he says in the convo
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Mar 26, 2006 18:14:52 GMT -5
Post by littlemikey on Mar 26, 2006 18:14:52 GMT -5
It sure makes me feel sick...
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Mar 26, 2006 18:18:18 GMT -5
Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Mar 26, 2006 18:18:18 GMT -5
Yeah well the convo gets gross so I decided not to post it
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Mar 26, 2006 18:27:01 GMT -5
Post by stars2mind on Mar 26, 2006 18:27:01 GMT -5
thats a good thing...i hope!!
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