Post by rawr.PANDA on Dec 3, 2006 20:07:19 GMT -5
so this boy, right? His name is Courtney.
he's great.
background info:
i've known Courtney since June...I don't hang out with him very often though..maybe once a week...at least until i get my license in the next couple weeks...but anyway, we kind of had a "thing" going on way earlier, then we stopped talking for a month when his best friend had a thing for me.. He didn't talk to me during that, not because he didn't want to talk to me, but because he didn't want to get in the way of anything that his friend might have with me (which was nothing)...then we started talking again after his friend stopped liking me, and we're really close now... the first time we were talking, his ex-girlfriend, monica, was very very "protective" of him to say the least. She didn't want other girls talking to him, she didn't want him hanging out with other girls, or talking about other girls. We were a little more than friends but she wouldn't even like him talking to me if we were just friends. She started talking to me via Myspace. and since it's against the rules to post the messages she sent me, i'll just say, they were very ignorant (not to mention, badly typed.) she would say things along the lines of 'stay away from courtney, blah blah, he doesn't like you, he doesn't want you, he's my man...' yeah, stuff like that. I did message her back everytime, which was my mistake, but i was always as nice as i possibly could be to her. she was really weird and kind of stalker-ish...she would say they were going out, she would say that they were hanging out that weekend and that they did all sorts of things together...uh...no...Courtney didn't like her, He rarely hung out with her, and they didnt' do the things she was talking about. hmm crazy? yeah. i'd say so. anyway...i'm typing too much...but
now:
me and Courtney like eachother...however he doesn't have the guts to ask me out just yet, but I think it's cute (still frustrating though) Monica saw a comment I left on his Myspace (yeah i know, we're lame myspacers) she sent me message asking me what it was about and i told her that it wasn't really any of her business...she continued to send me messages telling me that he didn't like me and that i needed to leave him alone. She asked me if I had hung out with him recently and i told her that he'd come over to my house a couple times about a week ago and that we were doing something for his birthday this weekend. She told me that he wasn't going to hang out with me this weekend, he told her he was going to hang out with her. I knew this wouldn't be true because he knew I spent money on this party for him and he would feel so guilty if he blew me off, especially for her. I simply told her that we've had this planned for a week and that if he didn't come it'd suck but i wasn't going to stop talking to him or anything (which, i'm pretty sure, is her goal) I asked him about it and sure enough, he told me she was wrong and that he hasn't hung out with her in 2 months and blah blah....It all turned out fantastic, he came over and hung out with us...now listen to this...that night, after he left, we were curious to see how much of a liar she could really be, so my friend asked her if she hung out with Courtney like she was planning, she told us it was none of our business, and she told us that they were together. hmmm..crazy.
anywayyy...
some of my friends are telling me to give up on him. to stop getting my hopes up that he'll ask me out, to just leave it all alone because Monica will always be in the way of it. I really like this boy and don't really want to just drop whatever we might have..i think i should give it some more time...or Monica should go find herself another boy who actually likes her back...soidurfslkdjf. frustration.
ps. sorry this was so long, i was on a roll..it probably really didn't make sense anyway, but make of it what you'd like. :]
thanks.
he's great.
background info:
i've known Courtney since June...I don't hang out with him very often though..maybe once a week...at least until i get my license in the next couple weeks...but anyway, we kind of had a "thing" going on way earlier, then we stopped talking for a month when his best friend had a thing for me.. He didn't talk to me during that, not because he didn't want to talk to me, but because he didn't want to get in the way of anything that his friend might have with me (which was nothing)...then we started talking again after his friend stopped liking me, and we're really close now... the first time we were talking, his ex-girlfriend, monica, was very very "protective" of him to say the least. She didn't want other girls talking to him, she didn't want him hanging out with other girls, or talking about other girls. We were a little more than friends but she wouldn't even like him talking to me if we were just friends. She started talking to me via Myspace. and since it's against the rules to post the messages she sent me, i'll just say, they were very ignorant (not to mention, badly typed.) she would say things along the lines of 'stay away from courtney, blah blah, he doesn't like you, he doesn't want you, he's my man...' yeah, stuff like that. I did message her back everytime, which was my mistake, but i was always as nice as i possibly could be to her. she was really weird and kind of stalker-ish...she would say they were going out, she would say that they were hanging out that weekend and that they did all sorts of things together...uh...no...Courtney didn't like her, He rarely hung out with her, and they didnt' do the things she was talking about. hmm crazy? yeah. i'd say so. anyway...i'm typing too much...but
now:
me and Courtney like eachother...however he doesn't have the guts to ask me out just yet, but I think it's cute (still frustrating though) Monica saw a comment I left on his Myspace (yeah i know, we're lame myspacers) she sent me message asking me what it was about and i told her that it wasn't really any of her business...she continued to send me messages telling me that he didn't like me and that i needed to leave him alone. She asked me if I had hung out with him recently and i told her that he'd come over to my house a couple times about a week ago and that we were doing something for his birthday this weekend. She told me that he wasn't going to hang out with me this weekend, he told her he was going to hang out with her. I knew this wouldn't be true because he knew I spent money on this party for him and he would feel so guilty if he blew me off, especially for her. I simply told her that we've had this planned for a week and that if he didn't come it'd suck but i wasn't going to stop talking to him or anything (which, i'm pretty sure, is her goal) I asked him about it and sure enough, he told me she was wrong and that he hasn't hung out with her in 2 months and blah blah....It all turned out fantastic, he came over and hung out with us...now listen to this...that night, after he left, we were curious to see how much of a liar she could really be, so my friend asked her if she hung out with Courtney like she was planning, she told us it was none of our business, and she told us that they were together. hmmm..crazy.
anywayyy...
some of my friends are telling me to give up on him. to stop getting my hopes up that he'll ask me out, to just leave it all alone because Monica will always be in the way of it. I really like this boy and don't really want to just drop whatever we might have..i think i should give it some more time...or Monica should go find herself another boy who actually likes her back...soidurfslkdjf. frustration.
ps. sorry this was so long, i was on a roll..it probably really didn't make sense anyway, but make of it what you'd like. :]
thanks.