Post by fat.rabbit on Dec 10, 2006 0:37:02 GMT -5
I've been with my boyfriend for two years. Lately, things have been pretty bad.
He's so possessive, and jealous would be an understatement. He doesn't say it right out, but he pretty much implies that I can't have any friends other than his. Every time I talk about one of my friends, he's always like, "Eewww," or "I don't like them," or saying something insulting about them. He's so intolerant. He hates black people and emos and is always going on about how we need to recreate the Holocaust for them.
It pisses me off so much. When I get mad at him, I try to get away, but then he'll grab my arm and yank me back toward him. He holds on tight and it really hurts. He's never actually hit me, but this is just as bad. Once, he left a bruise on my arm that lasted a whole class period! That's pretty bad, because it takes a lot for me to bruise.
He talks about the future a lot, but it's always a bad one. He always says that he won't celebrate Christmas and he'll work on Christmas and all that. He says that we won't have any children, and we'll move to somewhere like Washington and our house will be pushed back into the woods. It'd be so secluded that the nearest neighbor would be miles away. He's a miserable person and he wants me to be miserable, too.
I basically have no life outside of him. That's how possessive he is. He insists that we spend every living breathing moment together. He has to see me after every class. He has to be with me from the time school lets out until 8 or 9 o'clock at night, leaving me two hours to myself.
I want to leave him, but I don't know what to say to him. We've had problems in the past, and every time I brought up breaking up, he'd try to put the guilt trip on me. He'd said that if I left him, he'd kill himself.
I don't know what to do.
He's so possessive, and jealous would be an understatement. He doesn't say it right out, but he pretty much implies that I can't have any friends other than his. Every time I talk about one of my friends, he's always like, "Eewww," or "I don't like them," or saying something insulting about them. He's so intolerant. He hates black people and emos and is always going on about how we need to recreate the Holocaust for them.
It pisses me off so much. When I get mad at him, I try to get away, but then he'll grab my arm and yank me back toward him. He holds on tight and it really hurts. He's never actually hit me, but this is just as bad. Once, he left a bruise on my arm that lasted a whole class period! That's pretty bad, because it takes a lot for me to bruise.
He talks about the future a lot, but it's always a bad one. He always says that he won't celebrate Christmas and he'll work on Christmas and all that. He says that we won't have any children, and we'll move to somewhere like Washington and our house will be pushed back into the woods. It'd be so secluded that the nearest neighbor would be miles away. He's a miserable person and he wants me to be miserable, too.
I basically have no life outside of him. That's how possessive he is. He insists that we spend every living breathing moment together. He has to see me after every class. He has to be with me from the time school lets out until 8 or 9 o'clock at night, leaving me two hours to myself.
I want to leave him, but I don't know what to say to him. We've had problems in the past, and every time I brought up breaking up, he'd try to put the guilt trip on me. He'd said that if I left him, he'd kill himself.
I don't know what to do.