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Apr 18, 2006 20:11:14 GMT -5
Post by stars2mind on Apr 18, 2006 20:11:14 GMT -5
right!! you cant choose it....
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Apr 19, 2006 2:48:21 GMT -5
Post by freidia on Apr 19, 2006 2:48:21 GMT -5
well i can choose to not tell people right but I like want to go out with my friend secretly but todfasy he was makin fun of another guy callin him queer and stuff qwill it be differently because im a friend?
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Apr 19, 2006 9:12:49 GMT -5
Post by Emo Kid on Apr 19, 2006 9:12:49 GMT -5
well i can choose to not tell people right but I like want to go out with my friend secretly but todfasy he was makin fun of another guy callin him queer and stuff qwill it be differently because im a friend? prolly not. you can choose not to tell people, and if i were you, i wouldnt tell anyone unless youre sure theyre gay to.
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Apr 19, 2006 18:32:49 GMT -5
Post by freidia on Apr 19, 2006 18:32:49 GMT -5
how would i know if they were gay or not though? i want a man who doesnt act like thr typical gay guy over doing it with the stupied voice and all the girly crap
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Apr 19, 2006 19:22:56 GMT -5
Post by Emo Kid on Apr 19, 2006 19:22:56 GMT -5
how would i know if they were gay or not though? i want a man who doesnt act like thr typical gay guy over doing it with the stupied voice and all the girly crap well, see what others think. there are way you can find out without them being giryl. i think this one guy at my school is gay and he isnt girly. just join the forum and i might be able to help you better. join today and i can help way better
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Apr 21, 2006 19:34:07 GMT -5
Post by biancasaur on Apr 21, 2006 19:34:07 GMT -5
There's not really any point in saying over and over "You're gay." It may very well be true, but obviously the guy who posted this is uncomfortable with homosexuality and doesn't want this to be true. It's not going to help him to just keep saying it. Also, it could be true that he is bisexual, or is just developing sexually right now and is not sure yet.
The biggest problem here seems to be that you have sexual feelings for guys, but that you fear that others will judge you for this. Do you know anyone who is gay that you trust and could talk to about this, or do you live somewhere that is very anti-gay?
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Apr 21, 2006 19:48:32 GMT -5
Post by Emo Kid on Apr 21, 2006 19:48:32 GMT -5
im sure he doesnt wanna talk to another gay dude. he seems to hate the weirdly gay guys and most gay guys are weird and girly.
he is not bisexual, he is gay. i have heard of someone with the exact same feelings of sexual attractions to men but like to date girls and this person turned out to be gay.
yes, people are gonna judge you. IMO, keep it quite. i could help you better if you joined
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Apr 22, 2006 2:32:44 GMT -5
Post by Sparkle on Apr 22, 2006 2:32:44 GMT -5
If he doesn't want to join, he doesn't have to. And please don't tell me I'm gay, I know my sexuality. I'm sorry, but you can't just say that he is gay, beacuse you 'know some one.' People are different. We all act differently in different situations. And most gay guys aren't girly- this is just a stereo type. (Sorry, had to get it more on topic )
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Apr 22, 2006 2:47:56 GMT -5
Post by Emo Kid on Apr 22, 2006 2:47:56 GMT -5
If he doesn't want to join, he doesn't have to. And please don't tell me I'm gay, I know my sexuality. I'm sorry, but you can't just say that he is gay, beacuse you 'know some one.' People are different. We all act differently in different situations. And most gay guys aren't girly- this is just a stereo type. (Sorry, had to get it more on topic ) i kno most gay guys arent girly. im not making him join, im telling him he should so i can help him better. and he is gay. didnt you read all the above posts? its so obvious he is. youre turning this the complete wrong way. no one ever said all gays are girly
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Apr 22, 2006 4:59:37 GMT -5
Post by Italian Stallion on Apr 22, 2006 4:59:37 GMT -5
all gay guys are girly. well 99% of them i think they would be coolerif they didnt over do the fruity two shoes crap an still acted like a man not all "owh theat loowks soow lavely," with the fliingin girl hand thing GIRLS DONT EVEN FO THAT COME ON gr be a man go for girls its easier
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Apr 22, 2006 7:44:09 GMT -5
Post by Andrew on Apr 22, 2006 7:44:09 GMT -5
Emo Kid - Would you stop? You cannot tell if somebody is gay or not, especially at your age, by reading what they say and post on the internet. So he has sexual feelings for guys but is attracted to women. That's the same with me. I'm not gay. I'm bisexual. Ever heard of that term? Just because you're sexually attracted to somebody of your same gender does not mean that you're gay.
wouldunotice - That is a very stereotypical statement. Not all gay guys are girly. Please check your facts before posting a comment such as that (even if it is through your own experience).
freidia - Like other people have stated, the only way you're going to be able to tell whether your straight, bisexual, or gay is by experimenting. If you're that worried about your reputation, be a "closet-whatever-your-sexuality-is" until you're out of high school. Once that happens, your reputation won't matter because you're entering the real world. People will no longer judge you for what you may be. High school is a rough time. People are very hateful towards people that they cannot understand (people of different sexualities, mostly).
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Apr 22, 2006 15:35:17 GMT -5
Post by Emo Kid on Apr 22, 2006 15:35:17 GMT -5
all gay guys are girly. well 99% of them i think they would be coolerif they didnt over do the fruity two shoes crap an still acted like a man not all "owh theat loowks soow lavely," with the fliingin girl hand thing GIRLS DONT EVEN FO THAT COME ON gr be a man go for girls its easier this is untrue. most gay guys are very girly. not all. i hate the girly ones, they piss me off so much! if you havent noticed. im just tryin to help. read all of his posts. its so obvious. i seriously doubt hes bi. if he isnt attracted to both sexes and only likes men, he is gay. i still suggest he joins so i can help him better
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Apr 22, 2006 15:38:03 GMT -5
Post by freidia on Apr 22, 2006 15:38:03 GMT -5
if i join how r u going to help more? i just didnt want on of my friends on here nocticing it was me
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Apr 22, 2006 15:45:34 GMT -5
Post by Emo Kid on Apr 22, 2006 15:45:34 GMT -5
you can join under a completely random name. i think i would be able to help you better if you do
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Apr 22, 2006 18:38:51 GMT -5
Post by freidia on Apr 22, 2006 18:38:51 GMT -5
but what are u goin to do that u cant do inposts?
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Apr 22, 2006 19:01:36 GMT -5
Post by Andrew on Apr 22, 2006 19:01:36 GMT -5
The only thing that can be done with you being a member is private chats through the private message system, or, depending on how much contact information you give out, different conversations through different instant messenging clients.
Again, Emo Kid, read the his posts with more of your brain. He says he is sexually attracted to guys, though would never see himself dating one. He also says he can see himself dating a girl. Whether you want to believe it or not, there is some attraction there to both sexes, though a more sexual one towards males. You're not helping, you're focusing on the point you think he is gay and you keep pushing that point. It's rather annoying.
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Apr 22, 2006 20:04:16 GMT -5
Post by Emo Kid on Apr 22, 2006 20:04:16 GMT -5
dude, trust me. i kno what im talking about.
friedia, just join and i will help you way better
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