hales
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Post by hales on Jul 2, 2006 13:30:23 GMT -5
okay so 3 weeks ago I met this girl online. She's bi like me, only she has never actually been with a girl, which doesn't bother me at all. We talk everynight for 6 hourse and i am so in love with her. I actually feel SICK when I'm not talking to her. I'm addicted to her. We are only one year apart, but I'm gonna be a senior this year. The only problem with that is that I can't take a break from school and go see her. We live 9 hours apart. I'm leaving for 2 weeks in a few days, and I don't know what I'm gonna do because I'll only be able to call her two or three times in two weeks. I need to talk to her everyday. I LOVE HER! I'm telling you guys, I thought I knew what love was, but talking to her really showed me how wrong I was. In a 6 hour convo we must say I love you 30 times...its amazing. We've exchanged pics and we talk constantly. She recently lost her cell phone, so now we can only talk late at night on her house phone. The other thing that's bugging me is that my dad doesnt know. My mom died a few weeks ago..and I dont wanna burden him. HELP PLEASE
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Post by Marzon on Jul 2, 2006 22:15:56 GMT -5
The best thing to do is probably just not think about it, or you can tell him, or that might make things worse, or not. Try not to focus on that that much..
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Post by littlemikey on Jul 5, 2006 6:06:10 GMT -5
Before you commit to yourself to a relationship, see if it can work, ie, can you see each other and actually have a relationship? I have had a long distance relationship before, and it didnt work out at all, so make sure yours can before you start anything.
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hales
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Post by hales on Jul 5, 2006 18:56:34 GMT -5
as far as seeing each other.i dont know how well thats gonna work out...but i love her so much. im leaving on sat for 2 weeks and i wont be able to talk to her at all.its gonna be so hard. shes the love of my life. I know it seems weird that im saying this about someone ive never ACTUALLY met..but i know how i feel. we've sent pics and videos and cards...and i cant stop talking to her...ever. i dont even need to talk to her....just listening to her breathe is enough.....I think im gonna wait until i go see her to tell my dad.
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hales
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Post by hales on Jul 7, 2006 11:13:50 GMT -5
good idea?
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Post by WilD CherrY on Jul 8, 2006 14:30:49 GMT -5
Meet her and make sure its a forsure thing before telling your dad Most people act differently in person then they do on the net. Dont meet her alone either cuz you never know what could happen so be safe. If it all turns out well then I think you should tell you dad then,.
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Post by boyfriendadvice on Jul 8, 2006 16:06:45 GMT -5
Meet her and make sure its a forsure thing before telling your dad Most people act differently in person then they do on the net. Dont meet her alone either cuz you never know what could happen so be safe. If it all turns out well then I think you should tell you dad then. I agree.
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Post by Kai on Jul 8, 2006 19:41:42 GMT -5
okay so 3 weeks ago I met this girl online. She's bi like me, only she has never actually been with a girl, which doesn't bother me at all. We talk everynight for 6 hourse and i am so in love with her. I actually feel SICK when I'm not talking to her. I'm addicted to her. We are only one year apart, but I'm gonna be a senior this year. The only problem with that is that I can't take a break from school and go see her. We live 9 hours apart. I'm leaving for 2 weeks in a few days, and I don't know what I'm gonna do because I'll only be able to call her two or three times in two weeks. I need to talk to her everyday. I LOVE HER! I'm telling you guys, I thought I knew what love was, but talking to her really showed me how wrong I was. In a 6 hour convo we must say I love you 30 times...its amazing. We've exchanged pics and we talk constantly. She recently lost her cell phone, so now we can only talk late at night on her house phone. The other thing that's bugging me is that my dad doesnt know. My mom died a few weeks ago..and I dont wanna burden him. HELP PLEASE has it ever occured to you that you may have these feelings due to your mothers death (im so sorry *hugs*) You may be feeling an absence of love and care in your life, especially as your dad is grieving too and this girl is giving you the attention you need therefore creating these feelings.
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Post by larochelle on Jul 13, 2006 8:48:06 GMT -5
just go and see her before you tell your dad. i told my mom and dad about a guy and i told them i want to see him but a month later we broke up. i know it's gonna be hard if you realy love her and she loves you to it will work out.
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hales
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Post by hales on Jul 13, 2006 16:37:49 GMT -5
i know for a fact that the feelings I have for her are not in any way related to my mom's death. I love her too much to use her for attention that I'm not getting at home. I can't go a day without talking to her. When she cries, its hurts me, both physically AND emotionally. I know I probably make no sense but I know how I feel, and I wanna spend the rest of my life with this girl, whatever it takes.
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Post by larochelle on Jul 14, 2006 15:12:23 GMT -5
OK then go and see her
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hales
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Post by hales on Jul 27, 2006 10:30:54 GMT -5
I dont know what to do! I'm planning on seeing her in a few weeks..but what if I get there and she doesn't want me there?
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Post by Ruby on Jul 27, 2006 12:55:06 GMT -5
Then it wasn't meant to be. If she tells you that she loves you then why would she not want to see you? Personally I think it's unhealthy to be addicted to a PERSON but hey, whatever, it's your life. Good luck! I hope things work out for you!
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Post by ily on Jul 27, 2006 20:04:13 GMT -5
Then it wasn't meant to be. If she tells you that she loves you then why would she not want to see you? Personally I think it's unhealthy to be addicted to a PERSON but hey, whatever, it's your life. Good luck! I hope things work out for you! i agree if she loves you then she must really want to see you! good luck hun
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Post by larochelle on Jul 29, 2006 15:05:34 GMT -5
good luck
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hales
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Post by hales on Jul 29, 2006 23:58:05 GMT -5
thanks for everything
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Post by GrapeJuice on Jul 30, 2006 1:54:43 GMT -5
I'm glad that you got the help you need, If you need anything else go ahead and send me a private message. I'm always here to help.
Grape Juice
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