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Post by Sparkle on Jan 16, 2007 2:08:31 GMT -5
If you planned it theres more likelyhood of both people in the relationship - being ready
- Having all the nessacery items
- BUT you get nervous leading up to it
If you do it on the spot - It's not properly thought through
- BUt the best things happen spontaniouly... a laugh, a smile... and maybe even sex
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Post by littlemikey on Jan 16, 2007 4:32:02 GMT -5
I would do it spontaniously, but not with a random person. I would want the girl to be someone so very special to me. I wouldent want to loose my virginity on a one night stand.
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Post by Will on Jan 16, 2007 5:12:31 GMT -5
I'm going with spontenaity, but it has to be good spontaneous. A bad 'spon' would be like a one night stand, a drunken thing or something at a party. No, I'm in the market for good 'spons' which are with a person you like, but not planned or anything. How about, unplanned, but still prepared.
Heh. 'Spon'.
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Post by littlemikey on Jan 16, 2007 5:32:54 GMT -5
Agreed Good answer... I wonder if someone is going to say its because we're male tho?
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Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Jan 16, 2007 5:56:01 GMT -5
.How about, unplanned, but still prepared. I would choose this option if it was stated above. Being too prepared [time, date etc] could make things awkward. Just make sure your prepared all the time and make sure its the right person is the best way to go about it I think. I wonder if someone is going to say its because we're male tho? Well duh.. it is because you're male.... isn't it? /jokes
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Post by Erla on Jan 30, 2007 22:36:53 GMT -5
I voted spontanious. Mine was a bit too spontanious, though...don't recommend it...
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Post by effinbois on Feb 6, 2007 23:04:38 GMT -5
I did it spontaniously... And it wasn't planned out..Afterwards I didn't feel ready, we were safe, *shrugs* even if its spontanious yew can be prepared to a certain extent.. i don't think i would've done it any other way...
I have a friend who planned it, and said it was terrible.. It felt fake.
And i have another friend who did it spontaniously aswell.. And he said it was just amazing.. I think sex, also depends on if yew are ready and who yew are with.. and how much yew realli want to do it.. i dunno
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Post by Will on Feb 7, 2007 7:51:25 GMT -5
Yeah, yew're right. Personally though, I think there are good spontaneous moments because you're in to it, and bad ones where it's unplanned and you're not ready but being pressured or feel you 'have to'.
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Post by Italian Stallion on Feb 7, 2007 15:22:56 GMT -5
spontainously is the best but well prepared you cant really go wrong something planned would be wierd
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Post by biancasaur on Feb 7, 2007 22:58:47 GMT -5
The first time I tried to have sex, it was planned out beforehand, and we were both extremely nervous and sort of freaked out. The next time, we weren't planning on having sex until, like, a few minutes before, so it was much more natural and worked way better. Hoiwever, as others have pointed out, spontaneous doesn't have to mean unprepared. Hooray for condoms!
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Post by xbrokenxdreams on Feb 8, 2007 1:12:46 GMT -5
I think its best "planned" but not like down to the day and time like ok were gunna do it may 21 at 10pm but I mean you know to talk about it first and make sure you really want to not just like ah were horny lets do it.
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Post by effinbois on Feb 8, 2007 6:14:29 GMT -5
Yew forgot tha Year ^-^
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Post by Amor on Feb 10, 2007 1:30:46 GMT -5
I did it spontaneously, but prepared. I'd known the guy for 2 years. He was a reeeally good friend and such. And I will not sya that it was AMAZING but it wasn't like something I regreted fully. I didn't regret it at all.. It was fun, heh. And I suppose kinky since it was.... Midnight... Outside... At an elementary school playground. Don't ask. Heh. MODS: Edit those last two lines out if you feel like it was inappropriate, heh. I'll understand.
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Post by Sparkle on Feb 17, 2007 3:36:14 GMT -5
Nah, we've had worse Amor That seems very.... different I have an opinion! I think that he best thing to do (well, for me) is to say... right, I think I'm ready for sex, discuss it with your partner so you know you're both ready, then just go with it... whenever it feels 'right' Then you can be prepared with condoms and such, but its not too nerveracking.
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Post by Italian Stallion on Feb 19, 2007 16:44:59 GMT -5
I did it spontaneously, but prepared. I'd known the guy for 2 years. He was a reeeally good friend and such. And I will not sya that it was AMAZING but it wasn't like something I regreted fully. I didn't regret it at all.. It was fun, heh. And I suppose kinky since it was.... Midnight... Outside... At an elementary school playground. Don't ask. Heh. MODS: Edit those last two lines out if you feel like it was inappropriate, heh. I'll understand. Wouldnt that be un sanitary ?
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Post by !__ANOMALY on Feb 25, 2007 23:05:54 GMT -5
I think if you're both mature and educated, then it'll be fine if you do it spontaneously. I think planning it would make it somewhat scary.. and a lot of pressure.
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