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Post by skankwithme90 on Dec 10, 2006 7:49:47 GMT -5
Alright, so I haven't been on here in a while because I haven't had any problems... Well, none that I couldn't handle. Up until now. So I am going out with this kid, let's say Eric. So I hung out with him and some friends last night and then he and I went back to his house. I wasn't feeling good so I laid down in his bed and fell asleep for a little while. Then when I woke up, he tried to cheer me up because I wasn't in the greatest mood either. So he crawled in with me and we were kissing. And he was dancing to the music from Donkey Kong... So later on, Eric's dad makes us go upstairs (we were in the basement, his room) so we did and we played video games until I left at like 10. So when I got home, he called me all upset because apparently his dad thought we were having sex. He was all like "I saw you guys through the window and your hips were moving a mile a minute". Remember, he was dancing, no joke. I know his dad doesn't trust him, but no matter what Eric said, he wouldn't believe him. So now, I can't go over his house, and he can't come over mine. What should I do? I am pretty upset about this.
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on Dec 10, 2006 16:55:13 GMT -5
I would be pissed off if we really didnt do anything. Have you both tried to talk to the parents at the same time? I mean just because someones moving on a bed (under the covers) doesn't mean they were doing it! Tell them they are jumping to conclusions that are false.
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Post by Commander Of One on Dec 10, 2006 18:02:12 GMT -5
Hmm, interesting problem. I cant really see a way to fix it to be honest, unless you get his parents and sit them down and tell them what was happening, maybe tell them why you were sad and needed chearing up. that normally works..
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Post by skankwithme90 on Dec 10, 2006 18:26:59 GMT -5
Thanks, I still don't know. Because it seems like his dad doesn't want to hear anything. He is pretty much convinced. I think the only thing I can do is go to the gynecologist, and prove to him I'm a virgin. My mom says that's drastic... is it?
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Post by [Beefy] on Dec 10, 2006 18:34:27 GMT -5
I dont know what else you can do, if you think getting checked out by a doctor to prove your a virgin is what you have to do, or the length you are willing to go to prove it to your parents then that choice is yours.
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Post by Commander Of One on Dec 11, 2006 2:36:11 GMT -5
Ouch, small writing.
But yeah, its kind of drastic, but maybe thats what its going to take. But first take a look at his father, if he is the sort of person that is just looking for an excuse, and will not care about the result of the test, or will just say that you can still have sex without ... doing that. Then there is no point in doing it. Take a look at him as a person, and see what he is like.
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Post by skankwithme90 on Dec 11, 2006 17:55:40 GMT -5
i don't even know... the problems gotten worse. his mom knows now, his dad hit him. my mom is going to sue for slander if my reputation is ruined. my mom and stepfather are behind us 100%. and my mom called his house and it just made things worse. and i think your right, commander. no that my mom has called, and he still thinks that its a lie and we just lied to her, i don't think anything is going to change his mind. it just bothers me and i just pray that it doesn't affect our relationship too badly. i know we aren't going to be able to hang out outside of school unless we sneak it, which we both agreed to, but i just hope that it blows over.
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Post by Alcohol4ever on Dec 11, 2006 19:49:14 GMT -5
I agree with Killer Style, talk to his parents. Both you and your boyfriend, sit his parents down and tlak to them, tell them that your waiting till your married before you have sex. If they still don't believe you, then maybe a lie-detector test??
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Post by skankwithme90 on Dec 11, 2006 20:15:07 GMT -5
now, i never said anything about waiting until marriage, and i think the lie detector test is too drastic.
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Post by Alcohol4ever on Dec 11, 2006 20:23:11 GMT -5
I don't know then. Sorry..
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Post by skankwithme90 on Dec 11, 2006 20:25:10 GMT -5
thanks for the help everyone
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Post by Commander Of One on Dec 12, 2006 19:31:35 GMT -5
i don't even know... the problems gotten worse. his mom knows now, his dad hit him. my mom is going to sue for slander if my reputation is ruined. my mom and stepfather are behind us 100%. and my mom called his house and it just made things worse. and i think your right, commander. no that my mom has called, and he still thinks that its a lie and we just lied to her, i don't think anything is going to change his mind. it just bothers me and i just pray that it doesn't affect our relationship too badly. i know we aren't going to be able to hang out outside of school unless we sneak it, which we both agreed to, but i just hope that it blows over. To be completely honest I am not sure if it will blow over, and i feel sorry for you. You two just need to stick together and see each other when you can, don't let it get to you. As long as oyu remember that its as bad for him, if not worse, as it is for you, then you should come out of it. Just be there for each other. Sorry, thats all the advice I can think of.
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Post by skankwithme90 on Dec 15, 2006 14:50:14 GMT -5
thanksssss
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Post by skankwithme90 on Dec 16, 2006 21:32:32 GMT -5
So the last couple of days have been better... not that the situation has improved but we both seem to have subconsciously decided to be at least seemingly in a better mood and i think we both feel better about it. Sure, we can't see each other often but i think we've gotten through the worst of it.
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