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Jun 11, 2006 12:22:33 GMT -5
Post by Beans Meanz Heinz on Jun 11, 2006 12:22:33 GMT -5
You really do need to tell someone about this. It's not right what your brother's friend is doing. Tell a parent, you can't let this behaviour continue.
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Jun 11, 2006 23:54:14 GMT -5
Post by , Anna, BO, Banna, on Jun 11, 2006 23:54:14 GMT -5
if hes going to hurt u...... just do what he says........ so u dont get hurt......... when u get older........... he will stop....... just wait ...... till then..... mkay
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Jun 12, 2006 0:42:24 GMT -5
Post by Sparkle on Jun 12, 2006 0:42:24 GMT -5
No. I odn't think you should do this... it's hurting you, and the longer it goes on the more upset and messed up you'll be. Tell some one.
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Jun 12, 2006 23:58:38 GMT -5
Post by allianne on Jun 12, 2006 23:58:38 GMT -5
No no no, do NOT wait. Many young children think it'll stop and keep getting abused for years and years. That's a too common mistake. They are both old enough to know it's wrong, so obviously he doesn't care. He doesn't care that what he's doing is hurting you. Yes, he's your brother so you feel guilty about telling and you're scared about his threats of beating you..but this is gonna stay with you forever.
If you're parents are around, your brother can't hurt you. You're parents are not gonna leave you alone with him anymore and are gonna be watching for what he does. So ur brother may threaten to hurt you, but once you tell your parents and get help, he won't be able to hurt you.
I understand that this is something extremely hard to deal with, and I wish I could say something more to help. Be strong. You've come here because you know that you can't keep dealing with this. The longer you wait to do something about it, the longer it'll take for you to move on. I'm sure there are some times you can speak to your parents. What about really early before your brother wakes or really late?
You're an amazing person and no one should be able to make you feel bad about something that's not your fault. No one should be able to hurt you like this...
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Jun 14, 2006 2:16:50 GMT -5
Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Jun 14, 2006 2:16:50 GMT -5
if hes going to hurt u...... just do what he says........ so u dont get hurt......... when u get older........... he will stop....... just wait ...... till then..... mkay Do not wait Tell right now, Like Allianne said. Your brother or your friend can't hurt you if your parents know. They won't leave you with them ever again if you tell. Don't wait until your older. This can do so much damage on you, its best that it stops as soon as possible. Of course your going to feel ashamed and embarrased telling but they are the ones that are doing the wrong thing, not you.
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Jun 14, 2006 11:24:12 GMT -5
Post by stars2mind on Jun 14, 2006 11:24:12 GMT -5
cakes took the words right out of my mouth--
please dont wait tell your folks NOW!!!!!
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Jun 17, 2006 2:48:21 GMT -5
Post by liz on Jun 17, 2006 2:48:21 GMT -5
i told my mom but she didn;t do nething just looked at me and said ur lying
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Jun 17, 2006 3:15:45 GMT -5
Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on Jun 17, 2006 3:15:45 GMT -5
uh thats not cool. Why wouldnt she believe u!~
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Jun 17, 2006 14:09:49 GMT -5
Post by allianne on Jun 17, 2006 14:09:49 GMT -5
I don't get how parents can sometimes say we're lying about things such as abuse! Argh. Have you tried talking to your dad? Don't let your mom's reaction stop you from telling anyone else. Is there any family members you could tell? Don't give up!!
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Jun 17, 2006 15:37:33 GMT -5
Post by Sparkle on Jun 17, 2006 15:37:33 GMT -5
Tell osme one else. Please don't give up... it's not worth it. Keep Safe __x
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Jun 24, 2006 18:04:42 GMT -5
Post by Italian Stallion on Jun 24, 2006 18:04:42 GMT -5
tell someone at school, ur moms dumb for not believing u
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Jun 26, 2006 20:40:28 GMT -5
Post by vy on Jun 26, 2006 20:40:28 GMT -5
Dear Liz:
You did the right thing by telling your mom.
Your brother, his friend, and your mom are making bad choices. They are doing the WRONG thing.
I hope you will try again, because this guy is paying to use you, it is really wrong.
Take Care Liz. Very proud of you for telling your mom.
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Jun 28, 2006 3:04:18 GMT -5
Post by ily on Jun 28, 2006 3:04:18 GMT -5
cant you tell someone else you trust...someone that WILL believe you...maybe another family member or a teacher as school?
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Jun 28, 2006 3:30:38 GMT -5
Post by liz1 on Jun 28, 2006 3:30:38 GMT -5
thanks i read this and told my aunt she said to ignore it he will stop has not yet but i hope soon she said its just silly games and not a bad thing. i didnt say he touched me just that we play house when they babysit me
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Jun 28, 2006 11:51:28 GMT -5
Post by GrapeJuice on Jun 28, 2006 11:51:28 GMT -5
Well Liz it was very good of you too tell but you need to tell them that he is touching you for them to understand something bad is happening. Please tell the whole story to your auntie as soon as possible.
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Jul 2, 2006 23:04:36 GMT -5
Post by vy on Jul 2, 2006 23:04:36 GMT -5
Dear Liz:
It's fantastic that you have chosen to tell your aunt! You are very brave.
You should be very proud for trying to tell another adult. You are doing the right thing. It will be hard, but you must explain to her, how it is more then just playing house.
It might be uncomfortable to go into detail, so use words you feel comfortable with - that might make it easier for you to tell her.
If you feel comfortable using the following words, I think they will help your aunt understand why the games are bad and wrong:
- "he hurts me" - touches - "does bad stuff"
Hope this gets resolved soon, so that you don't have to deal with this anymore. You are a beautiful human being, and now is the time for you to enjoy it, not worry about stuff like this. I'm sorry that this happened to you Liz.
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Aug 13, 2006 6:38:07 GMT -5
Post by lizzy on Aug 13, 2006 6:38:07 GMT -5
wow thanks every1 i told my friends big sister and she told the child protection ppl im in foster care right now cuz I told them my step dad does too and my mom hit me and called me a very *friendly* person when i told
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