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Post by , Anna, BO, Banna, on Aug 1, 2006 5:06:11 GMT -5
my momhit me tonite an I dont know wut to do she said i was fat so if i ate anything she will hit me she wants me to be smal like her cuz shes imberresed
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Post by , Anna, BO, Banna, on Aug 1, 2006 5:06:26 GMT -5
of me
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Post by , Anna, BO, Banna, on Aug 2, 2006 6:42:20 GMT -5
help?
plz
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Post by littlemikey on Aug 2, 2006 7:08:53 GMT -5
your mother cannot treat you like this. It is unfair and illegal, I would suggest caling a teen help line in your area immediatly and see what you can do (I only know the ones for Australia so I'm not sure what the US ones would be)
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Post by Brit. on Aug 2, 2006 12:31:20 GMT -5
^^i agree with littlemikey. she can not do this to you. call someone immediately. i hope everything works out
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Post by vy on Aug 3, 2006 23:52:09 GMT -5
Dear Annabobanna:
(Calm down guys.)
How hard did your mom hit you? Your mom sounds like she is the one with self-esteem issues. Feeling embarrassed because your "fat"? As long as you're not embarrassed about who you are - that is the important thing.
She should be embarrassed, for treating you this way. And they say adults are mature...lol.
More seriously, I understand how it feels when parents expect you to be a certain size (perfect). It's hard, but you'll have to tell her how you feel, and hopefully someday, she will learn to understand. Good luck to you, kid. (<---Don't mind me, I call everyone kid.)
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Post by , Anna, BO, Banna, on Aug 4, 2006 8:09:47 GMT -5
how do i find there nuimbers? i knwo she is right and i am fat so but i dont lik her hittin me iam imberred vy
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Post by pyro420 on Aug 4, 2006 20:13:51 GMT -5
Its not her place to decide you need to lose weight and whether you should eat or not... thats for you to decide, and hitting you is comepletely and utterly wrong. You could go to the police for that as well... im here if you want to talk
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Post by L.B on Aug 5, 2006 4:36:27 GMT -5
yeah u can call 911 or look in the phone book usually at the begining there is numbers
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Post by Alcohol4ever on Aug 5, 2006 22:07:09 GMT -5
Yeah, I suggest you call the police, you can't live like that, I will go kick her butt if I have to!
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Post by Sparkle on Aug 7, 2006 9:24:10 GMT -5
Have you called some one yet? That is sick- your mum shouldn't do that when you're obviously on the edge of anorexia yourself (sorry,, making assumptions due to your dp personal text and signature )
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Post by vy on Aug 19, 2006 23:57:01 GMT -5
Well Annabobanna:
Living life is hard enough as it is. Add the fantasy of being perfect or looking a certain way, and it becomes a bigger challenge.
Well, if you are embarrassed - YOU ARE NOT ALONE. I'm gonna let you in on a little secret, I sometimes get embarrassed to. No big surprise right? Everyone gets embarrashed from time to time - weight, height, etc.
Well, if it bothers you that much, is there something you would like to do about it?
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Post by Firey Shades Of Blue on Aug 20, 2006 3:31:36 GMT -5
Well said VY
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Post by Ruby on Aug 21, 2006 22:55:06 GMT -5
how do i find there nuimbers? i knwo she is right and i am fat so but i dont lik her hittin me iam imberred vy No, no one is fat. People can be described as "overweight" I suppose One of the greatest challenges in life is accepting who you are. You should tell yourself "I am beautiful, I was created this way for a reason. I am a wonderful person." When I feel sad I like to write a list of things that make me special and what I'm thankful for. I like to think about what good qualities God has blessed me with. I know it might not seem like you have any at first but after a while you'll be writing down pages and pages at a time.
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on Aug 24, 2006 20:13:15 GMT -5
my momhit me tonite an I dont know wut to do she said i was fat so if i ate anything she will hit me she wants me to be smal like her cuz shes imberresed You are not fat and you do not need to be who your mom wants to be just to fit her expectations which are Ludacris by the way. You need too tell someone. She has no right to hit you at all or emotionally abuse you they way she has.
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Post by vy on Aug 25, 2006 16:09:18 GMT -5
;D lol, thanks Firey Shades of Blue.
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Post by ♥Monizzle♥ on Sept 19, 2006 2:37:45 GMT -5
She is your mom she can be honest with you and tell you things no one else would say, but she can not beat you because she feels embarrassed!! She can give you help and suggestions but not have everything revolve around herself. Maybe you should talk to her and tell her how you feel before you take any actions that could cause you two to separate.
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