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Post by Furgo on Aug 7, 2006 8:11:11 GMT -5
I don't know if I am in a position of being hurt, or hurting others...
My mom hit me before.. Pretty hard actually. I was searching through her purse looking for her car keys because she couldn't find them. So she grabbed the purse and hit me across the face. I went running inside, bursting into tears. After that, she completely denied "punching me". If it doesn't leave a bruise or a mark, thats not considered abuse? I mean.. hitting is hitting. the lady upstairs was like "theres no mark hunny, she didn't hit you" I was like, oh my god, this isn't happening.
A couple months ago me and my mom got into another fight, and she pulled my hair, and hit me repeatedly because i wouldn't go with her. Those weren't as hard, but my lip felt like it was busted open. And I was crying so hard. I threatened to call the cops, but then she threatened to put me in a mental hospital.
I think I need help. I think about killing myself almost constantly and I tell my mom I feel like suicide is the only way out. I also have no motivation to do school work, and I'm beginning to develop bad habits.. please help me.
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Post by littlemikey on Aug 7, 2006 8:16:25 GMT -5
You definatly need to tell somone about your mother hitting you. It is in no way your fault, and you should either call a teenager helpline in your area or call the police and report your mother for abusing you. She has no right to hit you, and the fact she denies it is sickening.
You have all of our support on here, if anything happens, please tell us and we will help you sort it out.
Lots of love, LittleMikey
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Post by Sparkle on Aug 7, 2006 9:21:40 GMT -5
Thats the first time I've seen little mikey write lots of love! I agree with LM. You need to tell some one- you've already noticed it getting worse, and if she does it another time you don't know how far it will go. I think a councellers a good idea for you- they're not a bad thing. I've seen them, loads of people see them- although they don't help all the time it's good getting your feelins out. Hope you're ok, Sparkle x x x
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Post by Firey Shades Of Blue on Aug 8, 2006 16:34:35 GMT -5
I think you should tell someone maybe at your school. Its emotional/mental/physical abuse and it shouldn't be happening. I think both of you need counselling. For your mom because she needs to stop doing thing and for you because you need help learning how to get past being abused. I wish you the best of luck.
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Post by vy on Aug 19, 2006 23:35:21 GMT -5
Dear Furgo:
The first step is always the hardest and you've done that, by admitting that you need help.
I suggest you go to a school counsellar for help. Tell them exactly what's happening, and let him/her help you. The advantage of a counsellor is being objective, and trained.
Good luck Furgo
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