|
Update
Nov 26, 2006 1:36:14 GMT -5
Post by allianne on Nov 26, 2006 1:36:14 GMT -5
Hi everyone, remember me? Good lord, I finally log on and I don't recognize anyone...I feel new all over again. lol Sorry if anyone was wondering where I disappeared off to. (I swear my computer started making these grinding noises every time I turned it on! But still...sorry, my fault!) Anyways, I figured I'd be better to make a new post rather than use the old one. teenhelp12.proboards57.com/index.cgi?board=sex&action=display&thread=1143936563First of all, I’m doing a million times better! I’ve been talking to my friend and although I haven’t told my parents or talked to a counselor, I’m really doing loads better. It’s hard to believe how long I waited. It happened when I was 14 and I’m turning 16 soon! However, the thing I still have to deal with is guys laughing and making jokes about it or girls thinking what happened that night was my fault. Some people don’t consider me being drunk (though I couldn’t even speak properly!) means what happened was rape. What am I supposed to do about that? How do I deal with it? I can’t just tell everyone it was rape. He goes to my school, and parents, teachers, and counselors would get involved then. I’m tired of defending my reputation, and since it happened over a year ago I’m pretty sure that nothing legal can be done about it, so I can’t just go around accusing him. I’m finally happy and moving on, but everyone still blaming me…I feel like I have to deal with that before it can all finally start to be normal. I've missed you all! (and if anyone wants anything or needs me you can always PM me!)
|
|
|
Update
Nov 26, 2006 2:43:44 GMT -5
Post by Dreamers Dream on Nov 26, 2006 2:43:44 GMT -5
You sound like you are doing better, you shouldn't have to defend your reputation to your friends or an acquaintance. Its your life, YOU know what happened YOU know it was wrong. If you don't feel comfortable telling someone then I don't push you to do so but you still need to seek the support to help you deal with it, even if it is privately. You know what I mean? I'm glad things are going much better. I wish you the best of luck and I'm so happy to see you back here!! I hope you stick around and don't take off on us again If you ever need to talk just send me a message. I'll be around
|
|
|
Update
Nov 26, 2006 4:59:50 GMT -5
Post by Sparkle on Nov 26, 2006 4:59:50 GMT -5
Hey! I remember you! You should remember me (or I might have to eat you) Well... I think it's stupid that those people don't believe you. And with the should I / shouldn't I tell any one problem... think about yourself in 10 yeasrs time. Do you think you will regret not telling any one? Glad you're better now
|
|
|
Update
Nov 27, 2006 15:07:35 GMT -5
Post by Beautiful Disaster on Nov 27, 2006 15:07:35 GMT -5
Hey your back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
|
|
|
Update
Nov 28, 2006 4:06:41 GMT -5
Post by MuHa Feel the Wrath on Nov 28, 2006 4:06:41 GMT -5
I remember u what have u been up too?
|
|
|
Update
Nov 28, 2006 17:18:58 GMT -5
Post by allianne on Nov 28, 2006 17:18:58 GMT -5
Aw, there's so much love goin round. lol Dreamers Dream, Sparkle, Beautiful Disaster, MuHa Feel the Wrath I remember you all! (no need to eat me...i swear...heh) Anyways, yeah I have those days where I just get fed up with having to defend myself and whatnot but now that i've finally started actually talking about it everything is a lot easier. I missed posting all the time with you guys. I haven't really been up to much, just sorting through stuff. I'm getting a car soon, i'm finally 16 (heck yes! lol), and looking to take a summer visit to Australia in a year or two. My hair finally grew a couple of inches...that's about the most excting thing that's happened. ha Good to know that I wasn't forgotten though. I'll see you all around and thanks for the welcome back!
|
|
Emy-Dawn
Cool User
[ss:BlueTwilight]
Posts: 106
|
Update
Dec 1, 2006 3:27:11 GMT -5
Post by Emy-Dawn on Dec 1, 2006 3:27:11 GMT -5
heyyyyyyyyy what kind of car are u getting?
|
|
|
Update
Dec 1, 2006 18:20:47 GMT -5
Post by allianne on Dec 1, 2006 18:20:47 GMT -5
Heh, um I know nothing about cars. The prettiest cheap car I can find? I walk about a block to school and my hair is practically frozen by the time I get there. So I'm not picky.
|
|
|
Update
Dec 1, 2006 19:43:14 GMT -5
Post by Beautiful Disaster on Dec 1, 2006 19:43:14 GMT -5
Aw, there's so much love goin round. lol Dreamers Dream, Sparkle, Beautiful Disaster, MuHa Feel the Wrath I remember you all! (no need to eat me...i swear...heh) Anyways, yeah I have those days where I just get fed up with having to defend myself and whatnot but now that i've finally started actually talking about it everything is a lot easier. I missed posting all the time with you guys. I haven't really been up to much, just sorting through stuff. I'm getting a car soon, i'm finally 16 (heck yes! lol), and looking to take a summer visit to Australia in a year or two. My hair finally grew a couple of inches...that's about the most excting thing that's happened. ha Good to know that I wasn't forgotten though. I'll see you all around and thanks for the welcome back! We wont eat you *hands u a cookie* Congrats on getting a new car! and Happy Belated B-day!!!
|
|
Alcohol4ever
Staff of the month
Broken Wings
~*~Fallen Angel~*~[ss:Purple]
Posts: 1,158
|
Update
Dec 9, 2006 17:34:58 GMT -5
Post by Alcohol4ever on Dec 9, 2006 17:34:58 GMT -5
I REMEMBER YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AND YOUR PENGUIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!
|
|
|
Update
Dec 11, 2006 0:09:53 GMT -5
Post by allianne on Dec 11, 2006 0:09:53 GMT -5
lol *squeezes penguin* I haven't seen anyone else using him yet (although I don't know why...he's adorable!) so I can still keep my famous penguin. I don't know what I'd do without him. I can't believe I missed all these awesome smilies!
|
|
|
Update
Dec 19, 2006 16:07:48 GMT -5
Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on Dec 19, 2006 16:07:48 GMT -5
Are you sticking around now?
|
|