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Post by Southern_Cowgirl on Jun 22, 2006 21:51:27 GMT -5
My cousin Jonathan who brother Mark died about a year and 6 days ago has been drinking alot and smoking pot(i found out by one of his friends)... he has gone to school drunk and the only reason why he ain't in alot of trouble because his Commander of ROTC made him stay in his office until school was over. I know that he is drinking & smoking alot because of mark's death and i don't know how to help him and i really wish i could because I'm afraid because i wouldn't be able to know if he is alright because he is going to WA to work and i won't be able to talk to him...
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Post by WilD CherrY on Jun 22, 2006 22:10:31 GMT -5
Have you tried talking to him now before he goes?
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on Jun 23, 2006 5:42:42 GMT -5
Although its not a healthy way its his way of dealing with it. Guys are harder to get through then girls are, I think its best to talk to him now or have another family member talk to him before it gets worse. It could pass too with time but sometimes they become their lifestyle so the sooner the better. Couldn't you always call to check uo every once in awhile and theres always the internet.
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Post by Southern_Cowgirl on Jun 23, 2006 7:41:25 GMT -5
Well i have tried to talk to him and that is how i know he does smoke and when he goes to WA he'll be working on a pipeline i think and he will be staying in hotels so i ain't sure if he'll have Internet and calling him my gosh i have never really talk to him on the phone and really we ain't that close but i been talking to him lately because i found out about him doing drugs and i don't know if i could talk to him about these things
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Post by GrapeJuice on Jun 23, 2006 17:18:45 GMT -5
Have you asked your own parents to talk to him and your uncle? Its understandable in my eyes why they are doing such things but it needs to be delt with also. You can't make him stop doing what he is doing, Hes going to have to do it for himself. You might just have to wait untill he wants help.
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Post by Southern_Cowgirl on Jun 23, 2006 19:34:24 GMT -5
One i don't live with my parents I live with my grandparents Two he would KILL me if i did
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Post by grbrgb on Jan 4, 2011 4:34:10 GMT -5
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