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Post by littlemikey on May 12, 2006 5:36:55 GMT -5
Hello there, I am curious, but how do you define a Virgin, in a religious sence? I have a friend who has said to not have sex before marriage, however, I know that she and her boyfriend do alot of sexual things, like give each other handjobs and oral sex ect. They do not actually have intercourse, and she still belives that she is a pure virgin, but I am curious as to if she is breaking the christian rules. I am not worried, just curious about peoples thaughts about the subject, thanks
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Post by sleeplesshadow on May 12, 2006 11:19:55 GMT -5
The bible also says that you have to have a pure mind though, as well as pure actions (which consits of that type of sexual contact etc.). SO she can get away with the beleif that she is virgin, but to be honest with you, i think she is playing a mind game with herself. If that helps any
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Post by Rachel on May 12, 2006 13:54:57 GMT -5
Some religions believe that when the hymen of a woman is broke,she is no longer a virgin. But i believe the Christian beliefs are if someone HAS NOT had sexual intercourse with someone,then they are still a virgin,whether there hymen is broke or not. If someone has had sexual intercourse,then they are not a virgin.
I would say (personally) that your friend is a virgin,because yes she has performed sexual acts,but she hasnt had sex. Its like saying that someone who has never ever been with someone else in any manner (even performing oral sex and handjobs etc) but masturbates themselves..then that person is not a virgin,because they have performed a sexual act upon themselves. I find this the same as doing it on someone else. Because most virgins will in fact masturbate themselves. am i correct?
So i would say yes,she is a virgin..until she has sex.
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Post by Raft on May 12, 2006 15:00:37 GMT -5
she would still be a virgin but its against the comedents because its still sexual.
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on May 12, 2006 18:40:25 GMT -5
I'm christian and although I dont attend regular church my pastor lives across the street so I asked him:
He said that acctually having sex will make one a non virgin and "un-pure" but it is against the comendents like the guest above said- Some people don't even kiss- Either way its a sexual act being preformed. It sounds to me like she says shes Christian but doesnt act like it 100%.
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Post by littlemikey on May 12, 2006 20:28:14 GMT -5
okay, thanks for all the comments
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on May 13, 2006 15:27:09 GMT -5
You're welcome.
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Post by steve on May 19, 2006 18:32:08 GMT -5
Lol... Breaking the cristianity rules. *beep* that man. Religion is stupid.
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Post by littlemikey on May 19, 2006 20:00:39 GMT -5
I am athiest, but I was just curious how christians defined 'A virgin'.
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Post by Aviator on May 19, 2006 20:33:45 GMT -5
Lol... Breaking the cristianity rules. f**k that man. Religion is stupid. That may be opinion but that could be considered very offensive. A Christian(me) will take that very harshly... What if there really is a heaven and a hell? Why not believe? Are you sure you wanna take that chance?
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Post by steve on May 19, 2006 21:01:05 GMT -5
Lol, wanna take that chance? wtf are you on? I don't care if u took it harshly(I don't hate u) I just htink religion is stupid.
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Post by !Dances With Hamsters! on May 20, 2006 2:09:09 GMT -5
u guys really have strong opnions lol
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Post by sleeplesshadow on May 21, 2006 13:33:34 GMT -5
I'm not going to state my opinion, i might just bite someone's head off...I just want to say you can believe what you want, i don't think anyone needs to start bashing another. Some people have morals...
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Post by bfweuoqw on May 22, 2006 15:58:24 GMT -5
religion smigin
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