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Post by Hailey on Jul 10, 2006 0:34:58 GMT -5
my mom does cocaine and smokes pot and like she does alot of things that make me mad but its always been that I have to be the strong one and hold everything in because my moms weak, Anyways im scared to say anything to her about anything she does because she always says I push her to do these things (cocaine/pot) because i stress her out and she ilke freaks out. She also have border line personality disorder..umm and like when I ask why she does it she just goes off and does alot more and then pretty much blames me for it and she like says she wouldnt be here if it wasnt for my little brother so basically saying she doesn't care bout me and I dunno what to do someone please give me some help. i feel so worthless and unloved like I dont know what else there is for me.
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Post by allianne on Jul 11, 2006 10:27:44 GMT -5
Aw, I'm sorry you have to deal with all of that. First of all, is your mom getting treatment for her BPD? If she isn't, then that could be what's making her so stressed out and could be part of the reason she's turning to drugs. I don't know much about it, but it can get out of hand.
When you approach your mom have you done it in a gentle way? Try to be understanding and tell her that you're not blaming or insulting her. If she still blames you, then you know it's not your fault. Don't let her blame you for what she's doing! It's her life. She's the one controlling it. Although she might feel you're attacking her and stressing her out because of her BPD.
Right now, your mom isn't stable, and the environment you and your brother are living in isn't healthy. Where is your dad? Could you talk to him or some other family member about your mom? She needs to get the drug thing cleared up and figure out why she's feeling so stressed. Maybe you could suggest taking her to the doctor, or have another family member suggest it so she doesn't yell at you. It could be that the doctor could clear up whatever has been going through her head. If she won't get help and won't listen to others, you might want to think about leaving. Is there anyone else you could stay with until she gets her problems sorted out?
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Post by goochmonster on Jul 11, 2006 20:40:15 GMT -5
Shitty
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Post by MuHa Feel the Wrath on Jul 14, 2006 15:55:47 GMT -5
Thanks for the help! Remeber when u talk to someone on drugs your not talking to them ur talking to the drug.
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Post by WilD CherrY on Jul 22, 2006 5:46:57 GMT -5
I just wouldn't talk to her people with BPD are difficult but its not their fault you know.
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