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Post by archerydude on Mar 22, 2006 6:58:59 GMT -5
im 15 and really confused. there is this girl i love sooo much. we havnt enguaged in any sexual activity. shes 14. but being a 15 year old boy, i have on 1 or 2 occasions dreamt of having sexual relations with her. We have been going through hard times recently (both of us) and have got to the stage of cutting. i have mangaed to stop, and she has promiced me shes stoped. but if im honest cutting myself is almost enjoyable, but in my dreams i have dreampt and us cutting each other, just shalow cuts, and then having sex. for some reason the blood seems to be a huge turn on. it just makes me excited. i feel really emabbrased saying this, but i would appreciate sum advice on this, not abbuse. thank you for you time n advance. thanks alot seb
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Post by aod on Mar 22, 2006 7:01:18 GMT -5
lol interesting well it really isnt much of a problem the way you describe it. its kinda more of a fettish lol. interesting to add too wait i already said interesting. but doesnt cutting yourself bad enough? i mean doesnt it leave scars on the skin?
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Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Mar 22, 2006 7:10:03 GMT -5
I think it is also a fetish but if you were to engage in something like that you would have to be SO careful. Maybe try talking to a counselor about it or something. It could also just be with how your feeling right now which is obviously depressed. The feelings you are having may or may not go away but you should talk about them with someone.
How would she feel about doing that? What if it left scars? What if someone was accidentally killed? There's alot of risks in that. I'm sure your not the only person in the world who has the same thoughts.
Personally I would stick to dreaming about it and not acting upon it but ultimately the decision is up too you.
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Post by aod on Mar 22, 2006 7:21:34 GMT -5
the problem is choice
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Post by moronicscarecrow on Apr 5, 2006 7:54:13 GMT -5
I find cutting close to enjoyable, but more so because i feel i am doing something no one has a say in... but i cant really imagine doing it around other people. but then thats just me
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Post by vy on Apr 5, 2006 21:36:51 GMT -5
Archerydude:
:PUmm, don't mind me being a little out of it, but what are you asking advice for? How to handle the dream? Or how to go about cutting? Or just sexual relation with your girlfriend in general? I'm not sure what you are asking advice for? If you don't mind, can you please be more specific?
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