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Mar 25, 2006 6:27:31 GMT -5
Post by Maddie on Mar 25, 2006 6:27:31 GMT -5
hey i really like this guy, right, and i have been tryin to get up the courage to talk to him, but whenever i begin to even think about talking to him i get all nervous. I know that i will be able to talk to him when i know what i am going to say and "hey" or "whats up" always sounds good but i just dont know what to say after that. I have talked to this guy over instant messenger and we get along great its just harder in person. So what do you think i could say to him to make him intrested and i already know that i should just be myself..
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Mar 25, 2006 6:33:21 GMT -5
Post by littlemikey on Mar 25, 2006 6:33:21 GMT -5
Lol, first of all, dont worry. Talking to the opposite sex is something that almost every teenager (and several adults) find hard to do. You just have to have conifdence in yourself. A good strategy is to hang around with him while he is with his friends so he has a distraction but you can concentrate on being around him. And when he is walking to class or something you can ask him to a movie or something then. Good luck
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Mar 25, 2006 6:35:56 GMT -5
Post by Dregond [Gone] on Mar 25, 2006 6:35:56 GMT -5
relax, guys like the grils abit shy .. jsut strat talking to him hell tell him "im abit shy talking to you upclose and personal" he'll blush i can garunteee it
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Mar 25, 2006 6:41:17 GMT -5
Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Mar 25, 2006 6:41:17 GMT -5
This seems like a difficult situation for you, I get pretty nervous around guys that I like too! It's difficult to start a conversation with someone that you like, but like you said..Just be yourself! You can talk to him as if he's a friend, simple things like "How are you?" or "How was your day?" are good conversation starters. Also, you might want to consider asking him about his hobbies, pets, siblings, family, just as a few starter ideas. I'n not sure what exactly you could say to make him interested, because I don't know exactly what he likes. Just remember, if it doesn't seem as though he's interested, it's not your fault, he might be shy or nervous too! Being able to talk to him by instant messenger was a good start, but it does make it quite awkward to try to have conversations face-to-face. Now you have a couple conversations starters that you can think about using, and if you don't feel comfortable talking to him face-to-face yet, you can always consider keeping in touch on MSN until you have the courage and know exactly what you want to say to him. Also, talking to him on MSN allows you to get to know him more therefore you have something to start a conversation with him when you see him. Good Luck!
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Mar 25, 2006 10:29:42 GMT -5
Post by rpmonkey80 on Mar 25, 2006 10:29:42 GMT -5
Don't concentrate on how nervous you are - that will just make it worse. So instead of "ohhh, I'll probably end up babbling like an idiot!" try, "I can't wait to talk to this person, they're really nice and I like them a lot." Maybe start with just a friendly wave in the hallways or something?
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Mar 26, 2006 16:47:40 GMT -5
Post by stars2mind on Mar 26, 2006 16:47:40 GMT -5
rpmonkey is right!!!...dont concentrate on the negatives be positive...in other words......if it doesnt work out dont beat yourself up over it...like they all say there is other fish in the sea...i think.. lol
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Mar 31, 2006 8:02:02 GMT -5
Post by Crazy-Lil-Thing-Called-LOVE-<3 on Mar 31, 2006 8:02:02 GMT -5
Dont worry! I was like that with my bf at first. I acted like someone I wasnt. And then we split up and we went out as friends and I acted like Me, The Real Me. and... turns out he likes The Real Me better. We're back together and, hopefully, will be for a long time. He's seen me hypo, he's seen me depressed and cutting, he's seen me crying my eyes out... He knows everything about my life and he's always there for me. The other day I ran outta class to go and find him cos I was upset and I cried into his chest and he kissed me and made everything better.
Just pluck up the courage to talk to him, and, you never know, he could be The One you spend your entire life with. xx
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