kk
Newbie
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My Ex
Mar 31, 2006 18:46:09 GMT -5
Post by kk on Mar 31, 2006 18:46:09 GMT -5
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My Ex
Mar 31, 2006 22:45:17 GMT -5
Post by monice on Mar 31, 2006 22:45:17 GMT -5
tell him to *beep* off. hes a pansy. They can do something before he hurts you if you feel threatened or in danger. thats bullshit. I wasnt even being threatened but I was scared of someone and I got a restraining order
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My Ex
Apr 1, 2006 0:25:53 GMT -5
Post by vy on Apr 1, 2006 0:25:53 GMT -5
Dear kk:
From the sounds of things, he is accusing you of breaking up with him, because you are cheating. He can say it, but it doesn't make it true - I think he is just trying to confuse you and make himself feel better. It sounds like he is not taking the break up really well and is still trying to continue the relationship through that excuse. By saying you are cheating - he has an excuse to get his peps (A.K.A buddies) to stalk you?! No way girl! You are right on this one, that just doesn't sound right to me either. He can think whatever he wants - unfortunately, that doesn't make it true - the whole thing about him still thinking you guys are dating. I'm not sure how serious this is, but don't hesitate to go to your school counsellor for advice. If you have to, ask your counsellor about restraining orders. It might sound harsh, but if he doesn't choose to go against the restraining order to hurt you or stalk you - then he should be fine. From what I know, restraining orders are not meant to hurt him, only to keep YOU safe! Talking to teachers, counsellors, and other adults might also help you understand your options as well. Hope this helps. ;D Trust your intuition.
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My Ex
Apr 3, 2006 4:43:28 GMT -5
Post by Sparkle on Apr 3, 2006 4:43:28 GMT -5
This is definutley the best thing yo can do. Even if it seems extreme, do whatever you have to. Your safety is number one priority.
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My Ex
Apr 3, 2006 6:24:39 GMT -5
Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Apr 3, 2006 6:24:39 GMT -5
Has the police done anything yet? Try and avoid him as much as you can. If he gets mad at you for talking to other guys it's just jealousy. Don't walk alone and stay in a group of friends at all times untill you can get it figured out.
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lilcrazygirl
Junior Member
Broken heart
HOLAZ!!![ss:EmphemSkin][ss:Purple][ss:Purple]
Posts: 156
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My Ex
Apr 3, 2006 16:06:12 GMT -5
Post by lilcrazygirl on Apr 3, 2006 16:06:12 GMT -5
Sounds like your boyfriend didn't want you to break up. I'm with vy on this one. He probably didn't want you guys to break up so he made an excuse so that he thinks that you guys didn't break up. Now you really just have to go up to him ,and tell him straight up "we're not going out, ok?" or something like that. If he puts one finger on you, you have the right to go to the police ,and say that he is threating you and that he is stalking you. You don't have to put up with him ,and worry about who you talk to (i mean if you talk to guys.)
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My Ex
Apr 4, 2006 0:55:50 GMT -5
Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on Apr 4, 2006 0:55:50 GMT -5
Dear kk: From the sounds of things, he is accusing you of breaking up with him, because you are cheating. He can say it, but it doesn't make it true - I think he is just trying to confuse you and make himself feel better. It sounds like he is not taking the break up really well and is still trying to continue the relationship through that excuse. By saying you are cheating - he has an excuse to get his peps (A.K.A buddies) to stalk you?! No way girl! You are right on this one, that just doesn't sound right to me either. He can think whatever he wants - unfortunately, that doesn't make it true - the whole thing about him still thinking you guys are dating. I'm not sure how serious this is, but don't hesitate to go to your school counsellor for advice. If you have to, ask your counsellor about restraining orders. It might sound harsh, but if he doesn't choose to go against the restraining order to hurt you or stalk you - then he should be fine. From what I know, restraining orders are not meant to hurt him, only to keep YOU safe! Talking to teachers, counsellors, and other adults might also help you understand your options as well. Hope this helps. ;D Trust your intuition. Agreed
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My Ex
Apr 4, 2006 2:16:23 GMT -5
Post by GrapeJuice on Apr 4, 2006 2:16:23 GMT -5
wow control freak. I hope the police do something their isn't much you can do on your own. Like babycakes said just try and stay away from him for as long as you can. Good luck *hugs*
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My Ex
Apr 5, 2006 16:04:10 GMT -5
Post by Beautiful Disaster on Apr 5, 2006 16:04:10 GMT -5
Do u have an update? I want to know what happened
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My Ex
Apr 5, 2006 21:25:34 GMT -5
Post by vy on Apr 5, 2006 21:25:34 GMT -5
kk:
Awesome advice Babycakes, I completely agree with everything you have suggested. Hope you are doing well kk. Good luck.
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