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Post by .Ben.Evans. on Mar 9, 2006 11:42:54 GMT -5
Hi it's Ben!
I'm getting bullied by someone a few years older than me and it's getting out of hand. First it just started with a few bruises and getting stuff thrown at me. But now they are kicking and punching me to the ground then hitting me with any weapons they can find. These are some of the weapons they have used... > Glass Beer Bottle > Big Plank Of Wood > Sometimes they even smash my face against the metal face.
Any help would be really appreciated.
Thanks, Ben.
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Post by pretzelofconfusion on Mar 9, 2006 12:06:35 GMT -5
hey ben! theres nothing i can think of besides avoiding them or telling someone, but i'm not sure that will be of much help to you... if i think of anything i will let you know! Good luck! -karlee
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Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Mar 9, 2006 14:46:39 GMT -5
Do you know who they are? I think you should tell someone just because it could get worse and you never know what could happen. I know on one hand you have to keep yourself safe and on the other hand you dont want to look like a wuss and tell someone but, you have to take care of yourself.
Getting hit with beer bottles and wood could seriously do some damage. In my opnion I rather look like a wuss then possibably end up dead.
Unless you can avoid these people all together and know that you won't run into them I would press charges, get a restraing order or something.
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Post by damian on Mar 9, 2006 15:17:31 GMT -5
Man try reporting some of this stuff or maybe press charges if you want it to stop legaly, if its one guy whos bullying you try fighting back or anything.
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on Mar 9, 2006 20:30:15 GMT -5
Take a self defence class or sign up for kick boxing.
Next time they try to beat you up crub stomp the morons
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Post by stars2mind on Mar 9, 2006 21:20:04 GMT -5
take the advice their ^ giving it will help you fight them off and finally chill without those dumbasses hounding you!!!
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Post by Dreamers Dream on Mar 9, 2006 23:26:50 GMT -5
I agree with everyone but I would take killerstyles advice although the proper way to deal with it would be to report it to the cops or someone at school (if you attend school) Maye your parent's or something. You need to stand up for yourself tho.
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Post by stars2mind on Mar 9, 2006 23:32:00 GMT -5
your making yourself more vulnerable everyday you let them put their hands on you......pretty sone they will worst and they wont have pity for you.........unless your kool with it. but dont let them think that they can do this to you!
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Post by goochmonster on Mar 10, 2006 0:07:26 GMT -5
You should have a heart to heart with them....naw just kidding kick their ass. Maybe you should carry a few weapons of your own,. I find brass knucks always work good, good damage to the nose and cheek bone area. Just make it known that you won't take theri shit no mo. You can do it big guy, I believe in you.
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Post by .Ben.Evans. on Mar 10, 2006 1:49:08 GMT -5
Thanks for the advice people i appreciate it
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Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Mar 10, 2006 1:53:55 GMT -5
You're welcome.
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Post by rpmonkey80 on Mar 25, 2006 11:48:11 GMT -5
Is there any way you could just avoid them? or, be in a big crowd of people you're friendly with if you have to be near them?
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Post by !Dances With Hamsters! on Mar 28, 2006 15:35:15 GMT -5
Yeah I would try to avoid them as much as possible and make sure your nevet alone
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Post by section8 on Mar 31, 2006 18:46:36 GMT -5
Thats to much, go to the police, get a restraining order, press charges.
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Post by Kellie on Apr 16, 2006 18:15:14 GMT -5
Hey Ben,
My name isn't really Kellie, but hey! Listen, I was bullied as well. There were some days when I really wanted to kill the people who were hurting me, but I didn't.
Instead, I told a trusted adult (my father). He went to the principal and they took care of it.
Violence is not the key to solving this problem. Getting revenge doesn't solve anything.
Have you ever heard the saying, an eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind? If you were to seek revenge on these bullies, they would seek revenge on you and then you would seek revenge and then where would it end?
I would go to the police, a trusted adult or to a school administer. Don't go to violence.
If you need any more help, we're all here for you!
Good luck Ben.
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