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Post by lilcrazygirl on Apr 10, 2006 19:21:31 GMT -5
Is it weird if you're a girl that likes a boy a year younger than you?
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Post by vy on Apr 10, 2006 19:31:33 GMT -5
Dear Nekoichigo:
Personally, I don't see anything wrong with liking someone a year younger then you. You should never feel bad because you like a certain individual - younger, or older. I think everyone has their own opinion as to what is weird and not - for me, it would have to be more then 5 years age difference.
However, the important thing is not what I think, but what do you think? Does it mean a lot to you that he is a year younger?
No matter how you think, I'm sure you know yourself best, and will know what will be best for you - like him or not like him? There is no right or wrong choice - just your choice.
Hope that helped. ^_^
(P.S. In my book: "No, you are not weird for liking someone that is a year younger then you.")
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Post by lilcrazygirl on Apr 10, 2006 19:59:13 GMT -5
Dear Nekoichigo: Personally, I don't see anything wrong with liking someone a year younger then you. You should never feel bad because you like a certain individual - younger, or older. I think everyone has their own opinion as to what is weird and not - for me, it would have to be more then 5 years age difference. However, the important thing is not what I think, but what do you think? Does it mean a lot to you that he is a year younger? No matter how you think, I'm sure you know yourself best, and will know what will be best for you - like him or not like him? There is no right or wrong choice - just your choice. Hope that helped. ^_^ (P.S. In my book: "No, you are not weird for liking someone that is a year younger then you.") I mean....I've went out with people like 2 years older than me ,and I've also went out with people that wree younger than me by a few months.....but I've never liked somebody that was a year younger than me. Even though I don't think that it's weird I think that other people will.........
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Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Apr 10, 2006 20:18:36 GMT -5
I don't think its weird at all! Don't worry about what other people think. If you like him you should go out with him or get to know him better. I personally don't think that a guy being a few months or a year younger is much of a difference. If it was 3 or 4 years younger then I could see a problem maybe but it's not. Do what you want to do. If you like him don't let what other people think stop you.
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Post by GrapeJuice on Apr 11, 2006 0:08:11 GMT -5
Hey nekoichigo,
Its not weird at all to like a boy younger then you. Its just a stereotype that a girl should date a boy older because the male is suppose to be dominant but that in fact is not true. Now a days there are many girls who date younger guys because they like them better. Nekoichigo age is just a number. If you like this boy then don't worry about how old he is worry about how he treats you and stuff like that. Age is just a minimal detail in a relationship. Don't let it stop you from having what you want. Make a stand and be different then everyone. How do you think fads start? Go out with him or hang out with him and don't care what the others think. If you show them it doesn't bother you sooner or later they will give up or even think its cool!
Grape Juice~
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Post by biancasaur on Apr 12, 2006 0:41:26 GMT -5
I agree with GrapeJuice that girls are always expected to date guys who are older than them, not to mention taller than them, bigger than them, etc., and then when they're attracted to guys that don't fit those standards, some people think it's weird... but it's not!
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Post by vy on Apr 12, 2006 18:03:15 GMT -5
Dear Nekoichigo: Everyone makes a good point: not to care too much about what other people think, because you can never impress everyone - you know? Someone will always think something bad about you - that is, if they think about you at all. A lot of people might say things (mean things), and such, but a lot of those people don't care about you that is why they are so mean. So try not to worry too much about those meanies . On the other hand, I can relate to how you feel right now - liking someone younger. I also like my friend, who is ~3 years younger then me - Woha! I was so afraid of what people might think, and what not. But then I realized, I can't help how I feel, so why feel bad for just being true to my emotions. Secondly, me liking him, doesn't mean that we have to date - if you don't feel comfortable dating him or showing your affection, that is fine. But don't force yourself to stop liking him - that would make you feel worse. It is not your fault, he is such a young cutie, right? ;D Unfortunatley, I don't have a straight out answer for you on this topic - age difference really depends. If you do decide to date someone younger, there is more then just the "status quo" thing to consider. Younger boys are usually not as mature. The reason a lot of girls date older guys is because girls are more mature then guys (in general), so they date older people to be at the same maturity level (personal theory). So if you plan to date a younger guy, keep in mind that he might not be as mature as you. Hope that helped...alittle at least? Good Luck ^_^
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on Apr 15, 2006 4:45:53 GMT -5
This is SOOOOOOO true... and its soo ridiculous (I think I just butcherd that word) anyways i think its because girls mature faster then most guys so the level of a older male is at our level rather then a younger male. There is nothign wrong with dating someone younger you just have to be ready for all the immature bulllshit that comes with it. not all young guys are immature but there are quite a few of them!!!
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Post by lilcrazygirl on Apr 15, 2006 9:05:29 GMT -5
Lol.....yeah he is immature ,but I'm immature sometimes too (or maybe I'm just really bad......does trying to break into a school house mean that ur bad or that ur immature....or both?) He isn't that immature though ,and I know how to deal with immature guys (sometimes guys being immature are good cause they usually don't cheat on you or use you and guys that are mature do ,or thats what happened to me.)
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Post by Beautiful Disaster on Apr 15, 2006 15:12:10 GMT -5
well it seems like ur fine with it so you might as well go for it. if it doesnt work out you can always sit back and laugh later about going out with someone younger then you when your like 20 or something.
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Post by vy on Apr 15, 2006 22:28:05 GMT -5
Dear Nekoichigo: It sounds like you have a good feeling towards the relationship with this younger guy. Well, you know yourself and him best - you are capable of making the choice. I'm sorry to hear about your previous experience with dating a user. I understand that can be heartbreaking - but it really depends from guy to guy. I'm glad you still have the courage to seek out new relationships. I know it can be so hard, after a tough break up - personal experience (hurt for ages). Do what feels right to you. You only live once right? Just be careful, and take care. Good luck ^_^ (P.S. Breaking into a school house?! Lmao, I can't wait to leave school each day, and you're trying to spend more time there! )
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Post by lilcrazygirl on Apr 17, 2006 8:46:15 GMT -5
lol...hey it was an abandoned school house...and i like adventure soo i wanted to see wat was in there......and i HATE school sooo yeah...breaking into the school house (or trying to) was basically for adventure!!! And I have NO clue if the boy that I like likes me or not!!!
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