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Post by Emo Kid on Apr 11, 2006 0:58:50 GMT -5
theres this guy named dan, he calls himself dan the man, i call him dan the turkey cuz he looks like a turkey cuz he has a red mohawk. he always is mean to me and calls me a f*g and poser and treats me horribly. he doesnt even kno me. he prolly doesnt even kno my name and hes awful to me. he bullies me ever time he sees me. what should i do?
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Post by GrapeJuice on Apr 11, 2006 1:20:01 GMT -5
Well Dan the man isn't really a man. A real man would belittle others. Hes probably insecure about him self. I would just ignore him and don't take what he says to you to heart. Bullies usually bully because they were bullied before or they are jelous or insecure. I know its probably hard to ignore it but if it was me I would give him the "Your dumb" look and kind of snicker and walk away with your head held high. If he knows its going to bother you he will continue to do it. Don't let him know it bothers you. Be better then him and make him look like the idiot. I knew a few bullies that called the "goths" f*gs because of what they wore but it turned out the bullies were insecure because they were gay and it was there way of trying to show that they weren't. Either way stand up to him and show him you won't take his childish shit anymore.
Grape Juice~
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Post by Emo Kid on Apr 11, 2006 1:49:27 GMT -5
alright. thx for the help. to be honest, im kind of a bully to others prolly cuz im upset with my own life so i take it out on others. its not a good way to be but unfortunately its how i am
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on Apr 11, 2006 4:33:17 GMT -5
Treat others how you would want to be treated You can't bully people and then get angry or sad when someone bullies you Its Karma what goes around comes around. You get what you dish out. Even if this guy doesn't see u bully people. Its just the karma.
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Post by Emo Kid on Apr 11, 2006 5:00:24 GMT -5
i started bullying long after i started getting bullied. ive only bullied people for like a year. ive been bullied for about 5 or 6 years
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Post by lilcrazygirl on Apr 11, 2006 18:05:20 GMT -5
Well it's good that you stopped.....you did stop didnt you?
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Post by vy on Apr 11, 2006 21:25:04 GMT -5
Dear Emo: It sounds like you know what it is like to be the bully and be bullied. Since it sounds like you don't like being bullied (no one does), then why do that to someone else? Obviously, you know you are a bully and even laugh at it - I'm sure Dan (the turkey) does the same thing. Killerstyle bring up a very good point: treat others as you would like to be treated. It sucks that Dan is bullying you, but you don't have to bully another just because you got bullied - now is your chance to change the cycle! You can end this cycling of bullying! Maybe something you should consider doing is talking to Dan. Sounds girlie, I know - just give it a try. It sounds like you call him a lot of names too though. Maybe, just maybe - he is calling you names, because you are calling him names! Wow, what are the odds of that!? You probably think I sound rather stupid right about now, but don't do to others what you don't want done to yourself - so if you don't want to be called name Emo, then don't call others name! It is your call dude. Good luck!
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Post by Emo Kid on Apr 11, 2006 21:30:50 GMT -5
Well it's good that you stopped.....you did stop didnt you? no, i still bully, but, they say most bullies are bullies cuz theyve been bullied. well, i used to be nice, but 6 years of being bullied turned me around to my bad side actually, he just outta the blue started treating me badly. he doesnt even kno i call him turkey. he doesnt even kno me. he prolly doesnt kno my name. hes never even met me
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on Apr 15, 2006 4:27:53 GMT -5
If he doesn't know you then Im guessing you don't know him but you call him dan the turkey So your doing exactally what hes doing. You can always stop bullying..
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Post by Emo Kid on Apr 15, 2006 4:46:22 GMT -5
i dont call him dan the turkey to his face so im not bullying. i only call him that behind his back cuz hes mean to me. an eye for an eye
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on Apr 15, 2006 4:47:56 GMT -5
lMAO hahaaahahhhhhhahhhhhhhaa okay thats cool then! beat his ass..
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Post by vy on Apr 15, 2006 22:39:24 GMT -5
Dear Emo: LOL, I'm glad you are dealing with the whole situation with such good humour. It doesn't sound too bad, so I'm glad. About an eye for an eye, LOL, if everyone listened to that quote - I think everyone in this world would be blind! I agree with you that a lot of bullies bully because they have been bullied (or something harsh), if that is the cause, it is not your fault and out of your control - so try not to let it affect you. Hmm, one more thing. You said, he treats you bad, but doesn't even know you, right? Maybe, because he doesn' t know you, it is easier for him to bully you. Maybe it would help if he got to know you? You never know? Bullies need friends too, right? ...just don't call him dan the turkey. ;)LOL.
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Post by Emo Kid on Apr 27, 2006 23:40:54 GMT -5
Hmm, one more thing. You said, he treats you bad, but doesn't even know you, right? Maybe, because he doesn' t know you, it is easier for him to bully you. Maybe it would help if he got to know you? You never know? Bullies need friends too, right? ...just don't call him dan the turkey. ;)LOL. hes popular, he has plenty of friends unfortunately, its already affected me in a horrible way. you kno how bullies bully cuz either theyre upset with theyre life or they were bullied in the past? well, im upset with life, and i was bullied in the past and now. mix the two together, what do you get? a new bully. i am upset with the way my own life is going and now im taking it out on this one fat guy in my class. so unfortunately these things have already taken their toll
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Post by Beautiful Disaster on Apr 28, 2006 2:54:19 GMT -5
You're prettyy much being what you dont like in the end though.
Look at it this way. Think about how YOU feel when you get bullied. Now imagine how they feel when you pick on them. Do you want them to feel that way? I think your just taking you being bullied out on others, you should stop before it gets worse maybe talk to a counseller or something ya kno.
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Post by vy on Apr 28, 2006 12:38:51 GMT -5
Dear Emo: DOn't make it bad for others, just because you had it rough. I'm sorry that you experienced all this, it was totally unfair, but that is no excuse to do it to someone else. Don't use your own experience as an excuse to bully others. Sorry I sound harsh, but life is unfair - you can stop this now. Don't give yourself that excuse to bully someone else, cuz in the end - you are just letting dan the turkey win - because whatever that he did to you, is still influencing your actions now. Don't give him that kind of control over you. If you have the power to bully someone else, you also have the power to change the way you think - don't give me excuses.
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Post by Emo Kid on Apr 28, 2006 22:57:34 GMT -5
its not cuz of dan. i have other reason, but i dont feel comfortable posting.
and i cant talk to a counselor, cuz then people will kno why i bully
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Post by MuHa Feel the Wrath on Apr 28, 2006 23:18:01 GMT -5
well without sharing whats going on its harder to get help remember no one here has anyclur who u are but you can always PM someone also.
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