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Matt
Apr 13, 2006 0:02:59 GMT -5
Post by GUEST JOIN on Apr 13, 2006 0:02:59 GMT -5
-- I'm a girl. --
((I'll join tommarow. I have to go to bed soon and don't have the time to join and post.))
There is someone I like. His name is Matt. My friends -- also his friends -- have noticed that I have A LOT in common with him, and they said I'm starting to remind them of him. He used to hang out with us and play soccer. He did so for the first half of the school year -- I'm in 7th grade. 13 years old. He is also 13 -- But now he is hanging out with other boys and talks to us every once in a while. I was just starting to get to know him.
At first he ignored me, acting like I wasn't there. Then we began to talk before it came to when we played soccer -- kick the ball against the wall -- We would stand off to the side and talk for like thirty seconds, be quiet for a few minutes, talk again, and do it all over.
Now all the sudden he is off and hanging out with the other boys, and all I get from him is a simple Hi or a wave when I see him. That's it. Seeing as I never get the chance to actually talk to him anymore...
My question is... What do I do? I like him. But I think he barely even wants to be my friend. I can't tell. He doesn't show enough emotion for me to be able to...
Help?
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L.B
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Matt
Apr 13, 2006 0:07:26 GMT -5
Post by L.B on Apr 13, 2006 0:07:26 GMT -5
Welcome to Teen Vibe!!! I'll see u around then when you join tomorrow Maybe he just wants to be friends? if you want to talk to him go up to him and start a conversations. Guys can be shy too. It might be that he has alot of other activites going on and so he's been busy. The only way for you tell is too talk to him and find out.
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Matt
Apr 13, 2006 13:57:06 GMT -5
Post by Joining soon on Apr 13, 2006 13:57:06 GMT -5
He's really quiet though. He doesn't talk much...
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Matt
Apr 13, 2006 20:55:52 GMT -5
Post by Beautiful Disaster on Apr 13, 2006 20:55:52 GMT -5
Thats probably why your having a hard time. Just start a conversation with him everytime you see him. He'll probably warm up too you, To make a quiet person talk you make them feel comfertable. Or you could always write him a note and give it too him when you see him.
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Matt
Apr 15, 2006 4:33:47 GMT -5
Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on Apr 15, 2006 4:33:47 GMT -5
Welcome to the site!! Im Katie. I think you should just try and talk to him even if he is shy. Just keep making convo untill he starts to break down his shyness. If you fail the first time just keep trying he will give in sooner or later.. just got to break that ackwardness at first to get comfortable. you have soo much in common so you'll probably make a good relationship or a friendship at least. Maybe you could of made yourself look like you were interested in him. that can happen sometimes when your nervous. Think about how you acted and see if he may of read u the wrong way. With shy guys you can't act hard to get you have to be the go getter.. good luck guest join
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Matt
Apr 15, 2006 22:56:37 GMT -5
Post by vy on Apr 15, 2006 22:56:37 GMT -5
Awww, that is so cute! Matt, is just beginning to hang out with the other boys right? I think he might still be in the stage of proving himself to the others, and so that might be why he isn't really talking to you or expressing a lot of emotions. You know how guys can be, (usually) trying to be all mocho and "the man". So don't take any of this personally. Hands up for talking to him. Sounds like you both like soccer, so maybe invite him out for soccer practice or something? Don't worry, soccer practice is not a date - so don't be nervous. Enjoy your time with him. Good luck girl!
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Matt
Apr 20, 2006 15:58:18 GMT -5
Post by L.B on Apr 20, 2006 15:58:18 GMT -5
Awww, that is so cute! Matt, is just beginning to hang out with the other boys right? I think he might still be in the stage of proving himself to the others, and so that might be why he isn't really talking to you or expressing a lot of emotions. You know how guys can be, (usually) trying to be all mocho and "the man". So don't take any of this personally. Hands up for talking to him. Sounds like you both like soccer, so maybe invite him out for soccer practice or something? Don't worry, soccer practice is not a date - so don't be nervous. Enjoy your time with him. Good luck girl! ditto
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Matt
Apr 25, 2006 4:20:44 GMT -5
Post by !Dances With Hamsters! on Apr 25, 2006 4:20:44 GMT -5
hes probably just getting to know them first and then maybe he will come around. some times guys do that when they want to fit in or whatever u know, just talk to him as much as u can give u guys something to talk about
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Matt
Apr 27, 2006 7:27:38 GMT -5
Post by moronicscarecrow on Apr 27, 2006 7:27:38 GMT -5
awww. i love that name.... o hi i'm jess.. welcome!! as for what to do, i would say just start random conversations about whatever... (actually how i got to know a lot of awesome guys ) and good luck with it all!
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