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MOTHER
Apr 23, 2006 23:24:02 GMT -5
Post by HoneyBee on Apr 23, 2006 23:24:02 GMT -5
me and my moms relationship is pretty sour! She always talks rubbish to me! how can I get through to her! she just ignores EVERYTHING i say even when Im right!
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MOTHER
Apr 23, 2006 23:31:14 GMT -5
Post by allianne on Apr 23, 2006 23:31:14 GMT -5
Me and my mom have a very messed up relationship too. I'd say talk to her about your guys's relationship but...it's not really gonna work if she's always ignoring you. Me and my mom pretty much just don't talk much, but I hope you don't resort to that. Is it becoming a big problem for you? How much is it effecting you? If things are really bringing you down because of it, then you could always try talking to you dad or any siblings.
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MOTHER
Apr 23, 2006 23:40:58 GMT -5
Post by HoneyBee on Apr 23, 2006 23:40:58 GMT -5
Well thats the prob i have a rubbish father who i havent seen since i was a baby! i dont have siblings andf the rest of the fam think they are "better" then us so we dont speak to them much! i just dont have anyone to turn to if i need anything. my friends always go out with there parents an go shoppin and hang out and get money but my mom doesnt do that with me she rather be with her friends and give her friends stuff first like buys them stuff and im not being rubbish i dont mean i just want money but she wont buy me clothes the only time i get clothing is when i get rubbish hand me downs from stuck up cousins! its really annoyinhg but my mother has no problem helpin her friends out
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MOTHER
Apr 23, 2006 23:51:49 GMT -5
Post by allianne on Apr 23, 2006 23:51:49 GMT -5
Hmm..well, it doesn't sound like your mom even cares about you. Do you two even talk at all? I'm not really sure what to say to help you...we all like to feel cared about and have special things done for us every once and a while. Are there any friends or family that you could stay with for a while or talk to about it? That's what I did, and my mom was begging me to come back home afterwards. It just doesn't sound like your home is a healthy place to be when your own mother is treating you like dirt.
And there's always the choice of going to a school counsilor...he could talk to your mom for you maybe and help work things out. I know everyone is always avoiding that option, including me, but it's always helpful.
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MOTHER
Apr 23, 2006 23:57:02 GMT -5
Post by HoneyBee on Apr 23, 2006 23:57:02 GMT -5
i dont go to school i do school on the interent and no family i can stay with i did have a friend before but they moved over 14 hours away i havent seen them since they left so i dont know what to do about it. my mom kind of looks after me i get 3 small meals a day if im good because her friends eat over alot so she keeps the good food for entertainin i really dont see anyone i just sit on the compyuter in my bedroom sleep shower and umm i check the mail in the morning thats about it
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MOTHER
Apr 24, 2006 0:05:27 GMT -5
Post by allianne on Apr 24, 2006 0:05:27 GMT -5
Does your mom TRY to put you down? Does she like making you hurt by the things she's saying to you? You know, cause if she's constantly doing that, then that's emotional abuse.
She only feeds you three SMALL meals when you're good? Hun, this just sounds terrible. Maybe if you wanted to get out of the house more often you could try getting a job or something? Is it to the point where you can't stand being in your house or living with her? there's always help for that like social services. Maybe if just talking about it helps a lot, then you could always PM me or anyone else here whenever you start feeling down. But if she's doing things to you that are unhealthy, like the food thing for example, maybe you should consider getting help. I'm not sure how serious it really is. Only you know all the details.
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MOTHER
Apr 24, 2006 4:26:04 GMT -5
Post by MuHa Feel the Wrath on Apr 24, 2006 4:26:04 GMT -5
ur moms a bitch no offence
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MOTHER
Apr 29, 2006 6:13:29 GMT -5
Post by HoneyBeee on Apr 29, 2006 6:13:29 GMT -5
Does your mom TRY to put you down? Does she like making you hurt by the things she's saying to you? You know, cause if she's constantly doing that, then that's emotional abuse. She only feeds you three SMALL meals when you're good? Hun, this just sounds terrible. Maybe if you wanted to get out of the house more often you could try getting a job or something? Is it to the point where you can't stand being in your house or living with her? there's always help for that like social services. Maybe if just talking about it helps a lot, then you could always PM me or anyone else here whenever you start feeling down. But if she's doing things to you that are unhealthy, like the food thing for example, maybe you should consider getting help. I'm not sure how serious it really is. Only you know all the details. I dunno if she likes it but she does it all the time with everything like tonite there was a spot of water on a pot I washed and she said " dont put that away are you that stupid you can't dry the pot properly" I dont ever say anything back just put my head down and say sorry and do whatever it is shes wants like dry the pot properly. about the food i understand because she needs to entertain her friends when they are here. i havent been on lately because shes made me scrubb the house : like everything : even things that are clean and clean out every closest etc all week non-stop so im back now for awhile I think i dunno where social services is could I find it on the net? thanks for your help everyone. and I kno mah moms a bitch lol
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MOTHER
Apr 30, 2006 13:28:08 GMT -5
Post by ♥ Victoria ♥ on Apr 30, 2006 13:28:08 GMT -5
i dont go to school i do school on the interent and no family i can stay with i did have a friend before but they moved over 14 hours away i havent seen them since they left so i dont know what to do about it. my mom kind of looks after me i get 3 small meals a day if im good because her friends eat over alot so she keeps the good food for entertainin i really dont see anyone i just sit on the compyuter in my bedroom sleep shower and umm i check the mail in the morning thats about it How old are you? My mom get on my nerves alot. She loves me so much that she makes from my life a Hell. She gets angry all time if I dont clean the house very well, and always watches my calls and always must know who are my friends.... But that post of yours really touched me.. I mean...I always thought I am the only that is not happy inside my house but reading that made me think that I aint the only and this also is a reason why am I registered here. I dont need help now, I always find answers to my problemes alone as I always did. 3 small meals a day? School on the net? You must talk to someone....You HAVE to go to school as other kids. and you MUST eat what you want...sheesh... Our parents LIVED....their lives....but we, we can never go back to our teen years when we get old so it is time to have fun and live normal lives. About social services ..I will try to find that....just stop by this topic or register si I can let you know.
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MOTHER
Apr 30, 2006 13:54:20 GMT -5
Post by ♥ Victoria ♥ on Apr 30, 2006 13:54:20 GMT -5
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MOTHER
May 1, 2006 15:23:14 GMT -5
Post by HoneyBee on May 1, 2006 15:23:14 GMT -5
i don't want to leave this is what Im suppose to do thats why people have kids but l like i dunno I couldnt go to school now becuase i dont know anyone at all and it would be soo scary for me so Ill just keep doing it on the comp. the only time Im aloud to go out side is sometimes I get to go get gas with my mom or something but thats it. its my job to do these things and cuz IM only 15 then im suppose to be doing everything for my mom and friends she said untill im older thats what im suppose to do all kids do that. So i just sit in my room and lilsten to music do school and go on the comp and wait for her to give me something to do. IDK like I dont like it but if its what im suppose to do Ill do it I dont want to get in trouble and say no because then id have to go to the cellar and its reallly cold and stuff down there so yea i just say yes to everything she says.
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MOTHER
May 1, 2006 15:33:03 GMT -5
Post by ♥ Victoria ♥ on May 1, 2006 15:33:03 GMT -5
Cellar? ?? Do you live in the States? Np, you are mother and excuse me to say that, has a hole in the head, not all kids do that, KIDS your age go to High school, do you know what you are missing? ? You are missing real life....sheesh, you have TWO things: -Dial 911 and get help, your mother can buzz off.. or -Stay where you are and live another version of Cendrella Your Mother, and excuse me to say this again, has a problem, she doesnt deserve you and am sure if you call the 911 they will speak the same thing, belive me, I know what am talking about here. Unfortunatly, I am sitting before this computer and can do nothing yet I dont know what contry you are from.
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MOTHER
May 2, 2006 16:31:34 GMT -5
Post by stars2mind on May 2, 2006 16:31:34 GMT -5
they covered it all...and victoria is right cellar? she cant do that to you that wrong, and your mom should know that. you sure you dont have any family you could stay with? if you said NO to your mom you dont have to go to the "cellar" you could just walk out.....if she calls the cops she'll get arrested. if i were you i would stand up for myself and tell her and her friends that they are all wrong..tell them you want to just live as a normal teenager...and that you want to go shopping with your mom and be happy> if you wanna go outside go if you want to. staying inside isnt gonna save you from every thing. get some fresh air. and think it over with yourself! do you really want to live like this until your old enough to leave?
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MOTHER
May 8, 2006 1:18:46 GMT -5
Post by ♥ Victoria ♥ on May 8, 2006 1:18:46 GMT -5
The probleme when you will be old enough to leave you will just want to look back but u cant...you wont...you are only 15 years old Honeybee...you need to enjoy ur teenage years like any teen....
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