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Post by anthrax on May 7, 2006 14:26:03 GMT -5
when you walk into a room you could cut the tension with a knife.
Problems: Dad is spending too much money Dad going down with his depresson again Mum finding it hard to cope with pressure of household Gran in Nursing Home going down eith her depression Sister who is a heroin adict has dissapeared again and we have the police looking for her Myself having anger management problems having trouble coping with it all
Solutions tried: Trying to get income by building computers as i do but failing as they cant be sold unless my Dad puts them on e-bay Talking to my parents Trying to get my Dad to see his doctor to get his tablets changed
A friend of mine told me to come here because someone may have ideas. Usually im on tyhe helping side and try to help others this time i need the help.
Thanks, Anthrax
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Post by Beautiful Disaster on May 7, 2006 14:31:35 GMT -5
Wow seems like alot is going on for you, When you talked to you parents what did you say? Sometimes its about what you say and how you say that will make them change there minds. Parents tend not to listen to kids or teens for some odd reason even when they are right. I guess they just don't like the fact that we can think more logical then them sometimes. Does your dad put them on e-bay for you? Have you ever tried maybe putting an ad in the paper or posting some flyers around where you live? Are you old enough to get a real job that will give you money every week or two weeks? Even if its at a fast food place (there easy to get into) its better then nothing and it will give you what you need. If you dad is the one spending too much money then he should be responsible to make enough money for everything he wants to buy and still live comfortably. Welcome to Teen vibe
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on May 7, 2006 20:54:12 GMT -5
I think beautifuldisaster had some ideas on what to do with your money issue.
How long has your sister been gone for? Has she been to treatment or when they find her are they putting her into treatment? I think the reason you have anger issues is beause of the stress. Are you seeing anyone about it or talking to anyone about it to get it out of your system? Maybe get a punching bag or something.
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Post by vy on May 8, 2006 14:47:47 GMT -5
Dear Anthrax:
Sorry to hear, that you are being put through so much in your life right now. Must be hard.
One big mess, right? Seems like you can't manage any of this? Well, sometimes, things are out of our control, and there really is no point in worrying about it.
Control what you can, and leave what you can't.
It is good that you have addressed the problem, by talking to your parents. You must know that it is not your job to make things right though, it is not your job.
It is natural for you to feel angry - due to all the circumstances. However, it is NOT HEALTHY. You must take care of yourself Anthrax.
I suggest getting some professional help with your anger management: talk to school counsellor. They are trained professionals that make a living by helping others - they might not be able to magically make your life better, but they can help.
Good luck to you. Take care.
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Post by !Dances With Hamsters! on May 11, 2006 4:18:07 GMT -5
I hope you post back with an update so we can further try to help you.
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Post by anthrax on May 20, 2006 17:40:33 GMT -5
thanks for the help. Things are starting to even out as my sister had went into west street (drug rehab center) she got into a bit of a scuffle due to an argument. She let it go later is started and the guy was pointing at her. She goes back in three weeks. My appointment for my anger management is yet to come through and i have been ill through dizzyness and other things and have been off school for nearly a month. Im not old enough to get a job as im only 13 but i will hopefully start getting them sold soon maybey ill take on the flyer idea. Thanks a lot for the help and support.
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Post by Honey Beeswax on May 20, 2006 17:48:24 GMT -5
I wouldput the add in the paper!! tons of people read the paper. Thats good about ur sister!! i hope she drops drugs once and 4 all.
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Post by vy on May 21, 2006 1:30:17 GMT -5
Hope you feel better. Take care.
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Post by Kai on May 21, 2006 10:35:42 GMT -5
hey darling, im glad your using the site. Hows things going on at home now? has it improved? I'll catch you on msn later if i can
Take care xx
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Post by anthrax on May 21, 2006 10:48:36 GMT -5
Thanks kai yea thigs are getting a bit better appart from the docs not being able to tell me whats making me ill i may have to get a tutor now
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Post by Kai on May 21, 2006 10:56:01 GMT -5
your sick?! *hugs really hard* my poor behbe
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Post by allianne on May 22, 2006 13:16:25 GMT -5
Congrats!! It's great when things start going your way. Sorry about your sickness tho... just make sure you're completely honest with your doctor and tell him everything.
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