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Post by Beautiful Disaster on May 13, 2006 17:30:29 GMT -5
iv been with my boyfriend for a long time and the other day i was in the computer room and he walked in and i didnt notice, and as he came in i was talking to this other guy and laughing a bit so it looked like i was flirting and now my boyfriend is "re-considering" our relationship and is saying that he cant trust me and that he's been betrayed. i love my boyfriend so much and really dont want to lose him. Please help what can i say to him to make things better, and how can we build up our trust in our relationship again?? please help
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Post by littlemikey on May 14, 2006 6:14:28 GMT -5
*hug* Just make sure he knows that you still love him, he sounds very protective, so just do things that let him know youre still his.
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Post by Beautiful Disaster on May 14, 2006 6:17:51 GMT -5
yaa but im not one to do things just to please others. The things he would want to make him happy are things Im not willing to do.
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Post by Dreamers Dream on May 14, 2006 6:54:07 GMT -5
heh I answered this question else where already so I'll just copy and paste my answer.
Thats a very stupid reaon to "re-consider" a relationship. Just because you were laughing a bit doesn't mean you were flirting and if you were he doesn't know that right? He just knows you were kind of laughing. I don't understand how laughing while talking to someone is betrayal or anything else like that. It's obvious that this relationship is not important to him anymore. He seems to be very insecure if he's reacting to a giggle like that. Maybe you should re-think the relationship.
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Post by Rachel on May 14, 2006 10:42:50 GMT -5
I agree with what '.:: And the Dreamers Dream ::.' said.. and to add. I think its important for women to show there partners in relationships that there not a pushover,and do have a say in things. So i wouldnt grovel if i was you be strong and tell him hes been silly
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Post by Beautiful Disaster on May 14, 2006 20:34:06 GMT -5
Ya I guess ur right getting angry over a little laugh is a bit overboard. Im going to talk to him tonight about it. One of my friends told me that hes controlling because one of the things he wanted me to do to gain trust was to talk to NO guys at all without him present and he would "monitor" me on the computer like I can't come on unless he's sitting beside me.
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