Alcohol4ever
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Post by Alcohol4ever on Jul 28, 2006 22:21:34 GMT -5
I had a friend, who was killed by a drunk driver on New years, at 2 am. I wasn't able to go to her funeral, as it was too far away. Ever since, I've been having miny flashbacks. Like of when we hung out when we were like 6. Tonight, I had the worst flashback ever. It was from hanging out, to getting the phone call from the hospital saying that she had died in a 2 car collision, involving her and a drunk driver. Then 20 minutes later, but only 2 minutes in my flashback, I had gotten a phone call from my friend's mother. Then the bad part of the flashback happened. It had felt like I was in the car with her, when it got hit. But I wasn't in it. I've been upset since I had this flashback. Is there anything I can do to help me from getting very upset over these flashbacks?
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Post by Firey Shades Of Blue on Jul 28, 2006 22:30:14 GMT -5
kno ur making a difference by spreading the word about drunk driving maybe talk in schools and stuff. Thats what I would do. It would make me feel better becase I'd know my friend would be proud of me trying to stop it from happening again.
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Alcohol4ever
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Post by Alcohol4ever on Jul 28, 2006 22:31:41 GMT -5
That's sort of what Babycakes suggested, she suggested that I do volunteer work with them.
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Post by GrapeJuice on Jul 28, 2006 22:49:00 GMT -5
I think that what Firey Shade of Blue suggested is a great idea. It shows that you want to put an end to it or try to prevent it and knowing that your spreading the word will make you feel much better. I'm guessing you miss her alot and maybe feel bad for not attending her funeral. First of all is there anyway you can get to her grave site? I know this must be a touchy subject for you. You could keep a seceret "Journal" and just write to her, Write about your days and keep her involved in your life if you know what I mean. I'm really sorry about what happened to your friend. Drunk Drivers suck
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Alcohol4ever
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Post by Alcohol4ever on Jul 28, 2006 23:06:41 GMT -5
I hate drunk drivers with a passion. Thats actually a good idead Grape, keeping her involved in my life
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Post by GrapeJuice on Aug 3, 2006 13:15:08 GMT -5
I hope it works well for you
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