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Mar 23, 2006 18:17:54 GMT -5
Post by FlowerChild on Mar 23, 2006 18:17:54 GMT -5
I haven't had sex yet but I want too. I dont know what to do tho!!!!! So any tips of advice would be great!!!
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Mar 23, 2006 18:21:13 GMT -5
Post by Dregond [Gone] on Mar 23, 2006 18:21:13 GMT -5
play it safe, use a condom.
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Mar 23, 2006 18:22:52 GMT -5
Post by littlemikey on Mar 23, 2006 18:22:52 GMT -5
I haven't had sex yet but I want too. I dont know what to do tho!!!!! So any tips of advice would be great!!! Firstofall, dont just go and find anyone to have sex with, start a relationship first, because just picking some random person off the street may have dire consequenses.
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Mar 23, 2006 19:39:10 GMT -5
Post by FlowerChild on Mar 23, 2006 19:39:10 GMT -5
I have a boyfriend we've been going out for 5 months
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Mar 23, 2006 20:15:52 GMT -5
Post by stars2mind on Mar 23, 2006 20:15:52 GMT -5
if you too want too and you love each other do it..but be safe like he said^
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Mar 23, 2006 20:22:28 GMT -5
Post by Country Girl-- ♥ on Mar 23, 2006 20:22:28 GMT -5
The couple things I have to say is:
Be sure that neither of you have a disease, to be completely safe about not spreading something.
And, what Dregond said.
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Mar 24, 2006 6:59:39 GMT -5
Post by aod on Mar 24, 2006 6:59:39 GMT -5
i've said this before and i'l say it again go request to your pediatrician for a blood test bring your parter and see if he/she would do it.
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Mar 24, 2006 18:22:52 GMT -5
Post by stars2mind on Mar 24, 2006 18:22:52 GMT -5
yes great idea like always....
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Mar 24, 2006 22:16:43 GMT -5
Post by rpmonkey80 on Mar 24, 2006 22:16:43 GMT -5
Don't think that sex shows love. Try not to rush into it, and ALWAYS use a condom. Only have sex if you really think you're ready - not, for example, if your bf pressures you into it - and only if you have a condom. Also, make sure neither of you have a disease that can be transmitted sexually.
Other than that..have fun!
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Mar 24, 2006 22:58:32 GMT -5
Post by Dreamers Dream on Mar 24, 2006 22:58:32 GMT -5
There can be lot of pressure to lose your virginity - that is, to have sexual intercourse for the first time. Having sex with someone just because you want to lose your virginity, or because you think all your friends are doing it, is something you may regret later.
You might feel lots of anxieties, especially the first time you 'go all the way' - have sex. You may feel embarrassed about how you look without your clothes on, or worried about your privacy being disturbed. It's natural to feel some worries but good communication will really help to prevent you feeling embarrassed or worried. You should be able to talk to your partner about how you feel about having sex for the first time, and about any concerns you may have. Your partner might be worried, too. Being relaxed and able to share things with your partner will really ease the tension. And if you're too shy, or you're not able to talk about these things with your partner - then you probably shouldn't be having sex!
A girl can become pregnant the first time she has sexual intercourse. So, you must use contraception (Condom) the first time and every time you have sexual intercourse, if you don't want to risk becoming a parent.
What is important is that you feel good about yourself and what you are doing, and that you keep yourself safe. Being safe means not only thinking about physical risks such as pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). But also emotional risk such as the regret you may feel afterwards.
Giving each other massages, kissing, carassing and hugging can be very passionate. It's a way of sharing and showing love. For some people these activities can be more fulfilling than sexual intercourse. Its also a good way to lead up to the sex.
When the couple are both ready to have sexual intercourse (and this includes the boy putting a condom on if he is going to use one), it is probably easiest if either the boy or the girl uses their hand to guide the penis into the vagina. Then, once the penis is inside, the couple need to move their bodies so that the penis pushes into the vagina and then pulls partly out again. After a while this movement can lead to orgasm (coming or climaxing) for one or both of them.
There are quite a number of different positions in which you can have sexual intercourse. One very common position involves both the boy and the girl lying down, with the boy lying on top (This is often referred to as the missionary position). Alternatively the girl can be on top or both the boy and the girl can lie on their sides. It is probably easiest to choose one of these positions if you are having sexual intercourse for the first time. However, you can also have sexual intercourse with both the boy and the girl sitting down, one on the other, or both can be standing up. What is most important about whichever position you choose, is that it provides stimulation and enjoyment for both of you.
Many boys and girls are concerned that it will hurt the first time they have sexual intercourse. It can hurt and some girls do bleed a little bit. The bleeding usually occurs because the girl has a hymen which breaks the first time she has sexual intercourse.
The hymen is a small piece of thin skin which goes across the opening of the vagina and protects it when she is young. It has some gaps in it where the blood can come out when she has her period. Sometimes a girl might already have broken her hymen without knowing about it. For example, this can happen as a result of playing sports or horse riding.
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Mar 25, 2006 6:22:23 GMT -5
Post by littlemikey on Mar 25, 2006 6:22:23 GMT -5
There can be lot of pressure to lose your virginity - that is, to have sexual intercourse for the first time. Having sex with someone just because you want to lose your virginity, or because you think all your friends are doing it, is something you may regret later. You might feel lots of anxieties, especially the first time you 'go all the way' - have sex. You may feel embarrassed about how you look without your clothes on, or worried about your privacy being disturbed. It's natural to feel some worries but good communication will really help to prevent you feeling embarrassed or worried. You should be able to talk to your partner about how you feel about having sex for the first time, and about any concerns you may have. Your partner might be worried, too. Being relaxed and able to share things with your partner will really ease the tension. And if you're too shy, or you're not able to talk about these things with your partner - then you probably shouldn't be having sex! A girl can become pregnant the first time she has sexual intercourse. So, you must use contraception (Condom) the first time and every time you have sexual intercourse, if you don't want to risk becoming a parent. What is important is that you feel good about yourself and what you are doing, and that you keep yourself safe. Being safe means not only thinking about physical risks such as pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). But also emotional risk such as the regret you may feel afterwards. Giving each other massages, kissing, carassing and hugging can be very passionate. It's a way of sharing and showing love. For some people these activities can be more fulfilling than sexual intercourse. Its also a good way to lead up to the sex. When the couple are both ready to have sexual intercourse (and this includes the boy putting a condom on if he is going to use one), it is probably easiest if either the boy or the girl uses their hand to guide the thingy into the girl thingy. Then, once the thingy is inside, the couple need to move their bodies so that the thingy pushes into the girl thingy and then pulls partly out again. After a while this movement can lead to orgasm (coming or climaxing) for one or both of them. There are quite a number of different positions in which you can have sexual intercourse. One very common position involves both the boy and the girl lying down, with the boy lying on top (This is often referred to as the missionary position). Alternatively the girl can be on top or both the boy and the girl can lie on their sides. It is probably easiest to choose one of these positions if you are having sexual intercourse for the first time. However, you can also have sexual intercourse with both the boy and the girl sitting down, one on the other, or both can be standing up. What is most important about whichever position you choose, is that it provides stimulation and enjoyment for both of you. Many boys and girls are concerned that it will hurt the first time they have sexual intercourse. It can hurt and some girls do bleed a little bit. The bleeding usually occurs because the girl has a hymen which breaks the first time she has sexual intercourse. The hymen is a small piece of thin skin which goes across the opening of the girl thingy and protects it when she is young. It has some gaps in it where the blood can come out when she has her period. Sometimes a girl might already have broken her hymen without knowing about it. For example, this can happen as a result of playing sports or horse riding. I feel sooo imature....
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Mar 25, 2006 6:41:28 GMT -5
Post by Dregond [Gone] on Mar 25, 2006 6:41:28 GMT -5
naa...i think the lady coverd it well. i sujest he bites your nipples softly if it hurts alot when your having sex...it distracts the pain for an instant as the hymen breaks. i know i sound like perve but its true. when a gril talks abt sex it seems so beautiful but when i do it sounds naughyt
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Mar 25, 2006 6:44:32 GMT -5
Post by littlemikey on Mar 25, 2006 6:44:32 GMT -5
naa...i think the lady coverd it well. i sujest he bites your nipples softly if it hurts alot when your having sex...it distracts the pain for an instant as the hymen breaks. i know i sound like perve but its true. when a gril talks abt sex it seems so beautiful but when i do it sounds naughyt That is because youre immature, like me ;D
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Mar 25, 2006 6:48:21 GMT -5
Post by Dregond [Gone] on Mar 25, 2006 6:48:21 GMT -5
No ..im very very mature .. ask baybycakes, i rock her wrold... ..LOLOl *waits for Baby to slap him*
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Mar 25, 2006 7:20:33 GMT -5
Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Mar 25, 2006 7:20:33 GMT -5
What did the 5 fingers say to the face? SLAP. Keep it on topic pleaseeee
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Mar 25, 2006 7:23:34 GMT -5
Post by littlemikey on Mar 25, 2006 7:23:34 GMT -5
What did the 5 fingers say to the face? SLAP. Keep it on topic pleaseeee Sorry!! *hides in corner*
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Mar 26, 2006 4:21:39 GMT -5
Post by stars2mind on Mar 26, 2006 4:21:39 GMT -5
lol...
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