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I am Bi
Mar 24, 2006 21:53:40 GMT -5
Post by rpmonkey80 on Mar 24, 2006 21:53:40 GMT -5
I think...what do I do now?
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I am Bi
Mar 24, 2006 22:06:43 GMT -5
Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Mar 24, 2006 22:06:43 GMT -5
Well by saying that you think your Bi means you don't know for sure. Maybe try experimenting to find out forsure and then tell whoever you feel comfertable telling that you are Bi.
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I am Bi
Mar 24, 2006 22:13:31 GMT -5
Post by rpmonkey80 on Mar 24, 2006 22:13:31 GMT -5
One of my friends has a guy friend, and he's bi, and she's cool with that. But I can't just go and say, "hey, I'm bi too!"
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I am Bi
Mar 24, 2006 22:15:01 GMT -5
Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Mar 24, 2006 22:15:01 GMT -5
Are you a guy or a girl?
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I am Bi
Mar 24, 2006 22:17:27 GMT -5
Post by rpmonkey80 on Mar 24, 2006 22:17:27 GMT -5
A girl.
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I am Bi
Mar 24, 2006 22:22:27 GMT -5
Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Mar 24, 2006 22:22:27 GMT -5
Are you also friends with him? Maybe you can hang out together and ask him about it? Then if you feel comfertable talking to him about it let him know that you are too.
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I am Bi
Mar 24, 2006 22:30:16 GMT -5
Post by rpmonkey80 on Mar 24, 2006 22:30:16 GMT -5
Well not really. Like, I've talked to him once or twice but I don't really know him. I'd be more comfortable telling my bff but only if like the topic comes up
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I am Bi
Mar 24, 2006 22:34:08 GMT -5
Post by Dreamers Dream on Mar 24, 2006 22:34:08 GMT -5
Bring up the topic in general. Don't necessarily bring it up about you. See how you feel in bringing it up then if you want to go for it. Theres nothing wrong with being bi.
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I am Bi
Mar 24, 2006 22:44:16 GMT -5
Post by rpmonkey80 on Mar 24, 2006 22:44:16 GMT -5
ok...yea my friends dont see anything wrong with bi or gay people, but how do i bring it up withou seeming obvious?
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I am Bi
Mar 24, 2006 22:47:16 GMT -5
Post by Dreamers Dream on Mar 24, 2006 22:47:16 GMT -5
Thats a hard question. I think theres some people on this board that will answer this alot better then me. You could try to just bring up something that has to do with Bi-sexual people or bring up a person who is Bi-sexual and try and start a discussion off of that. Im sure someone will get to this thread with a better answer. But I tried
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I am Bi
Mar 24, 2006 22:49:41 GMT -5
Post by rpmonkey80 on Mar 24, 2006 22:49:41 GMT -5
lol ok thanks! It's not like it comes up in convos *rarely* or anything...and I'm not bursting to tell anyone. The best way is probably just to wait for a chance to say it while we're on subject.
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I am Bi
Mar 25, 2006 6:21:54 GMT -5
Post by littlemikey on Mar 25, 2006 6:21:54 GMT -5
Youre right there
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Erla
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I am Bi
Mar 25, 2006 12:58:44 GMT -5
Post by Erla on Mar 25, 2006 12:58:44 GMT -5
I'm bi and my general rule is to tell people if they ask. Or just mention it if we're on the subject,if I'm talking to someone who I want to know it, that is, like my friends. That's how most of my friends know. It works for me. My mum, for example, doesn't know cause she's never asked =P She's joked about me probably being gay and stuff, cause I tend to act a bit queer, but I've never actually told her
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I am Bi
Mar 25, 2006 13:18:29 GMT -5
Post by Crazy-Lil-Thing-Called-LOVE-<3 on Mar 25, 2006 13:18:29 GMT -5
I'm Bisexual and it's great. All my mates and mates families know, Even my school teachers know... everyone in the world knows!! ((Except my family lol))
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I am Bi
Mar 25, 2006 17:22:15 GMT -5
Post by littlemikey on Mar 25, 2006 17:22:15 GMT -5
I'm Bisexual and it's great. All my mates and mates families know, Even my school teachers know... everyone in the world knows!! ((Except my family lol)) Lol, sounds like you have a great relation ship with everyone but your own family
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I am Bi
Mar 26, 2006 4:13:21 GMT -5
Post by stars2mind on Mar 26, 2006 4:13:21 GMT -5
im bi too...and erla's way is the best way to handle it to me. but thats my opinion! if you want to tell the gur this you must just tell her that you think your bi...or if your alittle nervous do what they said and bring up some sort of convo!!! or just experiment to be sure...
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I am Bi
Mar 28, 2006 2:01:18 GMT -5
Post by GrapeJuice on Mar 28, 2006 2:01:18 GMT -5
If you want to tell a friend that you are gay, don't go up to them and say "by the way, I'm gay". If you say something like that, you aren't telling them why you are telling them that, they might think you are telling them because you think they are gay and you want to start something; they will be on the defensive immediately. When you tell them, tell them why you are telling them, say something like "I haven't told you this before but I want you to know that I am gay because I don't want to hide it anymore, I still want us to be friends". That way, they can't mistake your intentions. People think about themselves more than anything else, they shouldn't really care that you are gay as long as they don't think you are hitting on them. That's the theory anyway, some people are just petty. If they are really good friends it shouldn't be much of a problem.
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