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Post by sweetasstrawberrys on Apr 8, 2006 6:11:44 GMT -5
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for just over a year we are both 16. Im still a virgin and he has had one other sexual partner. Idk alot about sex but he says that when u love someone your suppose to have sex is that true? I do love him so should I have sex? and if so what do I do?
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Post by Andrew on Apr 8, 2006 8:45:18 GMT -5
That is not true, no matter what he says to you. Just because you "love" somebody does not mean you have to have sex with them.
It kind of sounds like he wants to have sex with you, and it looks like he is trying to push you into doing it. If you don't want to, are not comfortable, or don't exactly know how, wait until you're a little older or feel more confident with what you'll be doing. 16 is way to young to be having sex anyway.
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Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Apr 8, 2006 15:59:06 GMT -5
No no no no no no, Just because you love someone is does not mean you HAVE to have sex with them. He's trying to manipulate you into having sex with him. Don't ever have sex unless its what you want to do and there is no pressure from anyone else. You have to feel comfortable and ready before hand. Many people have been together for that long and love each other and haven't had sex. Love isn't a pass to getting sex.
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Post by littlemikey on Apr 8, 2006 18:08:04 GMT -5
Agreed. I dont want to sound rude, but "If you love me you will have sex with me" Is one of the oldest tricks in the book. If you dont want to have sex with him, tell him that. If he pressures you for it then he dosent really love you, he is only interested in your body.
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Post by Will on Apr 8, 2006 20:33:25 GMT -5
If he truely loved you he wouldn't be trying to pressure you into having sex by usuing your love against you. I think its time to take a look at your relationship. This boy is no good. The person above is right and I also think that he just wants you for your body. Tell him that if he can't wait until you ready and can stop manipulating you into thinking love=sex that hes not worth it.
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on Apr 9, 2006 2:30:02 GMT -5
If he truely loved you he wouldn't be trying to pressure you into having sex by usuing your love against you. I think its time to take a look at your relationship. This boy is no good. The person above is right and I also think that he just wants you for your body. Tell him that if he can't wait until you ready and can stop manipulating you into thinking love=sex that hes not worth it. wow I agree, girl if he loved you he wouldnt of told you that because its soo untrue he just wants to get down your pants!!
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Post by stars2mind on Apr 9, 2006 4:02:40 GMT -5
dont let him trick you into.....listened to what they said its right
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