Kellie
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Post by Kellie on Apr 16, 2006 18:31:03 GMT -5
A friend of mine is bi-sexual. I see her a lot. She promised us she wouldn't...you know...hit on her friends.
You know when you hug someone in a friendly manner? Well, my friends and I do that a lot. Ever since she told us, I feel odd with her hugging me.
I respect her sexuality, but it still feels odd. I don't want to hurt her feelings by telling her I don't want her to hug me, but God I don't know what I'm saying!
Will I get used to it? Or am I still going to feel odd being with her.
I'm a header-sexual (I think that's what it's called when you like only the opposite sex). So, what do you think?
Thanks for your time.
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Post by littlemikey on Apr 16, 2006 18:37:02 GMT -5
Hmm... If a guy was very friendly (in a nice way) and liked to hug all his female friends, would you feel the same way? Like he was hitting on you just because he hugged you? Because your friend said that she wasnt going to hit on you guys, I think you should respect that and just love her as a friend. I have a bunch of friends, both guys and girls, who are bi and they hug me, you just need to treat her as a guy, if you had some good guy friends and they said that they only wanted to stay as friends but they hugged you then its all okay. Sorry if I'm not making any sence
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Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Apr 16, 2006 20:36:12 GMT -5
I think its normal to feel weird when she hugs you now because you know she's bi-sexual. If you think about it though would you react this way to her hugging you before she was told you guys she was bi-sexual? Probably not. I think you will get over it in time. If you feel uncomfortable at any time just let her know. I'm sure she would respect you much more by being up front about it and letting her know then secretly being weirded out by it. What I'm saying is if she hugs you the way she used to then you shouldn't feel weird about it.
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Alcohol4ever
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Post by Alcohol4ever on Apr 16, 2006 20:42:54 GMT -5
i have several friends that are bi-sexual...and at first it did feel odd hugging them...but then i got used to it..so give it some time and u will get used to it!
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Kellie
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Post by Kellie on Apr 16, 2006 21:42:46 GMT -5
Cool! Thanks for the advice.
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Post by littlemikey on Apr 17, 2006 2:24:59 GMT -5
No problem ^_^
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Post by Aviator on Apr 17, 2006 10:45:44 GMT -5
Hope you feel better about it!
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