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preggo
Apr 24, 2006 5:23:06 GMT -5
Post by Umm anominous on Apr 24, 2006 5:23:06 GMT -5
wow thank god I have had such a bad day i hope this is the right spot if not im sorry mods!
neway i have been freaking out all day thinking im preg so i wentt and got 4 tests and took them all and all of them said yes and man i dont know what to i feel like im going to have a panic attack and im a ex-cutter so im scared Im going to to do sometrhin on my own to take care of it Im scared shitless to tell anyone im pregnant because my fam and friends are all VERYVERY VERY VERY religous and it was only a one time thing but I know for a factr I would be bannashed from the family if they ever knew Im so happy I found this site omg please help me Im soo scared. Im 14 if that means anything to any of yyou please help me. I dont want to cut or do something stupif but they cant find out not even my bf 1!!!
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preggo
Apr 25, 2006 19:31:31 GMT -5
Post by Beautiful Disaster on Apr 25, 2006 19:31:31 GMT -5
True, If you dont want them to know then - abortion. but thats a BAD decision Do you REALLY want to kill a inisent child because you made a bad decision? Your parents are just going to have to understand and if they don't then thats there fault. No one should kill a child. Check out this place to find some more info but PLEASE dont get an abortion. It will haunt u forever that you killed someone so inisent and beautiful. www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/portal/to find a health center near you go here www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/portal/healthservices/findhealthcenter/ and just click on whatever state u live in.
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preggo
Apr 25, 2006 20:08:27 GMT -5
Post by Andrew on Apr 25, 2006 20:08:27 GMT -5
Preggo is such a dirty word, IMO. =P
Really, you're too young to be pregnant, but you obviously made a choice (albeit a bad one). Your worst option would to have an abortion (you don't want to kill it, do you?). You'll want to ask your doctor what the best thing is to do. You're going to have to tell your parents sooner or later. If they're as religious as you say they are, they'll accept you with what you are and what you have done. If they don't, they're, well, hypocrites (in a sense).
I'd be worried, but not as much as you are. You say you're an ex-cutter. Just don't bring that habit back up again. That's real bad. Don't drink, smoke, or do any kind of drug. Anything that'll harm you body has to go (if you were doing anything previously).
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preggo
Apr 26, 2006 4:14:22 GMT -5
Post by littlemikey on Apr 26, 2006 4:14:22 GMT -5
I'm sorry about my post... I will delete it
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preggo
Apr 26, 2006 5:50:04 GMT -5
Post by moronicscarecrow on Apr 26, 2006 5:50:04 GMT -5
whoa, i didn't know you guys were so against abortion..
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preggo
Apr 26, 2006 11:53:01 GMT -5
Post by Rachel on Apr 26, 2006 11:53:01 GMT -5
Ok i know that you said your parents are really really religious,but religious or not..your still carrying a baby. You have to do something. If your not wanting to keep it (and i dont think we should judge the thread starter if she decides this) then you must go to your doctor ASAP! If your wanting to keep it,then you'll have to face your family. I do believe that teenage abortions are done discreetly,and your parents wont be told (thats in the UK anyway) Good Luck xx
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preggo
Apr 27, 2006 1:04:16 GMT -5
Post by allianne on Apr 27, 2006 1:04:16 GMT -5
Despite whether we are for or against abortion we shouldn't try to let our opinions get in the way. It's a very personal choice..and a very hard one for a 14 year old. Honestly...I've heard adults who got pregnant young say that they wouldn't give their child up for the world, but they advise others to get abortions. There are options if you have the baby, to give it up for adoption. I think in some states you need parent's permission...so it's best if you tell your parents right away, whether you decide to keep your baby or not. At least if you put the baby up for adoption, you can visit it later when you're older and not feel guilty about an abortion. Don't let your parents make your decision. If you want to keep your baby, don't let them make you get an abortion. But many parents turn out to be a lot more helpful than you would think. Don't cut, or drink, or do anything that might harm yourself or your baby. You need to go to your doctor. I really hope that everything works out. Good Luck.
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preggo
Apr 27, 2006 23:38:02 GMT -5
Post by biancasaur on Apr 27, 2006 23:38:02 GMT -5
It's not true that if you get an abortion it will "haunt you forever." That will only be true if you, personally, are against abortion. Some people are and some people aren't. There are a lot of people who do not see abortion as "killing an innocent baby" and who have had an abortion and go on to live their lives. Personally, I don't believe that a fetus is a "baby" until it has developed quite a bit, but that is my opinion.
I think you should go to Planned Parenthood. They have "options counseling" there, meaning they will sit down with you and talk to you about your options (abortion, adoption, or having the baby and raising it). They will help you and they WON'T tell your parents or anyone else. Good luck!
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preggo
Apr 28, 2006 2:36:13 GMT -5
Post by Beautiful Disaster on Apr 28, 2006 2:36:13 GMT -5
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Littlemikey dont worry about it everyone has their own opnion.
Bianca- Why isn't it a person even when its not born yet? Its still a baby either way - fetus or not- I think its wrong but that is just my opnion thats why I suggested Planned parenthood because they can work with her.
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preggo
Apr 28, 2006 4:30:00 GMT -5
Post by littlemikey on Apr 28, 2006 4:30:00 GMT -5
whoa, i didn't know you guys were so against abortion.. I was scared to be not like them I belive untill a baby can actually feel pain they are not alive :/ I mean when they are still embryos and their brains arent developed they are not "alive" they may exist but they are not yet part of this world.
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preggo
Apr 28, 2006 4:40:50 GMT -5
Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on Apr 28, 2006 4:40:50 GMT -5
I dunno I have mixed feelings about it I still think of it as a baby even if its not fully developed umm yeah I dunno but like why would they have to kill it then if its not alive? I dont know much about it.
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preggo
Apr 28, 2006 13:10:45 GMT -5
Post by Rachel on Apr 28, 2006 13:10:45 GMT -5
Personally, I don't believe that a fetus is a "baby" until it has developed quite a bit, but that is my opinion. your not alone on that,because i think the exact same. im not saying that i would spit on someone in the street if i found out they had aborted a child,because i am totally a supporter of been able to make your own choices for yourself and whats best in the long run. I think a fetus isnt a baby until its started to develop while in the womb. My opinion entirely. But..were here to give the topic starter advice,and i gave mine earlier. its just i thought i would add this.
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