sky
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Post by sky on May 5, 2006 16:42:20 GMT -5
i am very confused right now. i have had one boy friend but we broke up long story. i work and this person i work with is gay but she is the sweetest person u could ever meet i kinda suspected she liked me because of the way she acts around me but i just ignored it thinkin that im just thinkin things but yesterday she actually told me that she likes me alot but i dunno what to do she is 34 and im only 17 i see her as my good friend but i dont think i see her that way i love her but as a friend. and i think i might have hurt her feelings but i dont want us to stop bein friends so i dunno wat to do.
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Post by GrapeJuice on May 5, 2006 18:08:38 GMT -5
Hey sky welcome to Teen Vibe,
First of all you had a boyfriend before and now your talking about a girl right? I just want to make sure, are you bi-sexual or anything like that?
Anyways, Are you comfortable with her age? If you know you don't want to be anything more then friends all you can do is be honest with her. It may hurt her feelings but its better then leading her on to something your not sure about. If she was a true friend she would understand.
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Post by sky on May 5, 2006 18:30:52 GMT -5
i dunno thanks for ur advice
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on May 6, 2006 2:34:28 GMT -5
All you can do is tell her how you feel and she has to accept that because its your choice.
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Post by sky on May 7, 2006 21:26:32 GMT -5
well i told her and it was so hard for me to do she agrees im too young and everything i just feel so bad i know i shouldnt but i know i might have said some things that came out wrong i just hope we can still be friends.
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Post by !Dances With Hamsters! on May 7, 2006 23:40:16 GMT -5
Don't feel bad about the way you feel sky, if it's not what you want it's not what you want. I think if she wants to be friends with you, you will be Hopefully she will respect you and your decision and get over it.
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Post by ♥ Victoria ♥ on May 8, 2006 10:31:00 GMT -5
Dr. Phil is totally right. From an experience of my own: On my Junior year I had a friend with whom I was havin fun days and nights...she was always there for me when I was down.. One day I told her how I am in love with X Person....the next day I was in the halls with that guy, she came and pushed him hard away from me and told me that she loves me. BOOM I didnt know how to act...I never thought once she could think of me that way..I told her and I was honest..that I cant return her love. She swore....got angry...called me by the B word...made me cry...I didnt talk to her for 3 weeks....one day she came and appologized. She tried in many ways again to win my love but I told her that: You can't find happiness in me. We better stay friends..for strong friendshsip always last and we will never know a Break Up.Today she found love in a man and all is happy
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