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Post by Anonymous on Nov 25, 2006 12:51:48 GMT -5
First off, I'm appologize if I offend anyone.
Alright I know that I'm a guest but I'm so consused as far as if I'm straight, gay or bi. Ok I'm 15 and I'm a guy. I'm attracted to girls if their outer appearance looks nice, however I don't really look at their breasts or butts to judge. Guys are different, I don't look at guys butts, however if (and I know this is kinda stupid ) I had the choice on which I'd rater see (as far as a naked butt) I'd choose the guys >.<
I really want to get married when I'm older to a girl. And there's no way I'll kiss a guy, only girls. But the fact that I'm not really thinking about having sex with girls (and even though I would never EVER have any form of sex with guys) but not having any sexual orientation with any girls and not caring about their breasts is kinda worring me. Especially when the fact of the matter is, I'd rater look at a guys butt.
So I think I'm just asking, what do you guys think I am? Everytime someone asks me "Are you gay" (Because I usually hang out with girls more than guys) I say no, but a little hesitantly as I'm not sure. I would like to know your opinions.
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Post by Laura on Nov 25, 2006 15:20:20 GMT -5
How old are you? I have many guy friends whom hang out with 90% girls but they are not gay or bi-sexual.
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Post by Anonymous on Nov 25, 2006 15:31:53 GMT -5
15
But that's not really what I'm worried about, it's more the first paragraph info
Sorry if this is a little awkward.
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Post by Honey Beeswax on Nov 25, 2006 15:36:26 GMT -5
I dont think I can really tell you how you feel, so how do you feel? If you were to tell yourself if you were gay bi or straight what would you say? What gender are you more sexually attracted to?
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Post by Anonymous on Nov 25, 2006 15:53:05 GMT -5
That's the problem, I'm not really sure. I'm attracted to both based on appearance (face, figure, hair etc.) but I'd kiss a girl not a boy, I would marry a girl but not a boy. It's just the butt thing that's kinda making me think. It's so stupid but I just can't figure it out. I feel like an idiot for telling you guys this but I need opinions. If you were to label me how would you?
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Post by Jessi Wessi™ on Nov 25, 2006 16:14:26 GMT -5
first of all, don't feel like an idiot. to tell you the truth I'm going through almost the exact same thing. I'm attracted to both sexes based on face, figure, hair, etc. I'd marry a guy not a girl, but he's where we differ. I'd kiss both. Anyway, you have to think about it. Nobody here will label you, we'll give you suggestions and advise that might help you but we won't label you. If you find out later that you are bi, straight, or gay just remember that it doesn't matter what you are just as long as your happy with it. If you feel that you have an attraction to both sexes then you may call yourself bisexual. There are bisexuals that are attracted to both sexes but will preffer one sex over the over. But just take your time with your feelings. Your only 15 and have a long life ahead of you. You could think your bi now and in ten years figure out that your straight and were just confused about your feelings. I hope this helps you and I wish you good luck. =]
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Post by Sparkle on Nov 25, 2006 18:23:47 GMT -5
Hey Well-I'd say it was hormones You sound like you're straight, to be perfectly honest from what I read, but no one but you can tell. If it's only their butts you want, thats fine I'm pretty sure this is ok and normal.
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Post by biancasaur on Nov 26, 2006 1:00:57 GMT -5
Don't worry about it. A lot of people are confused about their orientation at this stage. Just relax and don't focus on labeling yourself. It's OK if you are attracted to girls, it's OK if you're attracted to guys, it's OK if you're attracted to both at different times also. Just give yourself time to figure it out. You may be het, gay, bisexual or pansexual -- it doesn't matter as long as you're happy and you're playing it safe. Good luck.
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Post by L.B on Nov 26, 2006 6:58:53 GMT -5
i think you sound straight but thats my opnion
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Post by Anonymous on Nov 26, 2006 13:11:13 GMT -5
Thanks guys. Youve really helped me out. I must say that because you guys are saying that its hormones and to give it time, it has really relieved me of my fear. To be honest, I want to be straight and I dont want to be gay or bi (no offense to those who are or anything). I just dont want that. So hopfully giving it time is all I need to do. Thanks for all your help guys. This is an awesome site. I might join a bit later on
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Post by Jessi Wessi™ on Nov 26, 2006 15:33:29 GMT -5
hope to see you as a future member ^-^ and I'm glad that we could help you
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