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Post by soadrules on Feb 20, 2007 3:20:47 GMT -5
Yer... well their kinda really super ultimatley dauntingly complicated (that was an awfully long sentance).
Ok I will give you my situation, there is this girl who sits next to me in one of my classes. I really like her but the thing is how do I know if she likes me? And my next little problem is that I am not that great of a speaker, sure I can make small talk but I have lost the ability to ask for phone numbers hotmails or dates!!!
So how can I find out if she's available, and then if she's available and then her msn or her number or whatever.
and then the first date with her, and how will i know if she likes to take it slowly or what..?
HELP ME PLEASE
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on Feb 20, 2007 5:29:21 GMT -5
You have to watch for hints that she will mostly likely drop if she likes you. Is she a shy girl? I think first thing you should do is become some-what friends, feel the situation out, read her vibe. Sometimes you can get her number just by being her friend and then work from there. Maybe if theres a project for class to do or an assignment be her partner or ask her a question about it to get talking to her.
One question - Have you ever talked to her before?
You can also find out if shes available by seeing if shes with any other guys outside of class around the school and read there body language. I know lots of girls can 'act' like they are dating someone but not really be dating so if you get talking to her after a few days you might just ask her straight out.
But usually you can just tell, read her body language. Pay attention to what she says and how she says it.
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Post by soadrules on Feb 20, 2007 17:00:16 GMT -5
Yeah we do talk, oly problem is that it is only in that one class (I can never find her out of class), and thanks for all the advice, I will tell you how thing are going in my diary.
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Post by Sparkle on Feb 27, 2007 2:06:59 GMT -5
Yer... well their kinda really super ultimatley dauntingly complicated (that was an awfully long sentance). Ok I will give you my situation, there is this girl who sits next to me in one of my classes. I really like her but the thing is how do I know if she likes me? And my next little problem is that I am not that great of a speaker, sure I can make small talk but I have lost the ability to ask for phone numbers hotmails or dates!!! So how can I find out if she's available, and then if she's available and then her msn or her number or whatever. and then the first date with her, and how will i know if she likes to take it slowly or what..? HELP ME PLEASE Just organise a group date or some thing first- so you can say 'hey, a few (don't say group that can be daunting) of us are going to ......................(insert place here eg cinema, club, park)........................ (insert time and place) and I was wondering if you'd like to come? It will be great... Then if she says yes, you can talk to her more, if she says no ask her why, if its some thing like shes nervous of peopel she doesn't know well suggest going to yours instead to watch a movie or some thing instead. And don't try any thing on the first date! If shes looking at you and licking her lips ok, go for it, but don't otherwise. Wait till at least the second.
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Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Mar 2, 2007 14:49:38 GMT -5
Soadrules, You are right. Girls can be complicated just as guys :-P You have already made the biggest step and that is just to say one word to her. The ice has been broken. In the time you have talked to her in class have you discovered then things she likes? I think it would be best to do something you both like. Find something in common and invite her to do it with you. I agree with Sparkle, A group setting would probably be better as there would be less pressure for the both of you. I would invite her to come out with you somewhere and tell her to bring one of her friends as well if she wants, even if its for a movie and trip to the beach or pool etc. Good Luck with this girl I hope it all works out for you. I think you have the courage to ask her.
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