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Post by daydreamer on Dec 1, 2006 2:55:24 GMT -5
This isn't really having to do with body parts but someone on another site brought up an interesting thing. It was in a thread about depression and what we've been depressed about. Basically I told him that I was depressed about my friend going out with this guy because he wouldn't treat he right. The only thing the guy would say is that I want some of her (talking about sex). I told him no, that I never thought that way about my best friend. He said all guys want "some of it" and that I wanted it deep down with my best friend even if I didn't want to admit it. is that true?
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Post by Emy-Dawn on Dec 1, 2006 3:13:45 GMT -5
If you know that you dont want it then no its not true. sounds like he is trying to use reverse pshycology.
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Post by daydreamer on Dec 1, 2006 3:15:46 GMT -5
That is what I keep telling him, that I don't want some of her. He keeps getting at me because I want it deep down. I feared he was right at first, but she's my best friend nothing more than that. I guess i'm letting him get to me. >_<
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Post by Emy-Dawn on Dec 1, 2006 3:19:49 GMT -5
i think u are letting him get to you. ONLY you know what you want. NO ONE can tell u what you want even if its "deep down"
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Post by daydreamer on Dec 1, 2006 3:24:11 GMT -5
Thank you. Yeah i was letting him get me. I mean i hear a lot of comments from others saying things like all guys are pigs, or all just want to get into a girl's pants, or other negative things about guys, and yes it is true to some guys, but not all. I mean I doubt I would fit under any of the negative things people say about guys. I'm the silent shy one who keeps to himself, and I don't have many friends at school so i wouldn't risk anything such as trying to get "some" of her and then just losing her. Also I'm still too young and i told him that. (only sixteen)
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Post by Emy-Dawn on Dec 1, 2006 3:33:10 GMT -5
yah most guys are pigs like that but there are some who aren't just do what you want to do and not what your friend think is the "cool" thing to do or "what the think y ou should do" etc.
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Post by daydreamer on Dec 1, 2006 3:40:58 GMT -5
I really dislike guys like that. Gives a bad name to those that aren't like that.
But what if it is true and that is what I want? Some of her? That I could really be jealous of him for having her and not me instead. I know it isn't true, I don't even have feelings for her, but what if?
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Post by Emy-Dawn on Dec 1, 2006 3:43:39 GMT -5
If you dont have feelings for her and you know it isnt true then how could he be right? That is just what HE thinks.
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Post by daydreamer on Dec 1, 2006 3:47:26 GMT -5
But what if? Could that explain why I don't talk to her anymore as much as I use to?
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on Dec 1, 2006 3:51:16 GMT -5
Your kind of contradicting yourself. You say you don't like her and you don't want to get with her. So he is wrong. But then you say WHAT IF he is right. If you have some feeling that he could be right, then it seems to me that you have doubts on what you feel. Be true to yourself and answer your own question, think about it, do you have feeling for her? are you jealous? Ask yourself why you don't talk to her as much, can you think of a reason why? Try thinking back to when you stopped talking so much and see what made that happened.
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Post by daydreamer on Dec 1, 2006 3:54:59 GMT -5
There is not a single doubt in my mind. The reason I am asking if it is possible is because I do not know why we just stopped talking to each other. it just happened all of a sudden. Asking what ifs just opens the door of opportunity more by seeing other possibilities. Also the reason I am asking this question to begin with is because I don't even know the true answer, besides I know for a fact that I do not want some of her.
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on Dec 1, 2006 4:00:57 GMT -5
"besides I know for a fact that I do not want some of her."
From what you have said I think you don't want her.
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Post by daydreamer on Dec 1, 2006 4:04:35 GMT -5
I really dislike guys like that. Gives a bad name to those that aren't like that. But what if it is true and that is what I want? Some of her? That I could really be jealous of him for having her and not me instead. I know it isn't true, I don't even have feelings for her, but what if? Again I point out the what if part, meaning exactly as it says. I want to know what if it is true.
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on Dec 1, 2006 4:05:51 GMT -5
okay so say you do like her, start talking to her again, and if you want ask her out.
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Post by daydreamer on Dec 1, 2006 4:07:15 GMT -5
And there lies the problem. She already has a boyfriend so that wouldn't be right if I asked her out.
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on Dec 1, 2006 4:18:46 GMT -5
You have to get back to talking to her first lol. She has a boyfriend now but who is to say a week from now, 2 weeks, a month, a year from now she will still be in a relationship? Start talking to her and see where things go. I think the best way to go into this is to expect nothing. If you start talking to her expecting to date her in the furture things will get messed up with you emotionally. Take it slow and build a friendship back with her and see what happens. Also keep your options open for other girls that might catch your eye. No need to rush things.
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Post by daydreamer on Dec 1, 2006 4:22:33 GMT -5
Lol. Again there lies a problem within that itself. This is based on what ifs. I'm just opening the door a bit more to see different perspectives, if I really did like her, if i really was jealous. Right now though I like my online friend which is a different matter which is in a different thread. Thank you for answering my question(s)
~Day Dreamer
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