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Post by folieencadrante on Mar 5, 2007 19:33:10 GMT -5
idkwhats..going on im having..
i think i was raped only idk he is (was) my boyfriend and idk idk
please help me please
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Post by littlemikey on Mar 6, 2007 6:07:12 GMT -5
oh god thats terrible >__<
ok. first you've gotta work out the facts, what happened? Did you 'say yes', did he try to get you drunk/high ect so he could take advantage of you?
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Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Mar 6, 2007 10:06:15 GMT -5
Just because he is or was your boyfriend doesn't mean he can force sex. Your going to have to explain what happened so we can give you our opinion. Remember no one here knows you and we won't judge.
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Post by WilD CherrY on Mar 6, 2007 11:46:49 GMT -5
Hey (((((((((((((((folieencadrante)))))))))))
It must be so scary to even think you were raped. What happened? Did you say yes? or no? Were you drunk or high or something?
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Post by Firey Shades Of Blue on Mar 6, 2007 12:34:33 GMT -5
my friend thats a girl was raped by her fiance. so dont feel ashamed or anything k
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Post by folieencadrante on Mar 6, 2007 15:30:24 GMT -5
i was..we had spent the day together...an we get bak home and he starts fooling around...only i sed..i didnt want to n then he was like come on only i kept pushing him away n he got angry and sed that if i wasnt gonna fool around with him he was going to take me...i'm..well..was a virgin....
and he held me down only i kept sayin no..kept yelling for him to stop but he hit me an told me to shut up n he...hurt me...
nvr seen him like that..n we werent drnk or high cuz neither of us drink or use ( i used to but stopped cuz he hated it)
and he just...hurt me...had...sex with me even tho i kept screaming for him to stop...
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Post by xbrokenxdreams on Mar 6, 2007 17:44:25 GMT -5
Then yes that is rape. Im so sorry. Ive been in that situation before. Leave him. Now. Before it gets worse, and yes it will get worse.
Im so sorry that happened *hugs*
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Post by folieencadrante on Mar 6, 2007 19:06:56 GMT -5
im scared to leave him...what if he..hurts me again...
i left his house crying..n he was like "serves youright"
an' i havent left my own house since n he calls but i dont pick up n i dont kno what to do...
he cant have..done this..he cant have..he's...
i feel so...stupid. i hate myself how did i LET THIS HAPPEN god its so MESSED UP I'M SO MESSED UP
*curls up* its my own damned fault. i just *beep*ing deserved it
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Post by Beautiful Disaster on Mar 6, 2007 20:55:46 GMT -5
Lets get one thing straight no one deserves to be raped or violated. This was not your fault by any means and you should not blame yourself. You said no, you tried to stop it, you did what you could. He was wrong by persueing it when it was clear it was something you didn't want. Why does it "serve you right"? I don't think raping someone and abusing them is a way to get back at them for anything. He was 100% wrong in what he did. He has no right to take advantage of you or touch you in any way you didn't feel comfortable with. You didn't let anything happen, how were you suppose to know he was going to force himself on you? I'm really sorry you had to experiance something so tragic like this. He once was your boyfriend correct? That is so terrible. I send you my condolances, I hope you can work this out and get what you need to recover from this. Remember we are here all the time for anything you need. Don't answer his calls, go to the doctor/hospital now and get checked. If you want him to get what he does deserve you need to gather "evidence" of what happened. The sooner the better. This may be something your not feeling like doing but it has to be done. They need to prove it happened for something to be done. This does not mean you are lieing or they think you are lieing, we all know evidence speaks louder then words in a court room or wherever else. Stay Strong folieencadrante
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Post by xbrokenxdreams on Mar 6, 2007 21:12:31 GMT -5
im scared to leave him...what if he..hurts me again... i left his house crying..n he was like "serves youright" an' i havent left my own house since n he calls but i dont pick up n i dont kno what to do... he cant have..done this..he cant have..he's... i feel so...stupid. i hate myself how did i LET THIS HAPPEN god its so MESSED UP I'M SO MESSED UP *curls up* its my own damned fault. i just *beep*ing deserved it NOOOO Its NOT your fault. NO ONE ever deserves that EVER. Please please please try and leave him I know you think you love him and he loves you but he doesnt. And you can find somone sooooo much better. I was in that situation and I didnt leave until he almost killed me. Now he thinks he owns me and he still wont leave me alone. Its been 2 years since I was with him and he is still harassing me because I still havent called the cops. It hurts me and it hurts my current boyfriend and our relationship. DONT let that happen to you. Leave him now before he thinks he has complete control of you. Tell the cops. GET HELP. PLEASE Trust me I know how hard it is but its what you need to do. PM me anytime if you want to talk <3333
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Post by Beautiful Disaster on Mar 6, 2007 21:21:07 GMT -5
Haven't you already left him?
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Post by WilD CherrY on Mar 6, 2007 22:24:58 GMT -5
That is rape. Why are you scared to leave? He will hurt you more if you stay. Have you told anyone in real life?
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Post by littlemikey on Mar 6, 2007 23:35:22 GMT -5
You need to get out of there as soon as possible. Call the police if you are scared he'll hurt you again. You NEED to tell someone, so they can do something about it.
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