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Cutting
Apr 20, 2006 19:27:41 GMT -5
Post by [Taboo] on Apr 20, 2006 19:27:41 GMT -5
i have resenty become a cutter and would like some help. any thing will help. and i mean ANYTHING.
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Cutting
Apr 20, 2006 19:31:25 GMT -5
Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Apr 20, 2006 19:31:25 GMT -5
How about we start with why you are cutting.
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Cutting
Apr 20, 2006 19:34:21 GMT -5
Post by [Taboo] on Apr 20, 2006 19:34:21 GMT -5
it helps me to deal with my stress
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Cutting
Apr 20, 2006 19:41:08 GMT -5
Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Apr 20, 2006 19:41:08 GMT -5
Well, first of all you have to eliminate what makes you stressed out. If you deal with the problems that stress you out you have no reaons or nothing making you want to cut.
To fix the problem you have to get down to the start of the problem.
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Cutting
Apr 20, 2006 19:49:28 GMT -5
Post by [Taboo] on Apr 20, 2006 19:49:28 GMT -5
well some times its not stress and i dont even know what makes me stressed.......i just dont know. at first i thought it was stress till i did it today.
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Cutting
Apr 20, 2006 20:00:12 GMT -5
Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Apr 20, 2006 20:00:12 GMT -5
What were you thinking about before you cut?
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Cutting
Apr 20, 2006 20:03:10 GMT -5
Post by [Taboo] on Apr 20, 2006 20:03:10 GMT -5
how i didnt keep my prommise to myself not to cut till my friend got back on her trip.
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Cutting
Apr 20, 2006 20:08:22 GMT -5
Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Apr 20, 2006 20:08:22 GMT -5
So theres nothing else you just thought I'm going to cut and Im breaking a promise? Did you have an arguement with someone or did something stress you out? What made you want to cut. Sorry I don't know what to say if I dont know what happened prior. How long before this have you not cut?
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Cutting
Apr 20, 2006 20:11:48 GMT -5
Post by [Taboo] on Apr 20, 2006 20:11:48 GMT -5
i dont know what triggered it but i went a week with out cutting.
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Cutting
Apr 20, 2006 20:20:10 GMT -5
Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Apr 20, 2006 20:20:10 GMT -5
One week is a long time for someone who struggles with it daily, Do you really want to go back after you made some progress? If you keep cutting all those days of not cutting won't mean anything really. Everyone who SI's has there slips and cut after being SI free. It could just be one of those times. What I would suggest is think hard about what happened today that made you have the urge and find some more coping mechinisms so you don't resort to cutting again.
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Cutting
Apr 20, 2006 20:33:24 GMT -5
Post by [Taboo] on Apr 20, 2006 20:33:24 GMT -5
i think it might have been me finding a razor in a cabnet by my computer i figured know one would know i have it sence it was hidden behid a bunch of stuff.
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Cutting
Apr 20, 2006 21:22:53 GMT -5
Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Apr 20, 2006 21:22:53 GMT -5
Sorry my friend was having some problems.
Anyways, Do you think that if you don't have any razors around or sharp objects you'll be okay?
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Cutting
Apr 20, 2006 22:15:13 GMT -5
Post by [Taboo] on Apr 20, 2006 22:15:13 GMT -5
yea i guess but theres no way i could get rid of it its just i dont know. i want to cutt so baddly right now but i know i cant.
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Cutting
Apr 20, 2006 22:35:30 GMT -5
Post by Rachel on Apr 20, 2006 22:35:30 GMT -5
Ok lets start with,is there anything in your life thats significantly difficult or that hurts/stresses you out alot? And also,how long have you cut? How many times a week would you say you do it? Was cutting the first form of SH you did? Or did you start harming yourself another way,and then started with cutting..?
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Cutting
Apr 20, 2006 22:47:29 GMT -5
Post by [Taboo] on Apr 20, 2006 22:47:29 GMT -5
no not that i can think of......and i started on march 28th......well i dont know i had stoped and then i had cut once or twice a day .......... no it wasnt i have struggled with suicide for a wile and the i tryed chokeing my self to deth.......then i started cutting after i passed our 4 times and relized im just going to pass out befor i die.
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Cutting
Apr 20, 2006 23:41:22 GMT -5
Post by Rachel on Apr 20, 2006 23:41:22 GMT -5
Well i cant really give you any advice at this very moment because im going through the same thing. But if you ever want to pm me or email me,then your welcome to,anytime,anyday.
1 more question: What exactly are you wanting to achieve through making this thread? Are you just needing someone to tell that your cutting,looking for advice,or want help on how to stop cutting?
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Cutting
Apr 21, 2006 0:34:32 GMT -5
Post by [Taboo] on Apr 21, 2006 0:34:32 GMT -5
looking for Advice mostly
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