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Post by ily on Jun 30, 2006 5:25:45 GMT -5
well my boyfriend has been calling other chicks hot...beautiful...gorgeous and been flirting with them behind me back...so i got angry at cut and he said if i cut again hes going to leave me...but im just too hurt to care...i thought he loved me...i thought i was the only one he needed...but looks like im wrong...he rang me and asked me what was wrong but i didnt tell me so he hung up on me...what did i do wrong? all i ever did was try to be the perfect girlfriend! why am i never good enough for anyone? im so angry and i put a whole in my wall and i told him i hated him and didnt want to talk to him or see him for the rest of the holidays [two weeks]...did i over-react...?
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Post by Marzon on Jul 1, 2006 0:26:24 GMT -5
Guys are stupid, and this is one of the reasons why. If he does things like this, while saying you're the one he needs, he didn't mean it and it doesn't mean as much to him as it does to you. As grim as that might seem, it's better to think this instead of being ignorant and remain hurt. As far as over-reacting, people act differently. When I'm upset, I'm emotional, some people might be physical. In my opinion, leave this guy because it this is annoying you and he makes you mad, you deserve someone better.
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Post by GrapeJuice on Jul 1, 2006 3:33:58 GMT -5
I don't think so its clear hes not comitted as much as you. Leave him be and let him go you can do soo much better being comitted to one isn't flirting with other girls when your not there. Your pain isn't worth it.
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Post by ily on Jul 1, 2006 4:39:16 GMT -5
hmmm...i cant leave him though because i cant live without him...hes everything to me...i just dont know what to do i want to believe that im the only one he wants but i just i just dont know i just cant leave him because i love him so much i have been only a day without him talking to me or anything and i really cant handle it all day ive been in tears and i just want him to want me and want me only...and hes always telling me when im upset and want to kill myself or cut to talk to him but how can i talk to him when he wont talk to me? i seriously just dont want to go on anymore...
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Post by Marzon on Jul 1, 2006 15:20:44 GMT -5
Ask him how he feels about you, ask him why he does the things he does. It takes two people for a relationship to work, and it seems you're the one most commited to it. And I understand why you can't let go, you're doing nothing wrong. But that might be wrong in the long run if this hurts you even more.
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Post by Alcohol4ever on Jul 14, 2006 12:47:52 GMT -5
Everyone above me, has taken the words right out of my mouth!
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Post by MuHa Feel the Wrath on Jul 14, 2006 15:47:21 GMT -5
Guys are stupid, and this is one of the reasons why. If he does things like this, while saying you're the one he needs, he didn't mean it and it doesn't mean as much to him as it does to you. As grim as that might seem, it's better to think this instead of being ignorant and remain hurt. As far as over-reacting, people act differently. When I'm upset, I'm emotional, some people might be physical. In my opinion, leave this guy because it this is annoying you and he makes you mad, you deserve someone better.
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Post by ily on Jul 14, 2006 22:56:11 GMT -5
yeah well now we having even bigger problems he dumped me but then wanted me make and silly me took him back and now whenever he gets angry he takes it out on me [theres more to it in my journal about it] and now hes saying he doesnt want to lose me but its not making me feel any better and i was so close to killing myself for him but yeah i just cant handle it i mean i just cant let him go...and right now its like he loves me more then i love him...i think! and like if someone hurts me as bad as he did i start being a b*tch to them and now hes like oh you dont want to go out with me why are you doing this to me! but i just cant handle getting hurt and i go to people saying i want to die and all they can say is if you go i go and stupid stuff like that they dont actually ask why i want to and how much im going to hurt people and all that they just say if you go ill follow...grrr it makes me even more depressed then i am now! and ive never been this depressed before
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Post by Marzon on Jul 18, 2006 16:44:07 GMT -5
If it's getting physical, and you're not feeling any happier, you should think about telling someone that can do something.
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Post by Beautiful Disaster on Jul 19, 2006 17:01:26 GMT -5
What do you mean he takes it out on you? If your having so much stress then maybe you should atleast take a break. Whats making you so sad?
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Post by goochmonster on Jul 29, 2006 19:44:02 GMT -5
I'm really sorry for the way you are feeling, but the replies to your original post are off. First of all, 1 guy doesn't equal all guys. Second of all, just like guys don't know alot about girls because A-they are confusing as hell, b-always want u to guess and play a game. Girls don't know anything about guys either and how they operate.
teeny bopper males are gonna be immature and stupid, but most guys grow up and mature as they get older, nad there are still some dumbasses out there and your bf seems to be one of them.
There are plenty of guys out there, and all I can say is that you will be just fine without him, he seems not to care so why should you waste all your time and energy donig that? You have better things to do, and I'm sure you will find the person who deserves to have you in your life.
Good luck.
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