Marzon
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Post by Marzon on Jul 18, 2006 16:55:20 GMT -5
I was friends with a girl for three years, I talked to her everyday a long time ago. We were serious, but it was starting to go down hill months and months ago without me knowing it, I thought we were great. It got to the point where we fought and were apart for a few months, the worst time of my life. I went from the happiest person in the world to being told I could be arrested for stalking (friend told me), so that made things worse.
Anywho, just recently, we started talking again. But, I a guy came into the picture and it feels like she has feelings for him like she had for me. I said congratulations about her friend (I don't like him, makes me depressed), and she was annoyed and said they weren't dating or anything.. so that made me a little happy I guess.
She's at band camp and I worry, and I haven't talked to her for a month, that isn't making anything better. But when we talk, I feel like she doesn't want to, and she says not to ramble and waste her time. I think she said that because she was sick. I don't want to think about what to say, I want to just say things.
So what would you do to get things back to how they were, where she says "My life is meaningless without you..you've saved my life like a million times.." ?
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Post by Sparkle on Jul 19, 2006 0:37:24 GMT -5
Firstly, what do you mean by 'she was sick?'
Secondly, I htink you should let her go. If you truly love her, you won't keep trying to make this happen. Move on- she doesn't ound right for you, look for some one better suited to you. I think she's made it clear it ill never work.
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Marzon
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Post by Marzon on Jul 19, 2006 16:48:11 GMT -5
I mean physically sick, and she was worried about that.
And I think I wasn't so clear to what I wanted. I wanted to be happy, there isn't anything to do to stop worrying? And you don't really understand how it was. One minute she's fine, then times she's annoyed, it's real dynamic. I don't want it to be like before we split up for a while, more like a year or two ago. Anything I can do?
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Post by Beautiful Disaster on Jul 19, 2006 16:55:53 GMT -5
When she says that above, Just say then why? Why does it have to be like this?
I don't understand why you guys got like this, Could you explain that more. And you said you were friends but to me by what you said it sounds like you guys dated?
I know its hard to have to move on when you don't want to but if you didn't do anything wrong and shes just being like this then maybe you are waisting your time.
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Marzon
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Post by Marzon on Jul 19, 2006 17:54:59 GMT -5
I might as well bring everyone up to speed. By "talk" I mean online. And why things go like this was because one day we talked about a relationship, I said something wrong, like be friends, I was young.. and stupid. Yes, things were great, she said she might not feel exactly like "that" again. Slowly, things got bad, but not at first. I can't ask her why it's like this because she gets angry, really angry. All I want is to be happy and not worry about what to say so things won't get bad again. I've had so many second chances, it's like I'm on my third. If that's saying something, I don't know what is. I'm not happy with anyone else I am with her, I tried getting new friends, doesn't work.
Anything? Anyone?
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Post by vy on Jul 28, 2006 1:37:03 GMT -5
Dear Marzon:
I feel bad for you, but sometimes when that chance is gone. It's gone. I suggest that you go easy on yourself, and just go with the flow.
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