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Post by papercuttsinthehea on Mar 8, 2006 21:06:27 GMT -5
Well here's my story in short term. I like this guy named Milton alot and recently we've been getting to know eachother more, even told my parents about him, which i never do when i meet a guy i like. so this guy is rly important to me. well mon. he asked me to be his gf and i said yes of course and things have been great ever since. hes rly amazing. but in the 8th grade these rumors started about me that only lead to more...those rumors ruined my life. i lost most of my friends, my first love, and my reputation. well i never told milton about those rumors, it never slipped my mine until one his friends found some out and told him. milton was rly rly worried that i was lieing to him and i wasnt. none of the rumors were true. and once i told him about them he believe me and said he wouldnt listen to anyone. but ive lost relationships to these rumors and before i never rly cared but with milton its different. i think im in luv again...which hasnt happened since my first luv and now im afraid im gunna lose him. i mentioned to him that i was worried but he told me not to and that he luved me and that he would never hurt me...i believe him with all my heart, but im afraid to get to attached to him just in case he doesnt work out. i dont want to get hurt again. what should i do?
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Post by Beautiful Disaster on Mar 8, 2006 21:10:12 GMT -5
Okay he told you that he loves you and he's not going to hurt you right? Has he ever lied to you before? Do you have a reason NOT to trust him?
I think if he is a trustworthy guy you should trust him. Explain your situation out to him and just be open.
If he has created a doubt in the past with being able to trust him then maybe be a little more cautious.
Just take it slow and see how things go.
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Post by papercuttsinthehea on Mar 8, 2006 21:12:33 GMT -5
Thanks. That helps. And I dont have a reason to not trust him. He's never lied to me and neither have I too him. I can only hope that if his friend keeps saying stuff that he'll just keep ignoring it. Thanks for the advice. I think things will be just fine.
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Post by Beautiful Disaster on Mar 8, 2006 21:14:23 GMT -5
Thats's good how long have you been going out with him?
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Post by papercuttsinthehea on Mar 8, 2006 21:37:23 GMT -5
For a few days, but even weeks before then it felt like we were going out. It so easy to talk to him and even though we were sooo shy to talk to eachother at first we clicked when we finally did. It defiantly feels like we've been together longer, but offically only since mon.
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Post by Italian Stallion on Mar 8, 2006 21:46:10 GMT -5
okay Im a guy Hi my name is sean. Welcome to the site.
if you can trust him and he hasn't lied to you yet then trust him. Always giver someone the benifit of the doubt that way u can find out who someone truely is.
if I was him I wouldn't care what any of the rumors were because thats in the past.!
goodluck
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Post by papercuttsinthehea on Mar 8, 2006 22:04:38 GMT -5
Thanks. That helps a lot. I trust him, and I'm just going to have to believe that things will work out. I never doubt they will.
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Post by papercuttsinthehea on Mar 8, 2006 22:06:04 GMT -5
I ment I know they will work out...that kinda didnt make sense when i put 'I never doubt they will'
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Post by Italian Stallion on Mar 8, 2006 22:19:43 GMT -5
lol its all good. Glad things are going to be okay just always trust untill u have a reason not too.
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Post by papercuttsinthehea on Mar 8, 2006 22:43:01 GMT -5
Thank. Ill keep that in mind.
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Post by MuHa Feel the Wrath on Mar 9, 2006 0:03:30 GMT -5
Good advice wouldunotice
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Post by pretzelofconfusion on Mar 9, 2006 10:35:26 GMT -5
i agree with all of them. just try to keep an open line of communication and make sure you both know that you must tell each other the truth about everything. one small thing can lead to many many more and lead to bigger problems. im sorry about the rumors that kids started about you i know that must be pretty awful. keep in mind that they are in the past and if he ever starts to doubt you remind him that there is no evidence or anything to make him believe that any of those rumors are true.
hope i helped. good luck! -karlee
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Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Mar 9, 2006 14:31:21 GMT -5
Hey Welcome to Teen Vibe. It looks like your problem may have already been solved but, I would just like to add what I think to the mix although its pretty much the same as everyone else's.
Growing up in school when rumor's are going around about you and you know they aren't true is really hard to go by and I'd like to congratulate you on coming through it.
Even though you have only been going out for a few days I think you should trust him and If he does believe his friends over you then he isn't worth it. If this happens don't worry because there are many other "fish in the sea" that won't break up with you over rumors of the past.
Good luck with everything and I hope that everything goes well between you and your boyfriend.
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on Mar 9, 2006 20:21:13 GMT -5
Good luck with your new boyfriend!! Im Katie by the way!~ welcome to the site !~
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Post by papercuttsinthehea on Mar 9, 2006 20:56:48 GMT -5
Thanks you guys. All your advice has really helped. And I think things are all better now. He hasn't mentioned anything about it so I think he knows he can trust me. So thanks alot and I know what you mean by other fish in the sea but hopefully I'm sticking with him for awhile. Who knows. And hi Katie, I'm Kristina. Its nice to meet you. And thanks again everyone.
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