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Post by papercuttsinthehea on Mar 15, 2006 20:26:41 GMT -5
Ok...well eveyone remembers my first post about my bf Milton. We'll since then things have been going great...im rly attached him and he tells me he trusts me but there this guy named Brandon and this guy has like em for awhile and at one point we went out but he ended up breakin up with me. Well Milton and Brandon do not like eachother and sat. brandon tried getting me to cheat on milton with him and made up lies saying that i was flirting with him. Because I told brandon that i didnt like him and that nothing would happen between us again he got rly pist off and hes been telling milton's friends more lies. Milton says he doesnt believe them but hes confused becuz in one lie brandon said something about me cheating which i never did and now milton is scared that i would cheat on him like the rest of his gfs did. i would have no intention of doing that to him. so now we r just friends so he can have a couple of days to get his thoughts strait and decided what he wants to do, and im so afraid of losing him, and i dont know what to do about brandon. hes trying to ruin my life. what should i do?
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Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Mar 15, 2006 20:41:53 GMT -5
Just when you think things are going good eh?
You need to talk to both of them or both or them togther. I would go to Brandon and tell him how pathetic he is for lying and making up shit. Then I would go to Milton and tell him that Brandon is only making those up because you regected him and he is in " pay back mode". I think Milton would be understanding. I would demand that Brandon tell Milton the truth and set the story straight.
Explain to Milton that Brandon is jealous and thats why he's spreading rumors hoping that he will break up with you. I would say to Milton " So you're letting him win " or something along those lines.
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Post by L.B on Mar 15, 2006 20:59:46 GMT -5
Well I read your previous post about rumor problems and I think that if he says he trusts you then he wouldn't of taken a "break" to figure things out. This only shows me that he is unsure about if your telling the truth or not and he doesn't trust you. You should talk to him and make it clear that is in fact not true and if he did trust you he wouldn't of wanted to take a break. I think if this continues with different rumors and him wanting this break I would move on. He doesn't trust you and he has showed that by his actions. Be with someone who you trust and you can count on to believe you when you are telling the truth. These so called "friends" of yours aren't friends at all because no REAL friends would try to break people up or start or continue rumors about their friends. Get the trust and respect you deserve or move on! Don't play anymore of these games and I'd suggest you not talk to Brandon anymore if he is going to do things like that.
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Post by stars2mind on Mar 15, 2006 21:21:49 GMT -5
um they have givin you some great advice......all you can do is like tell that boy that you love ur bf and that he's being a bother....
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Post by MuHa Feel the Wrath on Mar 15, 2006 21:36:24 GMT -5
Tell brandon to *beep* off and tell milton to believe you or *beep* off
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Post by papercuttsinthehea on Mar 15, 2006 21:40:12 GMT -5
Thanks....I'm not sure whats going to happen. Ive been in a waiting postion before with the first guy i ever luved and it didnt work out and i ended up getting hurt rly badly. i rly hope things workout better this time...otherwise i have no idea wat im gunna do.
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Post by Dregond [Gone] on Mar 16, 2006 2:21:42 GMT -5
dont worry if he loves you he'll belive you.
meh, guys have peety conflicts someteims so they do that shit.. tsktsk.
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Post by papercuttsinthehea on Mar 16, 2006 21:15:43 GMT -5
Yea. well im not so sure im gunna have much of a future with this guy. As of rite now we are friends becuz he wants a couple days to think and get all his thoughts together becuz hes rly confused. Blah. I dunno guys just suck sometimes. All I do is try and find someone whos gunna respect me and like me for me, and not lie...and all but no. theres like no guy like that. and if there are i just havent meet them yet. o well.
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Post by aod on Mar 17, 2006 5:33:37 GMT -5
girls do aswell ask me 35 girls with in 6 months been dumped by all of them
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Post by Andrew on Mar 17, 2006 7:31:45 GMT -5
If Milton needs time to think things over, he really doesn't trust you as much as he first said he did. In essence, he lied to you, while all you have done to him since the trouble started is tell him the truth.
Like a few other people said, I would Brandon, tell him again that nothing will ever happen between the two of you, and that he's the most immature person you've ever met. Somebody who spreads rumors really needs to get to know themselves better.
After that, go back to Milton and tell him once more everything that he has heard was a lie. He should believe you. If he doesn't, or says "I need time to think things over", he's not worth your time, no matter how much you like him.
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Post by Dreamers Dream on Mar 17, 2006 7:43:49 GMT -5
I agree with Andrew and I hope everything works out for you!
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Post by papercuttsinthehea on Mar 17, 2006 19:33:01 GMT -5
Thanks. I think I'm getting to the point where I shouldn't like him anymore. You guys are right. He shouldn't have to think it over if he already believes me. And now he acuses me of not talking to him whenever we are hanging out. We never have anything to say to eachother. Even when we were together it was like that. I'm just get my hopes up for nothing, just like before and I'm not going to deal with it. If he still likes me like he says he does then he gunna have to really fight hard for me back cause I'm just wasting my time waiting for him. Hopefully theres some other guy out there whos right enough for me. And AOD im sorry about the girls. That must be really hard. And Andrew, thanks that helps alot.
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Post by stars2mind on Mar 18, 2006 0:47:49 GMT -5
how much do you love him on a scale of 1-10 ten being you would die for him!
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Post by aod on Mar 18, 2006 2:29:41 GMT -5
interesting its amazing that love can lead to insanity
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Post by stars2mind on Mar 18, 2006 2:49:44 GMT -5
i know....i know that...look what it did to me!!!
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Post by Dregond [Gone] on Mar 18, 2006 3:30:26 GMT -5
it can very well lead to insanity. because when the love you give isnt returned it becomes an obsession for reasons why it wasnt.
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Post by stars2mind on Mar 18, 2006 3:46:10 GMT -5
i guess that the way the cookie crumbles....idk why i said that..well it was stuck in my head for awhile cause my teacher says that to me...lol
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