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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on May 10, 2006 18:44:57 GMT -5
Is it wrong to date your bestfriends ex-bf even when they have been broken up for 3 years. Keep in mind they are still really close friends.
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Post by Kat on May 10, 2006 18:54:39 GMT -5
Hmm, I don't know, is it wrong to like someone?
((Obviously not. So why would it be wrong to date someone, whether they're your best friend's ex or not?))
I don't see how it could be. If they're still really close friends, and they've been broken up for three years, then chances are that all they really want is to be friends; they tried something more than that, it didn't work out, so they're both doing what they really want in their relationship.
Furthermore, your best friend will hopefullly understand. It's not a huge deal...so why make it one? If she's close friends with him, then she's obviously not mad at him about their break up, and if they're broken up, then they're nothing more than friends...so why not?
Good Luck! ;D
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Post by !Dances With Hamsters! on May 11, 2006 4:16:40 GMT -5
WELL I dont know If it was me I would talk to my friend about it before hand, Best friends can be forever and guys come and go. I wouldn't give up a friendship for a relationship unless I was already in a long term relationship and my best friend tried to get with my girl.
Theres nothing wrong with liking him it all depends on how much you care for your friendship and If your friend will be angry.
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Post by allianne on May 13, 2006 1:29:42 GMT -5
Yeah, talk to your friend first. It's not worth getting into a huge fight about it. I think it'd be unfair of her to ask you not to date him...but I still wouldn't cause trouble over a guy.
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Post by xoxtomoxox on May 23, 2006 9:42:25 GMT -5
because i don't really no the details i cant say much,but if you love your friend and theres any risk atal!! of her getting hurt then don't do it! these situations are always messy,iv been trough it myself,my opinion is its not worth it,your friend will always have something to hang over your head and the friendship could end up destroyed ,,,,, Good luck love tomo xxx
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Post by bgolem30 on Jun 1, 2006 18:54:38 GMT -5
just go for it. if your friend wants you to be happy she shouldn't care, it's been 3 years, she shouldn't care.
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