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Post by allianne on May 30, 2006 1:47:25 GMT -5
(I get to use a new smiley! yay! lol) Okay, i've had boyfriends and stuff before. But, none of my relationships with them last long. There's a lot of stuff going on in my life, and I don't want to tell him those kind of things. I mean, I could go on and on about stuff that's troubling and stressing me out, but I feel that if I were to actually and completely be honest to him about everything that he would freak out and stop talking to me. People always say that u gotta be honest and not be afraid to tell things when ur in a relationship. But, I feel like such an outcast! There are things that I will only tell my best friend. And when he'll ask what's wrong, I don't want to tell him because it's just so personal. Now, it's harder for me to actually get close to my boyfriends. I feel like I'm always hiding secrets and it's hurting my relationships. There is this guy that I really like, but I don't want it to just last for a few weeks. How can I feel more comfortable around him? It just seems like I'll never have one of those open relationships. I'm not sure if it's because I don't trust them or what... It's hard to put into words, but I explained it the best I could. Hope you guys can understand it.
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L.B
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Post by L.B on May 30, 2006 4:43:31 GMT -5
Wait until your comfortable telling him stuff. I wouldnt just say everything in the first couple weeks. These things are obviously really personall for you that why your not telling people. I think its better to wait awhile until you open up to someone it always works better that way. I love the new smilies dont you?
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Post by Italian Stallion on May 30, 2006 5:49:21 GMT -5
You probably dont trust to tell b/cuz of what happened at that party. sorry if Im wrong
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Post by allianne on May 31, 2006 23:04:00 GMT -5
But I never get that comfortable after we've been dating for a while. It always ends up where we don't really go anywhere... I'm not exactly sure why. But yeah, I don't have the best experiences with guys.
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