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Post by Beans Meanz Heinz on May 30, 2006 15:50:58 GMT -5
My boyfriend's 18 and I've just turned 16. I don't care about the age gap and neither does he. But my mam doesn't really like it, she got drunk the other day and that's the only time she'll confront me about stuff. So she strarted saying that I'm only 16 I shouldn't being be getting too serious with him, but it kind of is serious we both love each other and if it's up to us we will spend the rest of out lives together. But my mam basically told me that I had to just be friends with him so that it didn't get in the way of my school work. And she thinks I''m naieve and vunerable and thinks I'm going to get in too deep and get hurt. It's kind of getting me down, and there's no way I'm dumping him to please my mam. I just don't want to have to choose between him and my mam. I just don't know what to do about it.
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on May 30, 2006 16:56:08 GMT -5
I think its normal for your mom to care all parents do that but since she only voices her opnion when shes drunk I wouldn't worry about it too much. You don't have to choose between your mom and boyfriend if you don't want to. Ignore her when shes drunks.
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Post by !Dances With Hamsters! on May 30, 2006 21:51:06 GMT -5
Parents tend to think we aren't "smart" and underesitiimate us alot. Its normal.. it happens. If you feel safe with this dude then its your choice. I think if you like him you should stay with him. No need to choose parents or boyfriend - have the best of both worlds! Be smart about your decisions though show your mom your mature enough to handle it. Sometimes all they need is to see it too put their worrys away. Good Luck! Sounds like you guys really like/love each other.
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Post by L.B on May 31, 2006 5:42:37 GMT -5
You can be with him and still have it not get in the way of your school work you just have to balance everything out accodingly. Like if you spend a extra 2 hours with him then the next day you do two hours extra of home work. I think if you keep your priorities in check then nothings wrong with it. Try not to make and hasty decisions until your like 18-19 or so (like moving in together etc,)
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Post by Beans Meanz Heinz on May 31, 2006 16:46:58 GMT -5
Thanks for the advice. I'v chose to ignore it until she says something more about it. And I'm trying my best to balance school work and social life, it's quite hard but I think I can do it, but my exams will be over soon so I can relax. And L.B I don't plan on making any decisions, I'm not gunna rush into anything.
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Post by Beautiful Disaster on May 31, 2006 17:15:04 GMT -5
Exams suck!! They take up so much time! You have all summer to work something out tho. Good luck with everything!
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