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Post by WilD CherrY on Jun 22, 2006 21:34:00 GMT -5
omg im in such a weird position, my bf (dating 2yrs) or my bestfriend knowen for about 2 yrs or so.. me and my bestfriend flirt alot when my bfs not around and hes told me he loves me as I have told him that too and I love my boyfriend. but I dunno I want both and I love both the same and like my boyfriend doesn't know i act this way with my best friend
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Post by vy on Jun 23, 2006 14:28:51 GMT -5
Dear Wild Cherry:
Doesn't sound like a pleasant situation to be in. I'm guessing that you feel torn because you have a boyfriend, and in some ways - you feel like you are going behind his back?
Maybe it's time to be honest to him, and be honest to yourself. Maybe sit down and think about what you really want: you're saying you want them both right? - well, is your boyfriend open to dating other people? The best thing I can suggest is to be honest to your boyfriend. That will save you the guilt, and will allow the three of you to openly discuss the problem.
Good luck Cherry.
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Post by littlemikey on Jun 25, 2006 2:57:19 GMT -5
Dear Wild Cherry: Doesn't sound like a pleasant situation to be in. I'm guessing that you feel torn because you have a boyfriend, and in some ways - you feel like you are going behind his back? Maybe it's time to be honest to him, and be honest to yourself. Maybe sit down and think about what you really want: you're saying you want them both right? - well, is your boyfriend open to dating other people? The best thing I can suggest is to be honest to your boyfriend. That will save you the guilt, and will allow the three of you to openly discuss the problem. Good luck Cherry. That is good advice, I agree
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Post by WilD CherrY on Jun 25, 2006 16:25:53 GMT -5
Dear Wild Cherry: Doesn't sound like a pleasant situation to be in. I'm guessing that you feel torn because you have a boyfriend, and in some ways - you feel like you are going behind his back? Maybe it's time to be honest to him, and be honest to yourself. Maybe sit down and think about what you really want: you're saying you want them both right? - well, is your boyfriend open to dating other people? The best thing I can suggest is to be honest to your boyfriend. That will save you the guilt, and will allow the three of you to openly discuss the problem. Good luck Cherry. yah im just having a hard time deciding what I want to do i mean I like them both so much so it makes it so hard and no he isnt open to dating other people so that kind of sucks but not alot of people are. thanks for your advice
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on Jun 26, 2006 16:00:34 GMT -5
Who do you like more, get along with better have more in common instead of just basing it on who you love more.
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Post by vy on Jun 26, 2006 21:13:11 GMT -5
Dear Wild Cherry:
Your welcome.
Something you might want to try, to figure out who you like more is:
Ask yourself who you can't see yourself living without?
Or
Tell the two that you need a little space, and see who you miss more - most likely, the one you like more will be the one you miss more.
Good Luck Wild Cherry.
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