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Post by Madyson on Aug 7, 2006 8:00:18 GMT -5
I have an LDR right now and I am so extremely lonely. I love my boyfriend very much, but this distance is just so hard. I never get to see him and we stopped talking on the phone as often because the bills were so high. I've tried breaking up with him and finding a local boy, but I have such an emotion attachment to my boyfriend that I can't even bring myself to date others. I love him so so much and I wish we were closer, but since we aren't I just don't know what to do. He's coming up for Christmas but then who knows when I'll see him again. Every time I tell him I have doubts he gets upset. When I broke up with him before he even cried. I felt horrible. How can I possibly get rid of this overwhelming loneliness and still be with my boyfriend?
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Post by Honey Beeswax on Aug 7, 2006 14:52:52 GMT -5
cant u still have guy friends?
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Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Aug 7, 2006 18:33:18 GMT -5
Lond distant relationships are very hard and usually they don't work out. You have to put 100 times extra effort into it as you would a close distance relationship. Before you put in the extra effort make sure its something you really want and same for him.
You can always write letters, You have a computer so you can Instant Message, Send e-mails, possibably get a web cam and microphone (if he has the same). Send pictures in the mail and so forth.
It can work out if the effort on both sides is there. In the mean time go on with your everyday life, Hang out with friends, be with family etc. That will help fill the gap of lonleiness.
You said you broke up with him before but he cried and you felt horrible, Is that the reason you got back together? Its never a good idea to go out with someone just because you feel bad. If thats the case then I wouldn't try and make it work as you already seem to be in a different place then he is.
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Post by Maddy on Aug 15, 2006 7:56:31 GMT -5
Thanks admin that helped alot you have no idea!
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Post by WilD CherrY on Aug 16, 2006 12:51:31 GMT -5
So are you going to go for it?
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Post by Southern_Cowgirl on Aug 16, 2006 16:46:14 GMT -5
i know how u feel cuz im in a long distance relationship but it aint that far away but its hard at times but u still love them no matter what but just try and see if it works out
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Post by Madddie on Aug 16, 2006 16:53:25 GMT -5
thanks! I know I love him but I dont like the idea of the long distance thing. I wouldnt put much effort into it but I dont want to make him upset.
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Post by Southern_Cowgirl on Aug 16, 2006 20:22:03 GMT -5
i dont like long distance relationships either but i'm trying sooo hard for this one to work and my last one lasted 1 year and like 6 months and it was my fault we broke up but just try ur hardest if thats what you want trust me if it meant to work out it will and if it aint then there are other guys
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Post by ♥Monizzle♥ on Sept 19, 2006 0:20:32 GMT -5
Long distance are DEFIANTLY possible but YOU HAVE to be wanting it bad and put allot of effort into it, if you don't it will die...fast!
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