dee__x
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Post by dee__x on Aug 3, 2006 2:29:37 GMT -5
Hunny, it's okay.
The reason your feelings are so intense is because you've had them for so long. You gave yourself to this boy [sexually] while you were still adjusting to new, more mature feelings and emotions, and I can imagine at the time, it probably seemed like he was the only person in the whole world. Like he was made just for you.
We all get swept up at some point; and this guy well and truly caught your heart.
However, the fact that he moved on from you without officially breaking it off, or telling you why, means that you were never given any closure.
This means that although you can recognise that he's no good for you, and that he's even got a new girlfriend, you are unable to move on from him.
You need closure if you want to get over him.
This has very little to do with what's best for him; it's completely about what's best for you. You need to think about yourself for once hun.
The best way to gain closure is by speaking to him. If this is too much you could write a letter [which doesn't ever need to be posted] or you could list all the reasons why he is so wrong for you.
You may not want to move on, but it is definately the best thing to do.
Let me know how it goes sweetie xx
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Post by GrapeJuice on Aug 3, 2006 13:14:04 GMT -5
Dee said it well. You should protect yourself from phsycial harm no matter how much you like or love him. Is it worth a black eye or possibably death to try and get back with him? You could just want him because you can't have him.
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Post by Web Master on Aug 4, 2006 14:22:46 GMT -5
Im confused
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Post by GrapeJuice on Aug 5, 2006 7:51:03 GMT -5
I think the original posted deleted the first thread lol. *Locked*
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Post by stars2mind on Aug 6, 2006 3:34:13 GMT -5
yeah i think so too lol
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